Marriage problem..Old girlfriend is back in picture

[crew9]

If my ex would have just TRIED to look at himself and TRIED to change into the man that I had hoped he could be - I would have stayed until the day he died.... faithfully with undying love and respect and affection stronger than the day when I married him.

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Reminds me of the saying that kinda, maybe goes like this "Woman get married thinking their guys will change, men get married hoping their girls won't."

Not saying this applies to you just that it reminded me

 

[Werd]

Reminds me of the saying that kinda, maybe goes like this "Woman get married thinking their guys will change, men get married hoping their girls won't."

Not saying this applies to you just that it reminded me

No, it did apply. Only took me 13 years to realize that I did want to change him. I was very very naive. I thought that my love would be strong enough to fix whatever was broken in him because his mother never loved him properly.

My ex admitted that the reason he decided to marry me (He thought he would remain single forever) was because he thought that I would never leave him. In other words - no matter what abuse he heaped on me, he thought that I would never grow a backbone and leave him.


WE WERE BOTH VERY VERY WRONG.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Fuck her..

if you dont you'll regret it for the rest of your life...

Ive been in this same situation a couple of times.. there is NOTHING worse than an unpassionate wife... you not risking as much as you think.. and maybe the whole thing will wake your wife up to her apathy .. if not then you shouldnt be with her anyways.


Sex like that you will never forget.. its always the best and you'll remember it till the day you die..

everytime your wife doesnt want to give it up for whatebver bullshit reason she can thin of you can fantasize about the wonderful experiences you had with this girl and go to the bathroom.

LOL.. got I HATED being married.

 

[jerseyart]

Werd wrote

You guys are being too hard on him. No reason to be so harsh.

Seriously, have the affair. If you wouldn't mind your wife doing to you what it is that you are considering doing to her, then by all means - DO IT!

You have to be careful using reverse psychology with men. We're not always too swift on the uptake.

I'll give you 5 to 1 odds that he got as far as "Seriously, have the affair" before saying "WooHoo!!! She says I should do it" and just ignored the rest, or thought it was a typo.

When women tell me "Not if you were the last man on earth" I always think it means "She only has eyes for me."

 

[Werd]

Werd wrote



You have to be careful using reverse psychology with men. We're not always too swift on the uptake.

I'll give you 5 to 1 odds that he got as far as "Seriously, have the affair" before saying "WooHoo!!! She says I should do it" and just ignored the rest, or thought it was a typo.

When women tell me "Not if you were the last man on earth" I always think it means "She only has eyes for me."

LOL At least you can admit it!

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Let's see. You're in a race riding horse #1, and now you're asking if it's smart to jump off horse #1 and onto horse #2 in the middle of the race?

Let me guess, you're also concerned that when horse #2 finally throws your sorry ass off whether horse #1 will let you ride again?

 

[Y_lifter]

After 12 years, we built a house with a party tub in the master bath
and hot tub in the back yard.. Keeps things interesting.

We also have an agreement that if either one of us cheats,
we have permission to kill one another..

 

[presguy]

So since you've already cheated, you might as well get the bootay! j/k

cheating on your girl is the worst thing you can do to her. i dont believe in that at all

 

[Zebo]

Well Before I met my wife I met a girl that I found later that night was just exactly 5 minutes older than me. Yes the same birthday but just 5 minutes older than me. QUOTE]

Or she could be the twin sister you never knew.....

Well....it's possible.

 

[crew9]

Well Before I met my wife I met a girl that I found later that night was just exactly 5 minutes older than me. Yes the same birthday but just 5 minutes older than me. QUOTE]

Or she could be the twin sister you never knew.....

Well....it's possible.

Well that would explain why the have the same mother..hmmm