My friend is Transgender........

[PICK3]

You can't be serious. She was..well you know...a?????

I her

 

[blueta2]

she's got a surgically implanted love canal? I bet its tighter than tight

She said her gynecomastia could not tell almost it was constructed, cept for a few things.
I guess she would be tight..........hahah!


Friggin abbrev thingy

HER GYNOCOLOGIST

 

[Mr. dB]

I would NEVER post her pic but yes I have some
And yes Smurf, it works but she has had some issues with it.

And yes I am dead serious. She wants to start dating but believes no normal guy will date her.

I hate to say it, but she's right. It's going to be difficult for a heterosexual male to accept that his partner is XY. I know it would be a deal-breaker with me. She might have better luck with bi dudes, maybe she should hang out at a gay bar?

 

[blueta2]

EXACTLY.
Imagine if she would have just stayed a man!?!?! That would be sad. Imagine if you could never be who you felt like you were? Sad.
I wish her the best.

ahh thanks.....
You know...........she is her authetic self and I never saw her smile this much before her surgery.

 

[Sub-Zero]

i would have to start out friends with the post op, and have to scope it out.

if i randomly hooked up with someone and then later on in the dating process they "broke the news"....well thatd be stupid of them.

tell her to start as friends and be honest and eventually she will find a guy almost as nice as me

 

[blueta2]

Yes, seriously, seriously freaked.

No, he doesn't have all the female parts.

His best bet is to be honest from day one and find someone cool with it. I could not deal with it and I would react very badly. I am guessing that most guys would feel the same.

no, she does have all the parts. She has a vajayjay and a excellent set of boobs, what other parts are there?

 

[superqt4u2nv]

You know I lived in Thailand for years and there are numorous transgender ladies there. It is really just a normal part of their society and you actually know people that have dated or married one.

I would give this advice, she needs to be upfront with the men she dates. Guys get pissed when the find out after the fact.

Some guys dig it. I saw on a special one time on HBO where the guy said it is the perfect relationship - she has the sex drive of a man but all the working parts of a woman.

Good luck to her.

+1 honesty is the best policy.

 

[myway]

Boobs are a totally diffrent ball park. We are talking about cutting off your dick and turning it into a vagina and this is a GUY not a girl. So yea it's WAY diffrent IMO.

Maybe I just don't understand because I am a woman.
I have never needed a boob job but didn't think less of a woman who did.
I love being a woman. If a man spent their entire life feeling like a woman trapped in a man's body...just sounds sad to me.
I think people should get to be what they feel.
Fat men on here are trying to be skinny. Skinny men want to be buff.
No boobed women buy boobs.
Seriously, if everything tells u that u are a woman...whats wrong with changing ur body to match the soul contained within?

 

[blueta2]

i don't know much about this, but i just checked the meaning of transgender, and it seems that this is a general term which encompasses transsexuality. what is your impression of the difference between these two terms?

blueta2, what are you talking about? someone who undergoes surgery to 'become' a woman will never actually be a woman. it doesn't matter what 'she' looks or feels like. obviously, it takes an unusual man to go for that.

being male or female is defined by chromosomes. Trust me, she is a she born with a penis. It happens all the time.

I think it takes a man that is secure with himself to go for that no?

 

[blueta2]

CFO?? $$$$$$$$$ There might be hope for he/she just yet.

yeah she makes serious coin and is moving up. Smart as hell