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MEDICAL advice needed, I need some opinions
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GoldenDelicious
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professional opinion: its in your head. seriously.
a nice way to look at how erections is to write down all the things taht make your dick hard, versus those that make it soft, and think of erections as a tug of war (no pun intended LOL) between those factors
things that make yoru dick hard - visual stimulation, physical stimulation, long periods of no sex, proper build up to sex etc etc etc
things taht make your dick soft - anxiety, depression, pressure to perform, ugly chicks, fangs on her vagina - whatever
what you ahve to do is maximize the things that make you hard and minimise those that make you soft. SO
- abstain from masturbation
- watch GOOD porn in the daytime and dont masturbate
- focus on fun physical activities before sex ie massage
- focus on fun sensations before sex ie skin on skin, warm oil on your skin, whatever
oh and use some viagra.
the only thing thats guarinteed is that the harder you think about your dick, the less hard it will be (ironic? lol)
byyyeee
a nice way to look at how erections is to write down all the things taht make your dick hard, versus those that make it soft, and think of erections as a tug of war (no pun intended LOL) between those factors
things that make yoru dick hard - visual stimulation, physical stimulation, long periods of no sex, proper build up to sex etc etc etc
things taht make your dick soft - anxiety, depression, pressure to perform, ugly chicks, fangs on her vagina - whatever
what you ahve to do is maximize the things that make you hard and minimise those that make you soft. SO
- abstain from masturbation
- watch GOOD porn in the daytime and dont masturbate
- focus on fun physical activities before sex ie massage
- focus on fun sensations before sex ie skin on skin, warm oil on your skin, whatever
oh and use some viagra.
the only thing thats guarinteed is that the harder you think about your dick, the less hard it will be (ironic? lol)
byyyeee
Forge
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OK, some good feedback so far. I'll answer a few questions from above:
- I'm 35
- not under any real stress, kind of in a good place right now
- no history of family heart problems
- I don't juice, nor have I ever
- blood pressure normal
- not on any medications
- 8 partners my whole life, this woman I'm seeing now is the first within a few months
Yeah I got divorced two years ago, but it wasn't a bad one. I've been with two girls since then (three including the one I'm seeing now) and I had no problem with sex with either one.
Mav, I'm not getting morning wood like I used to though. I used to wake up with a raging hard on every single morning, now it's more of a mild one if any at all. But this weekend (with her there to get me revved up) it seemed to respond like it is supposed to. Still, some mornings I have the same problems I've been having. So yeah the plumbing works, but not always it seems.
Mav I'll look into these, I'm guessing none are over the counter?. I know viagra helps with erections, but it's not a cure, simply a symptom remover, correct? I'd rather not learn to depend on a drug to get hard like I used to, I'd rather fix whatever is wrong.
I've been looking but haven't found a good one yet, that's why I asked if anyone here knew of one I could post at.
That's just it, things still get me horny and semi-hard, I just seem to be having trouble getting and especially maintaining a full erection. We've tried massages and lots of foreplay, but getting into the mood doesn't seem to be my issue.
And it's not just sex with my new woman, masturbating is more difficult than it should be due to my less hard penis, I think I'm losing sensitivity due to not being fully erect. Porn that I've masturbated to for years is not giving me a full hard on, it just seems like something is wrong. I may just try not masturbating at all for a bit, maybe the rest will do it some good.
Some good advice here. I really want some blood work done though, if I can't talk this doc into helping me I'm gonna have to go somewhere else. Even if the bloodwork comes back OK it will be one more thing that I know isn't the problem.
I guess I'll try Viagra and see if it helps me out or not. Kind of curious to see if it does, even if I don't want to depend on a crutch for too long a time.
- I'm 35
- not under any real stress, kind of in a good place right now
- no history of family heart problems
- I don't juice, nor have I ever
- blood pressure normal
- not on any medications
- 8 partners my whole life, this woman I'm seeing now is the first within a few months
Yeah I got divorced two years ago, but it wasn't a bad one. I've been with two girls since then (three including the one I'm seeing now) and I had no problem with sex with either one.
Mav, I'm not getting morning wood like I used to though. I used to wake up with a raging hard on every single morning, now it's more of a mild one if any at all. But this weekend (with her there to get me revved up) it seemed to respond like it is supposed to. Still, some mornings I have the same problems I've been having. So yeah the plumbing works, but not always it seems.
Mav I'll look into these, I'm guessing none are over the counter?. I know viagra helps with erections, but it's not a cure, simply a symptom remover, correct? I'd rather not learn to depend on a drug to get hard like I used to, I'd rather fix whatever is wrong.
I've been looking but haven't found a good one yet, that's why I asked if anyone here knew of one I could post at.
That's just it, things still get me horny and semi-hard, I just seem to be having trouble getting and especially maintaining a full erection. We've tried massages and lots of foreplay, but getting into the mood doesn't seem to be my issue.
And it's not just sex with my new woman, masturbating is more difficult than it should be due to my less hard penis, I think I'm losing sensitivity due to not being fully erect. Porn that I've masturbated to for years is not giving me a full hard on, it just seems like something is wrong. I may just try not masturbating at all for a bit, maybe the rest will do it some good.
Some good advice here. I really want some blood work done though, if I can't talk this doc into helping me I'm gonna have to go somewhere else. Even if the bloodwork comes back OK it will be one more thing that I know isn't the problem.
I guess I'll try Viagra and see if it helps me out or not. Kind of curious to see if it does, even if I don't want to depend on a crutch for too long a time.
