Men are hard to read sometimes

[BlondeBombshell27]

Lee, the new boyfriend, says he doesn't want to get married anytime soon, but he is the one bringing up the subject about marriage and children. Can someone please tell me what he is really saying? Help me put some sense to this. I'm in no big hurry to get married anytime soon. I just got out of a 7 year relationship six months ago. That felt like a marriage to me. I want children someday but not anytime soon. I want to take my sweet time with Lee and I think he does too. Ladies tell me what you think please!

 

[BUBBLES]

Lee, the new boyfriend, says he doesn't want to get married anytime soon, but he is the one bringing up the subject about marriage and children. Can someone please tell me what he is really saying?

That is a good question.
I have been through a similar situation and I have no idea what to make of it.

Sounds like the guy is just b/shitting to make his mark on you but in reality he is committment phobic.

Isn't that some kind of leading on too?

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

Lee got married right out of high school. He was married for 8 and half years. He has been divorced for two and a half years now. We are totally honest with one another. I don't think that he is leading me on in any way and I'm not leading him on in any way either. I just find what he has been saying a little confusing I will bring up to him on Wednesday night when I see him. We had a wondeful night together tonight. I didn't want it to end.

 

[BUBBLES]

He may come back telling you that you read too much into it and all of that is meant to happen in about 10 years from now after he has tried everyother woman around.

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

We are taking our time. We enjoy each other's company. Why rush anything?

 

[*MissFit*]

U've been dating a month.. relax hun

 

[SoKlueles]

Yeah early in the relationship theres alot of fire and sizzle....and u say alot of things, when the relationship gets more mature, then you start thinking with ur head and not ur heart as much. I know i love my bf and someday i want to marry him someday. I think im a monogomous person anyay.... so Im not going anywhere good luck

 

[*MissFit*]

Yeah early in the relationship theres alot of fire and sizzle....and u say alot of things, when the relationship gets more mature, then you start thinking with ur head and not ur heart as much. I know i love my bf and someday i want to marry him someday. I think im a monogomous person anyay.... so Im not going anywhere good luck

 

[Daisy_Girl]

We are taking our time. We enjoy each other's company. Why rush anything?

Like you said, don't rush anything. Why worry about this now? You've been together a month, and it simply is NOT an issue right now. Stop looking SO deeply into every conversation, it will drive you insane.

 

[PaganPunkstress]

I agree w/ Daisy,
dont stress about it so soon.

 

[Sassy69]

Don't read into it.


If guys spent any effort trying to say cryptic things to us with deep hidden meaning, we'd probably understand them better.

 

[Gymgurl]

Maybe he is just trying to see where you stand with things....To make sure that somedays you both want the same things.

 

[velvett]

Lee, the new boyfriend, says he doesn't want to get married anytime soon, but he is the one bringing up the subject about marriage and children. Can someone please tell me what he is really saying? Help me put some sense to this. I'm in no big hurry to get married anytime soon. I just got out of a 7 year relationship six months ago. That felt like a marriage to me. I want children someday but not anytime soon. I want to take my sweet time with Lee and I think he does too. Ladies tell me what you think please!

He wants to know what you think of marriage and children, doesn't mean that he wants either right now - but it's just a way to find out how you feel and what the possibilities providing you find that there is a future together.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Men are simple creatures they are not like us they say what they mean. There is really only 3 things a woman needs to do to keep a man happy: feed him, fuck him and shut the fuck up!

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

I'm relaxing now and taking my time with him. We haven't been together that long. Thank you everyone. I think he was wanting to know where I stand on marriage and children. I'm in no big hurry for either one right now. I just want to take things slow with him. I really like him a lot. I don't want to mess things up with him.

 

[Gymgurl]

Men are simple creatures they are not like us they say what they mean. There is really only 3 things a woman needs to do to keep a man happy: feed him, fuck him and shut the fuck up!

As soon as I can hit you with some K I will that was a classic

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

The selfish and arrogant asshole was just leading me on with all that bull shit. He left me yesterday for some skanky whore that he met at one of the clubs that he works at. What an asshole! I'm taking some serious time from dating to work on myself. My friend Anna is taking me over to get all of my shit from him today.

 

[Bikini Mod]

The selfish and arrogant asshole was just leading me on with all that bull shit. He left me yesterday for some skanky whore that he met at one of the clubs that he works at. What an asshole! I'm taking some serious time from dating to work on myself. My friend Anna is taking me over to get all of my shit from him today.

It's good you found at now, as opposed to months down the road.

A learning experience for sure. Sucks, I know, but in the end a good thing.

 

[Gymgurl]

I agree...better in the beginning then more pain as it grows......hang in there Blondie!!

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

Him and his whore have been talking a lot of shit. He thinks he is all bad ass and that no man can beat his ass. He hasn't met several of my cousin that are former golden gloves boxing champs. They want to use him as a punching bag one night. That would be priceless to see.

 

[velvett]

I'm taking some serious time from dating to work on myself.

Always a good thing.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Him and his whore have been talking a lot of shit. He thinks he is all bad ass and that no man can beat his ass. He hasn't met several of my cousin that are former golden gloves boxing champs. They want to use him as a punching bag one night. That would be priceless to see.

Why all the agression towards that poor unfortunate female?

You should send her roses and THANK HER for taking him off your hands!

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

Why all the agression towards that poor unfortunate female?

You should send her roses and THANK HER for taking him off your hands!

She has been threatening me and harrassing me right along with him.