Men & Cheating

[Basikstylz]

Yes. A situation of my emotional, financial and psychological needs not being met and my staying because of security and fear issues. I've discussed it ad nauseum in this forum. I didn't leave him because of fear (he's huge and mentally unstable and a narcissistic pig) and financial security issues. The day I made enough money to support myself and my child I was out of there. I am still with the man I had the affair with and we celebrated our 7th year wedding anniversary this year.

CONGRATS on the 7year aniv, !!!!

 

[Razorguns]

Yes. A situation of my emotional, financial and psychological needs not being met and my staying because of security and fear issues. I've discussed it ad nauseum in this forum. I didn't leave him because of fear (he's huge and mentally unstable and a narcissistic pig) and financial security issues. The day I made enough money to support myself and my child I was out of there. I am still with the man I had the affair with and we celebrated our 7th year wedding anniversary this year.

There are a lot of men here who would punch you in the face or spit on you for cheating on your man. Personally, I don't care - because of society's double-standard on this issue. Men are glorified, women scorned.

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[calveless wonder]

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[all the whey]

 

[puddlemonkey]

 

[Cutiebaby]

Not all men cheat, and if by chance they do then they wont necessarily do it again.
Men are made out to look like pigs and what not, but they aren't. As much credit as I give to them, I shouldn't cause all men suck LOL. But the point I am getting at is that men are just like woman..They have certain needs that they emotionally need, and when not met they will wander..However, men that open them selves up to the type of behavior such as looking at every woman that walks by, strip clubs, and shit like that are 10 times more likely to cheat as they are subjecting themselves to the normal lustful nature.
Men are just as much to blame as woman when it comes to cheating, and they do it for similar reasons. No particular sex is worse than the other, etc....

 

[cindylou]

Not all men cheat, and if by chance they do then they wont necessarily do it again.
Men are made out to look like pigs and what not, but they aren't. As much credit as I give to them, I shouldn't cause all men suck LOL. But the point I am getting at is that men are just like woman..They have certain needs that they emotionally need, and when not met they will wander..However, men that open them selves up to the type of behavior such as looking at every woman that walks by, strip clubs, and shit like that are 10 times more likely to cheat as they are subjecting themselves to the normal lustful nature.
Men are just as much to blame as woman when it comes to cheating, and they do it for similar reasons. No particular sex is worse than the other, etc....

they have needs - but I dunno about them being emotional

 

[puddlemonkey]

Definitely not emotional.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Well, maybe Samoth, I heard he's emo.

 

[Cutiebaby]

they have needs - but I dunno about them being emotional

Might as well be emotional..Think about it for a sec. A man does not receive oral from their other half, he does not get home cooked meals or a clean house, his wife stops giving sex all together..Men sum that up as "I am macho man, hear me roar"..But deep down that is part of their emotions.