I understand what ur saying. Unfortunately, he is still not saying anything new. I have talked to anyone who has been in my house(not many people spend time in my home). My parents and his parents BOTH say it sounds fishy... even after speaking to him about it. I'm trying to do what's right. I don't want to raise my child in a home away from his father unless there is no other option. My friends, his friends, EVERYONE said that I should leave. He can't give ANY of us a good answer. This sux.