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Married MEN over 35 with kid(s)

heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house

Only 29, but I'll answer anways.

1. Daily.
2. Whenever I get tired of looking at them, because God knows she won't do them.
3. See # 2. My wife is horrible at doing "wife" duties. She doesn't even pick up after her fucking self.
 
~do laundry: never
~wash dishes: sometimes
~clean the house: never

....I'm only 24 and newly married :p
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house
I always do mine. Otherwise she wrecks it.

I do it frequently because she does other things that I won't do (ie clean the bathroom).

We share the cleaning of the house 50/50. I started to do this 50/50 becuase she kept throwing away my stuff when she was 'cleaning'.
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house

Don't try to turn them into a maid. Go with this plan:

1) Be sweet

2) Give it up a lot

Those are the two critical things. Other stuff can slide.
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house

My wife is useless and dirty. I do almost all of those myself.

My wife thinks it's below her to use a vacum or mop. She was a manager in a hotel. Married 9 years and she has never run a vacum or used a mop.

My wife has no idea washing or ironing clothes. Grand father owned dry cleaning plants. All she knows is you put it in a bag and it comes back clean and pressed.

Dishes she simple knocks the stuff off of them and stacks them up next to the dishwasher.

Can't cook either.

Edit she does make much money.
 
Creepusmaximus said:
My wife is useless and dirty. I do almost all of those myself.

My wife thinks it's below her to use a vacum or mop. She was a manager in a hotel. Married 9 years and she has never run a vacum or used a mop.

My wife has no idea washing or ironing clothes. Grand father owned dry cleaning plants. All she knows is you put it in a bag and it comes back clean and pressed.

Dishes she simple knocks the stuff off of them and stacks them up next to the dishwasher.

Can't cook either.
She must be rich or great in bed.
 
BTW wife is looking for a friend she can fuck so it's not a ramdom one night thing. It's a friend first thing. The other thing is she likes short curvy real blondes. I like short and curvy but I don't like those really white skinned blondes. Like them a little darker. LOL. Bet a few of you would like saying to your wife " I don't really like that blonde one." LOL.
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house

I do my own laundry (can't put up with lost workout stuff or uniforms).

I do dishes by hand about 2-3 times a week. Mrs Longhorn and the kids always use the dishwasher.

The only part of the house I usually work on is my bedroom and the kitchen. I make the kids clean their rooms, wife/kids do other rooms and a maid comes 2 x week.
 
I see Lumberg is appropriately absent from this thread.
He will help when I ask specifically for help i.e. "would you please do the dishes today?"
He doesnt really do laundry but he will carry the large laundry baskets down two flights of stairs for me so that I can do the laundry.
And he doesnt really ever "clean" the house. Since Ive lived here he's never dusted, vacuumed or cleaned a bathroom.
 
Wife duties - BAHAHAHAHAHA

What is this 1950?
Unless "the wife" does not work and the man is the sole bread winner "dear husband" better get off his ass.
 
I do everything in my house. He does take out the trash. Also, sometimes he will sweep the floors for me. I could care less if he helps, but I don't want someone bitching at me if it's not sparkling clean 24/7 because I work, care for kids, etc etc and I am tired too. He never says shit so at least I am that lucky.
 
Girls
please dont kill the thread.

remember? --->

Married MEN over 35 with kid(s)

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Bro's
 
heavy_duty said:
Girls
please dont kill the thread.

remember? --->

Married MEN over 35 with kid(s)

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Bro's

Well excuse us! Leaving thread now.
 
heavy_duty said:
Girls
please dont kill the thread.

remember? --->

Married MEN over 35 with kid(s)

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Bro's
lol i can read. but that doesnt stop me from posting
 
heavy_duty said:
Girls
please dont kill the thread.

remember? --->

Married MEN over 35 with kid(s)

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Bro's
lmao...
 
velvett said:
Unless "the wife" does not work and the man is the sole bread winner "dear husband" better get off his ass.

Or else...what? Is this ultimatum presented often? Probably not.

I think most wives are doing the housework and cleaning whether she works outside of the home or not.
 
Longhorn85 said:
Or else...what? Is this ultimatum presented often? Probably not.

I think most wives are doing the housework and cleaning whether she works outside of the home or not.




I work, he works
I do the inside, he does the outside & trash

I think if a woman is the bread winner and the man is the house frau he best get off his ass and care for the house (and the children if there are any).

If both work both should care for the house (and children if there are any).

That's my opinion.
People can do whatever the hell they want but they best not complain about it (to me specifically).
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house

my wife and i work on laundry everyday. . .however, i'm only allowed to put away my own clothes. . .apparently she can't find shit when i put it away. . .

i do ALL of my own ironing. . .sometimes i even iron her clothes when she's in a hurry. . .we share the kids clothes, but she does it a lot more often than i do. . .i'm better at it than her and she freely admits it. . .

i wash the dishes probably 90% of the time. . .

she (and the girls) do most of the house cleaning. . .i run the sweeper from time-to-time and i'm responsible for the garage. . .but the rest of the house is theirs. . .
 
She doesn't like me doing laundry.
I cook and clean up more than she does.
I sometimes help vacuum
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house



~do laundry 1x but i don't fold
~wash dishes am, load to dishwasher
~clean the house i pay a service

~cook daily, i'm not eating what she cooks

~cut grass neighborhood kid


How much $$$ does the wife contribute to the household?? $65k yr

2 kids with 1 grandkid from each of them

and

1- 7 month old boy.... good times, it's what happens when you marry a younger woman.. it's worth it though..
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house


I am 27 with Kid and woman with ring, have not married yet but we pretty much married without the paper.

My woman will not let me do laundry.
I load the dishwasher usually a couple times per week
I clean the house every other time.

If I was single though I would do more.. Also my woman usually cooks every night. I cook rarely.
 
Well i'm 31 and don't have kids but I'll throw my input in for what its worth.

I make good money, she makes better money and we both do a little bit of everything.

Cooking - I cook, but I'm good at cooking and enjoy it so thats not a problem. I clean up as I cook so we can both enjoy the meal and the only thing to clean is our dishes afterward.

Laundry - The key with laundry is to mess up enough of her "dry clean only" stuff that she doesn't ask you to do laundry anymore

Cleaning - I usually vacuum and steam clean the carpets and do all the outdoorsy stuff she does the details like dusting and mirrors all the garbage I don't even look at.

For the most part we compromise, but like i said, we don't have kids. I'm worried about having kids, I don't think it will make us grow as a couple I think it will make us more distant and I don't want that.
 
I will never ever mow the lawn.

Or kill spiders.

I try and do everything else but he will help where I'm slacking.
 
velvett said:
I think if a woman is the bread winner and the man is the house frau he best get off his ass and care for the house (and the children if there are any).

I agree, but I wonder how often Mr. Mom is also Joe Six-Pack? Men with that kind of gumption tend to have careers.
 
Longhorn85 said:
I agree, but I wonder how often Mr. Mom is also Joe Six-Pack? Men with that kind of gumption tend to have careers.

LOL - good point

You've indirectly described my honey's brother, his girlfriend has the $$$ and he's the lazy type looking for the "good deal" to get him by week to week and when he gets sick of being her boy toy, handy man, chef, and full service gofer boy he runs home to momma for money. It's quite twisted and I have grown tired of hearing the stories from his frustrated enabling mother because he's an intelligent grown man (42) that is very capable of getting a job and making his own money and telling everyone to take a flying leap.

:whatever:


People don't get 'em, can't beat them senseful.
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house



1. Twice a week
2. Every Night
3. 2-3 Times a week

We both work so it is only fair to split things up.
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house

Rarely. We have a housekeeper/ nanny that does all that stuff on the 4 days a week that wife works. She shows up at 7 and leaves at 4:30. Watches kids, runs errands, shuttles kids to playdates/ park etc, does vac/dust/laundry/clean bath/dishes type housework. Wife does food shopping except for specialty items that I take care of and cooks kids dinner and weeknight dinner. I cook on weekends when home for wife but she does dishes. I have gutted and remodeld house, in the middle of building gardens on 2.5 acres, have rebuilt her a 78 Triumph Bonnieville, etc. We do what we are good at.
 
Longhorn85 said:

it's one of the jobs that i specifically took over when she went back to work last fall. . .at this point it's automatic. . .i do them every morning while the kids are eating. . .

we have three kids. . .twin girls age 8 and a 2-and-a-half year old boy (he was my surprise 41st bday present). . .when my wife went back to work last fall (she teaches middle school math) i assumed all of the morning duties. . .i get the kids up, get them fed, get them dressed, get their teeth brushed, do the girls hair (i'm can put together a damn fine braid thank you!), take my son across the street to the sitter's and put the girls on the school bus. . .since summer break started, i've gotten a little lazy with some of the other stuff, but i still do the dishes. . .

pw'd?? i dunno. . .but truth be told, even after 16 years of marriage, i still can't seem to get enough of that little pink hole. :)
 
Longhorn85 said:
That's the way it should be, good for you.

yesterday morning, she took the kids and went to visit her mom and dad (in west-by god-virginia) for a week (we just got back from two weeks vacation so i couldn't go). . .i miss her/them already. :(
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house


24/7.......Single Pops here.

My son tries to help, as much as a 3 year old can, bless his heart.
 
digimon7068 said:
it's one of the jobs that i specifically took over when she went back to work last fall. . .at this point it's automatic. . .i do them every morning while the kids are eating. . .

we have three kids. . .twin girls age 8 and a 2-and-a-half year old boy (he was my surprise 41st bday present). . .when my wife went back to work last fall (she teaches middle school math) i assumed all of the morning duties. . .i get the kids up, get them fed, get them dressed, get their teeth brushed, do the girls hair (i'm can put together a damn fine braid thank you!), take my son across the street to the sitter's and put the girls on the school bus. . .since summer break started, i've gotten a little lazy with some of the other stuff, but i still do the dishes. . .

pw'd?? i dunno. . .but truth be told, even after 16 years of marriage, i still can't seem to get enough of that little pink hole. :)

Sounds like a happily married guy. Props DigiMon for knowing what's really important.
 
velvett said:
I work, he works
I do the inside, he does the outside & trash

I think if a woman is the bread winner and the man is the house frau he best get off his ass and care for the house (and the children if there are any).

If both work both should care for the house (and children if there are any).

That's my opinion.
People can do whatever the hell they want but they best not complain about it (to me specifically).

We both work. My wife hasn't cleaned anything around the house, nor done dishes, in over six months.

Fair? I think not.
 
im 33 with a kid but i do all the laundry, cleaning and such. i have a kick ass job that i only work a few hours a week so my free time is house work and homework for school.
 
sardonicone said:
We both work. My wife hasn't cleaned anything around the house, nor done dishes, in over six months.

Fair? I think not.

you need to sit down and discuss that.
if that doesn't work stop doing everying but your laundry (gotta have clean clothes) see if she notices
 
heavy_duty said:
Bro's

Without help from dawife how many times a week do you:

~do laundry
~wash dishes
~clean the house



~do laundry --- 0 wife wont let me. Says I'll fuck up the clothes because I just wash everything on hot

~wash dishes --- 3 or 4 times a week.. Usually bleach the counters too.. Im really anal about germs from poultry,

~clean the house --- I do minor cleaning all week. But we have the boys try and pick up regularly do it doesnt get too bad.
 
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