Married people and those in serious relationships

[biteme]

biteme, don't let your heart get hard, or turn to stone if you don't find the right one in the time frame you have set for yourself.

I am in the same boat. Every day I wonder why I can't find the right one, when I have so much going for me.

The best thing to do is get out there, meet new girls and keep going. You gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your princess again.

Thanks man. The clock is ticking though. I just miss loving someone. Can't force is to happen though. Especially if you're as picky as me.

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

KJ-If I could give you one piece of advice,as simplistic as it may sound,I would say to analyze how her mother behaves towards her man,be it her father or whoever she's with.If she is good to him and treats him decently,then you have the right formula already implanted within your mate.You would be surprised at how often woman are mirror images of the role model they grew up watching.If I had of paid attention to this,I would have ran for the fucking hills,as my wife's mother is the worst excuse for a wife I have ever seen,much worse than my wife.She doesn't cook,she puts her job and everything else in her self-centered world in front of her husband,constantly insults and puts him down,and is just an all around cunt to him.My wife grew up seeing that daily,and she believes that is the acceptable way to treat a man.

 

[theoak01]

I would have to say, it depends on the day. Some days I love him to death, some days I HATE his guts. I am sure he feels the same about me. My theory is that there is no such thing as the perfect relationship or perfect mate. Soceity has brainwashed us very badly with tv and movies. I feel that if you can honestly say that you are happy 80% of the time, then you are with the right person. If you are more upset than happy, then it's bad news.

My only regret, personally, was settling down so young. I would have never slept around,but I think if I was in the market a little longer I would be able to trully appreciate my husband for the treasure that he is.

I feel kind of the same way,I want to settle down because I love my girlfriend but on the other hand I feel there is so much more I want to experience before marriage

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

Oh,and my wife and I were high school sweethearts,if you want to call it that,lol.I was young and ignorant.Like I said before,you live and learn.

 

[biteme]

KJ-If I could give you one piece of advice,as simplistic as it may sound,I would say to analyze how her mother behaves towards her man,be it her father or whoever she's with.If she is good to him and treats him decently,then you have the right formula already implanted within your mate.You would be surprised at how often woman are mirror images of the role model they grew up watching.If I had of paid attention to this,I would have ran for the fucking hills,as my wife's mother is the worst excuse for a wife I have ever seen,much worse than my wife.She doesn't cook,she puts her job and everything else in her self-centered world in front of her husband,constantly insults and puts him down,and is just an all around cunt to him.My wife grew up seeing that daily,and she believes that is the acceptable way to treat a man.

You may be on to something there. All of my exes relatives said that she was just like her mother. Her mother has been married 5 times. She's working on her third.

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

You may be on to something there. All of my exes relatives said that she was just like her mother. Her mother has been married 5 times. She's working on her third.

Oh,my mother and father in law are completely pathetic to be around.If he wasn't a fat slob and totally insecure,he would have kicked that asshole to the curb long ago.Her abuse is astounding.

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

You're one step ahead of the game,particularly in this day and age,where 'old fashioned' ideals are deteriorating into non-existence.Most of my wife's friends and parents are from the same shitty molds,but she had(ironic how she is no longer friends with her)one friend that was the opposite.Great mother,and she was an unbelievable wife.

 

[boss]

oh this one is easy to answer........you will just know it!!! i know it sounds stupid but its true, i used to think i couldnt come home to the same girl everyday and now i couldnt imagine not coming home to msboss. she is 9.5 years older than me and older woman is where its at!!!!! love her to death.

 

[Outtlaw]

Aggghhh, this thread is making me sick.

 

[Lumberg]

I would have to say, it depends on the day. Some days I love him to death, some days I HATE his guts. I am sure he feels the same about me. My theory is that there is no such thing as the perfect relationship or perfect mate. Soceity has brainwashed us very badly with tv and movies. I feel that if you can honestly say that you are happy 80% of the time, then you are with the right person. If you are more upset than happy, then it's bad news.

My only regret, personally, was settling down so young. I would have never slept around,but I think if I was in the market a little longer I would be able to trully appreciate my husband for the treasure that he is.

That's interestign that you should say that. I was n a serious relationship that was sour at times and I had to cut it off. Actually she cut it off dues to me saying I would probably cut it off soon.

Anyways I could see myself married to her, even happily, but I just wansn't 100% sure, you know. I told her loved her but that I was no good to her as it was because I would always have doubts in my mind. I have to see other people and experience dating to know for sure.

I think I know a couple other people who are married and a) wish they had dated mroe so they knew mroe abotu what different types of women are out there or b) are married and are glad they dated and know they have a good woman worth keeping.

I def. need to date more. I have absolutely no game so it's hard but I'll keep trying. THe more I think about it that ex might be the one for me but I know it's going to be an uphill battle to her her back..but if she does indeed turn out to be the one anything is worth it...if it takes me 50 years I'll do it because there is no price tag on true love.