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Marriage problem..Old girlfriend is back in picture

JerseyArt said:
Learn to date each other again. Put in at least the same effort you would for some girl you just met and see where that takes you. Women are different than men. If you want her to be hot and bothered in the evening, especially after 12 years, then put in the effort during the day. Seduce her the same way you would any other woman. You may enjoy it, and hopefully see improvement as well.


WERD
 
yep, best way to fix a marraige, is to concentrate and dream about others right?

what's that saying..

grass is always greener.... ?

Funny, when a married woman does that to some old bf -- all us guys raise our fists in the air with a chanting of "slut! whore!" and prop you on the shoulder to express our sympathy and concern for some whore wife sneaking around your back like that.

In order to be fair, and keep up a level of legitimacy to the advice that we spew -- we must now say the same thing to you, and console her at the same time for having a lousy husband who would hit up an old flame. Gotta be fair bro. Otherwise it just adds more ammunition to the forces who revel in calling us "anti-women" on ths board.
 
Longhorn85 said:
You haven't had sex, but if you are emailing and calling and thinking of sex then you have arguably already been unfaithful to a degree.
So true... emotional affair is the same thing!
 
Longhorn85 said:
You haven't had sex, but if you are emailing and calling and thinking of sex then you have arguably already been unfaithful to a degree.



I have to agree 100% ;)
 
...also...

Ask ANYONE who's been married for 25-30 years: NOTHING is perfect honey. The whole point of a marriage is to share everything together. Good & bad times. But know that no matter what you'll get through them together. I think people give up too easily & want the "easier" way out. Remember that it may seem like she'd be the "perfect" person for you, however what goes around comes around - You'll be with her & then a few years later ranting about how you lost that feeling with her! So just think about what you're doing!
 
You guys are being too hard on him. No reason to be so harsh.

Seriously, have the affair. If you wouldn't mind your wife doing to you what it is that you are considering doing to her, then by all means - DO IT!
 
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