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MEDICAL advice needed, I need some opinions

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OK, I have no shame and I need advice. My post on EFBTS hasn't got any responses so here goes:

I've got a case of Erectile Dysfunction. Not complete ED, but maintaining a full erection is proving difficult. Sometimes it's like I get a full hard on for a minute and then it starts to lose the pump. I can maintain about a 3/4 hard on if I really manually stimulate it, but if I stop I lose it. If I stimulate it long enough it seems to come back to full strength, but only for a bit before it goes back to 3/4 or less.

So I went to a urologist last week and he basically told me I'm healthy, it's all in my head, here's some Levitra it will cure your confidence problem. But I know my mind, I know my body, I don't have any kind of confidence problem, and something is wrong with me. The Levitra didn't help at all either.

Normally I get hard from the freaking wind, all it takes is some kissing and touching and I've got a full hard on and ready to go. But not lately, I need to really work myself up to a hard on, and it's difficult to keep it. My libido seems down from what it normally is. I'm still horny but not like I should be. I've been a bit more tired lately than I normally am. And it's been much harder for me to reach an orgasm than it used to be, so hard that I almost think of giving up trying sometimes, especially while masturbating.

The woman I'm seeing lately has been working through it with me. I've been having problems fucking because of the soft hard on and what not, but we have managed to work through it a few times, but I still haven't been working at peak performance so to speak.

But we spent this whole weekend together and it was the first time we woke up in the morning together. And what the fuck do you know, my penis seems to be working almost completely normal in the mornings. I fucked her like I've been trying to do, like I've wanted to, it stayed hard and I felt almost back to my old self, satisying orgasms and all. But then we tried again in the evening and I was back to the problems I've been having. Two mornings later, it worked like it should be again, but then again later in the day it was having problems again.



The urologist seemed reluctant to test me for anything, he was convinced it's in my head, but I am not. I think I need to either convince him or see someone who is willing to look for a reason other than my mind, because it feels like a physical problem to me. From what I've read it sounds like low test can cause the symptoms I'm having.

Anyone know of any good urology forums or sites where I can get medical advice on this? I want to go back to this urologist armed with enough info to convince him I know what I'm talking about. Anyone have any experience with this shit?

Oh yeah, feel free to make fun of my limp penis, it will just drive me harder to fix the damn problem. :mad:
 
There really isn't enoug information here. How old are you and what is your stress level like? Do you have any history of heart problems(family hx, etc.) How many partners have you had? I have many more but we need to start with these.
 
I'll say two separate things:

1) If I remember, didn't you go through a really bad divorce or relationship a while ago? I recall you being in a very bad place for a while. Perhaps there are some unresolved issues in the back of your mind that you're holding on to. People are always surprised at how many injuries/bodily problems we have that are simply physical manifestations of something going on (consciously or not) in our heads.

2) Always go see another doctor. If it's one thing I have learned, doctors fuck up and are retarded as much as every other normal person walking the earth. If you don't trust him, don't believe him, or you two just don't vibe, get out and see someone else. Trust me, it'll be worth the few extra weeks in the end.
 
1) fact that you get morning wood means the plumming works. might point to psychological reasons.

2) delayed orgasm is usually due to elavated prolactin levels. If you juice and you're using any progestins (Deca-Durabolin - nandrolone decanoate - -Durabolin - nandrolone decanoate - -Durabolin - nandrolone decanoate - -Durabolin - nandrolone decanoate - , trenbolone etc) that may be your problem. it would also explain the lowered libido and decreased potency.

there are other reasons for elevated prolactin -

get some blood work, test for testosterone/free testosterone, prolactin, S.H.B.G., cortisol, estradiol levels etc.

3) try the following one by one then in combo

- cabergoline/dostinex .5mg 2x a week
- proviron 50mg once or twice a day
- viagra

depending on what works, it'll point to what's causing the problem if its biochemical/hormonal
 
try a second opinion.

is there an ED forum somewhere on the web?

i'm not sure what else to suggest really.
 
When you guys have questions on the vag and how to please it, I'll be here for you. Otherwise, I'll leave the penile stuff to the experts posting above.
 
professional opinion: its in your head. seriously.

a nice way to look at how erections is to write down all the things taht make your dick hard, versus those that make it soft, and think of erections as a tug of war (no pun intended LOL) between those factors

things that make yoru dick hard - visual stimulation, physical stimulation, long periods of no sex, proper build up to sex etc etc etc

things taht make your dick soft - anxiety, depression, pressure to perform, ugly chicks, fangs on her vagina - whatever

what you ahve to do is maximize the things that make you hard and minimise those that make you soft. SO

- abstain from masturbation
- watch GOOD porn in the daytime and dont masturbate
- focus on fun physical activities before sex ie massage
- focus on fun sensations before sex ie skin on skin, warm oil on your skin, whatever

oh and use some viagra.

the only thing thats guarinteed is that the harder you think about your dick, the less hard it will be (ironic? lol)

byyyeee
 
OK, some good feedback so far. I'll answer a few questions from above:

- I'm 35
- not under any real stress, kind of in a good place right now
- no history of family heart problems
- I don't juice, nor have I ever
- blood pressure normal
- not on any medications
- 8 partners my whole life, this woman I'm seeing now is the first within a few months

If I remember, didn't you go through a really bad divorce or relationship a while ago? I recall you being in a very bad place for a while. Perhaps there are some unresolved issues in the back of your mind that you're holding on to. People are always surprised at how many injuries/bodily problems we have that are simply physical manifestations of something going on (consciously or not) in our heads.

Yeah I got divorced two years ago, but it wasn't a bad one. I've been with two girls since then (three including the one I'm seeing now) and I had no problem with sex with either one.

Mav, I'm not getting morning wood like I used to though. I used to wake up with a raging hard on every single morning, now it's more of a mild one if any at all. But this weekend (with her there to get me revved up) it seemed to respond like it is supposed to. Still, some mornings I have the same problems I've been having. So yeah the plumbing works, but not always it seems.

3) try the following one by one then in combo

- cabergoline/dostinex .5mg 2x a week
- proviron 50mg once or twice a day
- viagra

Mav I'll look into these, I'm guessing none are over the counter?. I know viagra helps with erections, but it's not a cure, simply a symptom remover, correct? I'd rather not learn to depend on a drug to get hard like I used to, I'd rather fix whatever is wrong.

is there an ED forum somewhere on the web?

I've been looking but haven't found a good one yet, that's why I asked if anyone here knew of one I could post at.

professional opinion: its in your head. seriously.

a nice way to look at how erections is to write down all the things taht make your dick hard, versus those that make it soft, and think of erections as a tug of war (no pun intended LOL) between those factors

things that make yoru dick hard - visual stimulation, physical stimulation, long periods of no sex, proper build up to sex etc etc etc

things taht make your dick soft - anxiety, depression, pressure to perform, ugly chicks, fangs on her vagina - whatever

what you ahve to do is maximize the things that make you hard and minimise those that make you soft. SO

- abstain from masturbation
- watch GOOD porn in the daytime and dont masturbate
- focus on fun physical activities before sex ie massage
- focus on fun sensations before sex ie skin on skin, warm oil on your skin, whatever

oh and use some viagra.

That's just it, things still get me horny and semi-hard, I just seem to be having trouble getting and especially maintaining a full erection. We've tried massages and lots of foreplay, but getting into the mood doesn't seem to be my issue.

And it's not just sex with my new woman, masturbating is more difficult than it should be due to my less hard penis, I think I'm losing sensitivity due to not being fully erect. Porn that I've masturbated to for years is not giving me a full hard on, it just seems like something is wrong. I may just try not masturbating at all for a bit, maybe the rest will do it some good.


Some good advice here. I really want some blood work done though, if I can't talk this doc into helping me I'm gonna have to go somewhere else. Even if the bloodwork comes back OK it will be one more thing that I know isn't the problem.

I guess I'll try Viagra and see if it helps me out or not. Kind of curious to see if it does, even if I don't want to depend on a crutch for too long a time.
 
Im glad I don't have to worry about getting hard before I can have sex...Do you think it is a mental thing now....since it had happend a few times??
 
mightymouse69 said:
are you using any anti-dihydrotestosterone agents? check there first.


Not that I know of.

Do you think it is a mental thing now....since it had happend a few times??

It happens every time. With a woman, by myself, same problem independant of situation. First thing in the morning (whether I'm with her or by myself) seems to be when my performance is best right now. From what I've read a man's test levels are highest right when he wakes up, which leads me to wonder if low test levels aren't my problem. I have felt kind of weak lately when lifting too.

Also you're not a diabetic are you?

Nope, not diabetic. I'm really very healthy, other than this huge glaring issue I'm having.
 
correct forge - all by script, but you can get them all from the same places as AAS (on the net, at the gym, etc)

the dostinex lowers prolactin levels, the proviron free's up bount testosterone and is basically pure DHT
 
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