man i feel like shit right now

[Yarg!]

ok ,

theres this girl that my friend likes (kb- its the girl in the pic i sent u) for like 2yrs now. anyways, he never asked her out and he was deeply in the friendzone. he even stated it himself that he was harsh friendzoned. anyways, the girl also told me that they would be nothing more than friends. regardless, me , the girl and my friend all hung out one night. and we had a really nice time. they both slept over, but my friend left like 6hrs before the girl so me and her just talked and got to know each other. the next day she adds her to her top friend (weve only met 2 x ) like right behind her mom, and and my friend + ppl whove known her for years stayed in their bottom positions.
then
she came over the week after. and stayed over and we got intimate. then she came over again..and again. and last night for halloween i went over to her house and we fucked around again. ofcourse we havent told my friend yet because i was worried and she was worried too (she knows he likes her).
but after she changed her fb relationship status to in a relationship with me, i knew i had to tell me friend otherwise hed find out himself.
so i did. and it was a nightmare.

me;
dont hate me for this when i tell you.
him;
yeah?
m;
im going out with staci
h;
silence for 5 mins*
this is a fucking nightmare
m;
im really sorry
really . dude it just sort of happened
h;
its ok. dont say anything, i just need to go off for abit. *goes offline on msn*

ugh.. this fucking blows.

 

[Lestat]

alls fair in love and war?

 

[jh1]

Sweet Betrayl.

 

[bw1]

Pics of the slut?

 

[biteme]

tough shit. He'll get over and if he doesn't it, he's a pussy and needs to toughen up.

 

[ponyfitness]

He'll man up - he just needs time to digest seeing you and her together like a couple becuase it will feel like shit in his mouth. He's probably going to be bitter for a little while but it will blow over.

Oh and pics please. Now you can get topless ones.

 

[nimbus]

1. you don't really feel bad, or else you would've made a thread like this before all that jazz about "smex" and teasing.

2. you didn't really do anything wrong

3. his reaction seemed completely tame, cut him some slack!

y'alls relationship is gonna be kinda weird as long as you are dating staci (jesus, hot name) but i see y'all staying friends

 

[captainahole]

Tough break for him. Well maybe he'll cool down. Oh by the way have you checked to see if all your tires are flat in your car/truck it could be just a co-incedence you know.ololol

 

[puddlemonkey]

Pics of the slut?

 

[samoth]

I never understood why this affected people so much. It takes two people for a relationship. It doesn't matter how infactuated with her the dude might be, she either reciprocates the affection or not. Your friend has no basis to be upset with you... it makes no sense for him to project his anger of a situation beyond his control (i.e., who this chick finds romantic interest in) and personal jealousy at you, but alas, it's common among people.

 

[jh1]

I never understood why this affected people so much. It takes two people for a relationship. It doesn't matter how infactuated with her the dude might be, she either reciprocates the affection or not. Your friend has no basis to be upset with you... it makes no sense for him to project his anger of a situation beyond his control (i.e., who this chick finds romantic interest in) and personal jealousy at you, but alas, it's common among people.

STFU you robot.

Jealousy and Envy are natural human feelings. It's also normal to feel a sense of betrayal when a 'friend' hooks some chic you have a crush on.

How you handle it is what makes you a man or a schmuck.

 

[samoth]

STFU you robot.

Jealousy and Envy are natural human feelings. It's also normal to feel a sense of betrayal when a 'friend' hooks some chic you have a crush on.

How you handle it is what makes you a man or a schmuck.

The credited manner of handeling the situation would to be to use some of that "guy logic" that we seem to so often brag about when discussing women.

The anger and jealousy are projections. The guy choose to deal with the unrequited affection with a psychological defense mechanism of delusional self-denial.

Guy must learn that the world isn't fair, nor does one always get what one desires.

HTH

 

[nimbus]

I never understood why this affected people so much. It takes two people for a relationship. It doesn't matter how infactuated with her the dude might be, she either reciprocates the affection or not. Your friend has no basis to be upset with you... it makes no sense for him to project his anger of a situation beyond his control (i.e., who this chick finds romantic interest in) and personal jealousy at you, but alas, it's common among people.

all he did was say "this is a nightmare" and then sign offline!! what the fuck more do you want? is he supposed to sprint over to his house to high five him?

 

[Yarg!]

ok i was talking to him on the phone and spent the better part of 10 mins appologizing. hes not mad at me, but hes mad at her. tmr im driving 2hrs out of town to see him and buy him lunch and just talk. he says it doesnt bother him, but he hates the girl now.. because while i didnt know this
she secretly told her best gf not to date him for whatever reason , and he seriously had a shot at her gf. so hes pissed at her hypocrisy because im one of his best friends and shes dating me.
regardless, if it comes down to it, ill break up with the girl to avoid losing my friend.

 

[puddlemonkey]

ok i was talking to him on the phone and spent the better part of 10 mins appologizing. hes not mad at me, but hes mad at her. tmr im driving 2hrs out of town to see him and buy him lunch and just talk. he says it doesnt bother him, but he hates the girl now.. because while i didnt know this
she secretly told her best gf not to date him for whatever reason , and he seriously had a shot at her gf. so hes pissed at her hypocrisy because im one of his best friends and shes dating me.
regardless, if it comes down to it, ill break up with the girl to avoid losing my friend.

Typical girl scandal

 

[calveless wonder]

mad at her?

your boy is wack as fuck. he never even put himself out there. just because he can't fuck her, you can't? It'd be one thing if they had a relationship, and then you were all up in that shit..that would be fucked up.

if that was one of my bros i'd help him(you) hit it.

funniest part of the thread - she added me as her top friend behind her mom lolololololololol

 

[Cal_21]

mad at her?

your boy is wack as fuck. he never even put himself out there. just because he can't fuck her, you can't? It'd be one thing if they had a relationship, and then you were all up in that shit..that's fucked up.

if that was one of my bros i'd help him(you) hit it.

funniest part of the thread - she added me as her top friend behind her mom lolololololololol

lolollllllllolololololololol

seconded.

 

[jon1320]

This friend of yours reminds me a lot of a friend I have.
He's got no game.

Basically, if you have a crush on some chick and fall in her friend zone then thats your own bad, and to *tripple stamp the double stamp*she tells her friend not to get close to him either... damn.
Obviously your friend is too deep of a thinker, picking up chicks is easy.
Tell him to read THE GAME or whatever book the EF owner wrote, i'm sure it'll help

good job on your part though, someone needed to hit it

 

[Yarg!]

lolollllllllolololololololol

seconded.

i just chcked now. ive beaten her mom to the number one spot. haha

 

[Cal_21]

i just chcked now. ive beaten her mom to the number one spot. haha

This bish is kinda creepy lol jk

 

[biteme]

ok i was talking to him on the phone and spent the better part of 10 mins appologizing. hes not mad at me, but hes mad at her. tmr im driving 2hrs out of town to see him and buy him lunch and just talk. he says it doesnt bother him, but he hates the girl now.. because while i didnt know this
she secretly told her best gf not to date him for whatever reason , and he seriously had a shot at her gf. so hes pissed at her hypocrisy because im one of his best friends and shes dating me.
regardless, if it comes down to it, ill break up with the girl to avoid losing my friend.

WHAT A SELFISH BITCH!! TAG TEAM HER AND RAIL HER IN THE ASS!