BTW, this is not my take. I believe in pre marital sex with multiple women. See, the more women you bang and are with, the more to choose from and get the best fit, the HAPPIER (ultimate sexual pleasure and compatibility) and LONGER the marriage will last because you ARE a better fit and think of the time it would take to find a better women would be unrealistic (decades). You need to bang from when you are 16 yr to 35yrs old for a man going through hundreds of women. Thus, you have better fits.
I also believe in love. I actually believe in plural marriages and having many kids as one wants and can support. I believe that great men, have more to give, physically (power) and spiritually (love) then weak, lesser men, and therefore can support many women. And women, get a better man. It is the best way. I believe in Alpha heirarchy in procreation matters which is best for the evolution of humanity which is a divine plan validated by natural law. Loser dudes would not get any and have no kids. Winner dudes would get much and have alot of kids. (Less losers in the world and more winners in the world).
My way is much more moral because there would be much more happier and loving marriages and much less divorces and the future would be better.
Problem Solved.
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BTW, it is not a white thing, or a black thing, or a jewish thing, or an asian thing. Its just a valid universal principle. If somebody does not want kids, then that person should not have to have kids. This is the moral thing to do
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