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Where I live cheating is more common that most places. How do EF members feel about cheating in a marriage? Would you fool around with a married person?
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sfmonster said:
its more common where you arE? i doubt it...im in los angeles. Where are you just curious?
When I was single, I came very close to having an affair with a man who was married. I had to decied against anything other than a friendly relationship because I couldnt bring myself to go through with it, even though I wanted to be with this man. He was not so happy about my decision. IMO there is somethig morally wrong with it. There are lots of opinions on this issue though.
Women are dirty. I've been the "other guy" more times than I've been "the guy". I actually prefer it that way. I have trust issues anyway so why bother with relationships.
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The largest military post, lots of deployed soldiers.
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sfmonster said:
Where do you live? Mars?
No, unless she was getting a divorce.
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SublimeZM said:
especially if theyre far away on the battlefields. the spouse should be sitting and praying for them and waiting for the phoen call from them. Not getting some ass while theyre in danger.
. people like that make me sad. Its a horrible world out there. More bad than good i am starting to think. 
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I'll clairify, I'm single.
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chefbone said:Are you an SF soldier?
Yes
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medicj said:
everyone loves you medicj! show off!
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medicj said:u 2,hun. And everyone DOES NOT love me... but they should.
I'm loved by those who count=the best.
<<<< the best.
damnit why are all the good grabs of girls taken!? 
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Does having kids in the situation effect anyones decision? What about how attractive the other person is? Is cheating ever ok?
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sfmonster said:
NO. cheating is never, under any circumstances, ok. Even if you feel you are having a huge fight and want to get back at the other, you SHOULDN't cheat. if you really are not getting along with your spouse at all, and you are very unhappy for a long period of time, then the only honorable option is to get a DIVORCE or break up with them (if theyre not married). once you're not attached to them anymore then it is ok to see other people. But to do it while you're with someone and deceive them is just wrong.
yep...very good post1_more_rep said:NO. cheating is never, under any circumstances, ok. Even if you feel you are having a huge fight and want to get back at the other, you SHOULDN't cheat. if you really are not getting along with your spouse at all, and you are very unhappy for a long period of time, then the only honorable option is to get a DIVORCE or break up with them (if theyre not married). once you're not attached to them anymore then it is ok to see other people. But to do it while you're with someone and deceive them is just wrong.
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medicj said:
that, milady, is not a problem
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1_more_rep said:NO. cheating is never, under any circumstances, ok. Even if you feel you are having a huge fight and want to get back at the other, you SHOULDN't cheat. if you really are not getting along with your spouse at all, and you are very unhappy for a long period of time, then the only honorable option is to get a DIVORCE or break up with them (if theyre not married). once you're not attached to them anymore then it is ok to see other people. But to do it while you're with someone and deceive them is just wrong.
O.K doctor phil, I tell ya hwhat....
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ceasar989 said:
well i AM going to be a doctor, just not a counselor type. Medical doctor here.
you are all welcome to one free visit to my clinic when i start it up though, i promise. After the first visit, i will have to charge though sorry. unless it is a sick child without insurance, then of course i will take the patient. 1_more_rep
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medicj said:
see ya medic
have a good night
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I've been on both sides. At this stage in life and with my job(on the road a lot) I just don't seem to think a monogomus relationship is realistic. Does this mean I never get to be in a serious relationship again? Perfect world maybe it could happen but I am more realistic than that and don't believe I would be destroyed if it happened to me. What about being single and playing the other role. How wrong is that and does it matter?
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SublimeZM said:
let some other guy get the pussy and commit the crime. I will sleep with a good conscience knowing even if i didnt get laid i can just wack it and feel good about myself. so many single people out there, no need to cheat.
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lol
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1_more_rep said:let some other guy get the pussy and commit the crime. I will sleep with a good conscience knowing even if i didnt get laid i can just wack it and feel good about myself. so many single people out there, no need to cheat.
she's smokn though! work with me here. I won't do it with out pics! Does that help?
dude ur not cheating, shes cheating.1_more_rep said:let some other guy get the pussy and commit the crime. I will sleep with a good conscience knowing even if i didnt get laid i can just wack it and feel good about myself. so many single people out there, no need to cheat.
your not in a relationship with that guy, she is.
not accepting pussy in this circumstance would be cheating.
cheating your dick.
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sfmonster said:
lol i know she is probably so soooo hot and all alone in her house and you guys COULD fuck for hours if you wanted. But...i don't know i would probably give in if she really wanted it too but i would feel like shit after also. if you DO do it, TAKE pics please and pm me asap! lol...if not, then i honestly respect you alot for being as strong willed as you are.
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SublimeZM said:
yea YOU are not cheating on anyone but you know she has a boyfriend/husband far away RISKING his life everyday in a warzone in near death situations who's probably thinking i cant wait to get home to see my wife God please let me live. (or some variation of movie statement)
while shes at home laying under some guy from across the street. no respect at all for these people. (cheating girl OR the guy cheating with her)
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If you are cheating, how "serious" can the r'ship be to you? If you aren't capable of monogomy, at least be up front about it and give the girl a chance to say 'ok' or bail. It's unfair and cruel to allow your partner to think she is in a secure monogomous r'ship when you know it's not the truth. Why fuck up some girl emotionally just because you want a fallback whenever you are between cheats?
Personally, I feel the married partner is the one with a responsibility to her vows. So if you slept with a married woman - then that's on her. Morally, I would think less of someone who knowingly stepped into someone else's r'ship. It's not like there is a shortage of single women out there to choose from.
Caveat: If there are minor kids in the r'ship, then I think both parties involved in the cheating are scum.
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pics, got it if it happens. I'm a 'what comes around goes around guy' and know it will come back to bite me in the end. There lies the problem, conscious. But then again tomarrow may never come and this is a capitalist society!
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sfmonster said:
lol good point. Oh well, good luck with whatever path you decide to take bro
. take pics if it happens, if not thats good too. Keep us updated please! interesting topic! 
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That's where I'm at. I image that the rest of my life will be more along the lines of swinging that not. I think society is heading that direction.
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lets dooooo it.Angel said:
ur doing him a fucking favor is what im saying.1_more_rep said:
shes going to cheat no matter what, so if u feel bad for him tell him when he gets back his wife is a cheating whore and then go have sex with her sommmore.
so please god let me live to see my wife - shes a cheater whether its with u or not quit arguing the same point over and over cause i hat ehaving to refute it over and over, i know what ur fucking saying now read what im saying instead of restating your original poorly thoughtout reasonings
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