Love

[IronMan271]

There are so many post about sex and penis size. I wonder if anyone here has every loved some one. My wife is a wonderful. I love her and she loves me with a deep respect and true naive innocence. She is very intelligent, graceful and kind. We laugh, cry and talk about things. I make love to her and I feel comforted by her presence. She is my best friend.

 

[Test boy]

I have loved. It is easier to talk about sex with guys. We save our love talk for the girls one on one.

 

[Honeynut]

THere are girls on here too
Love is rare and wonderful, I am totally in love with my boyfriend and I completely understand your amazement, gratitude and peace of mind.

 

[Longhorn85]

There are so many post about sex and penis size. I wonder if anyone here has every loved some one. My wife is a wonderful. I love her and she loves me with a deep respect and true naive innocence. She is very intelligent, graceful and kind. We laugh, cry and talk about things. I make love to her and I feel comforted by her presence. She is my best friend.

Does she have big tits?

 

[Binky]

Does she take it up the tailpipe???

 

[Grizzly]

I think that's partially because love is linked to sex. Let's face it, would you love your wife if you weren't sexually attracted to her? Well, maybe you would love her, like your mother, but you wouldn't be IN LOVE with her. Love is very much linked to sexuality, just like everything else. Also, it's a hell of a lot easier to find sex than it is to find love. I slept with 6 people before I ever fell in love. And I will agree with you. Making love is great. Despite the fact that I wanted a hell of a lot more sexually, when I would sleep with my ex everything was great just because I was in love with her and it felt better than simple fucking even if it was boring.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Love is grand.

I loved my ex husband as I have loved no other.....and perhaps never will again.

The man who is now in my life is so much more than JUST a lover. We did start out as friends. He comforted me, made me laugh, put my darkest fears to rest and never asked for ANYTHING in return. Do I love him? Yes, I can honestly say that I do....as much as I am capable at this moment in my life.

When I was so much younger, I had so many hopes and dreams that I shared with my ex. I thought that my love would be enough for the both of us. He did love me as best as he could, I suppose. But in the end it was not enough. He never returned my sincere, trusting, faithful affection and respect. One day, the well ran dry.

Now I don't even know what my hopes and dreams are. I am no longer angry that I made such mistakes in my early twenties, but still I don't know what I want to do with the rest of my life. I have been torn down for so long, that I am afraid to even DREAM that I could ever be all that I had hoped I could become.....

My man is so kind and gentle, yet strong and protective. He only wants what is best for me. He is supportive of me REGARDLESS of what path I choose. When I start to despair and turn into a chicken shit, he kicks my ass and helps me to believe in myself again. When I get angry that my life is soooooo not what I thought it would be oh so many years ago.....he tells me to hit the gym and take out my anger on the weights - NOT MYSELF and CERTAINLY NOT MY CHILDREN. When there is something positive in my life and I talk it down because I am afraid to even TRY to succeed, he is like a one man cheerleading team, blowing air up my gymshorts (not FALSE PRAISE) by reminding me of all that is good in my life and just far I have come. When I am terrified that EVERYTHING will turn to shit and that I should just throw in the towel and run away, he comforts me and makes me feel ten feet tall and that I can DO ANYTHING I SET MY MIND TO.

I truly have come so far, but I still have so far to go. Our circumstances are odd and though we are drawn to each other as (I believe) we have never been drawn to others, there are so many factors that are so much more important than just what WE ALONE WANT (children, family, work, education). So we must be (he is soooooo much more patient than I, tee-hee) patient and just let things happen, take care of our personal business and cherish the time that we CAN spend together.

Do I love him? Yes, with those parts of my heart that are capable of loving again...yes, I do. Perhaps, there will be a time in the future when my heart will be healed and I will no longer be terrified to give it all; where I will be capable of loving with all that I am. He is THAT wonderful, that he deserves nothing less than my entire heart and soul.

My hopes and dreams for the future?...that I can and will continue to be the kind of mother that my daughters can respect and do DESERVE because they are THAT amazing and that I can give all of myself once again, my body, my soul, every fiber of my being to this man....because he is truly THAT wonderful.....and that is no BS, only gospel truth.

 

[Gear Monster !]

Actually.....I just lost love

After 3 years my girlfriend and I split up last week. I still love her, and I believe she still loves me....I think that we just grew apart. I am 27 and she is 22, so I think the age difference played a key role. We just want different things now. But still I am having trouble getting used to her not being around. Especially when I am home alone.

 

[mdd]

i've loved once, just got fucked over though, so i'm trying not to let it happen to me again

 

[Grizzly]

Gear Monster- I'm not trying to be an ass or to throw salt in the wounds or anything, but I was wondering if you guys split because she wants to sleep around. Is that the gist of it? My ex is 22, as am I, and we broke up, mainly, because she's a whore and doesn't want to keep her legs closed. That's the new theory that I've come up with. I don't want to date young girls anymore. They haven't gotten the whore out yet. Now, a 25-30 year old woman has gotten through the old "I just want to have fun" phase, which translates into "I just want to sleep with everyone that I can." Just curious.

 

[b fold the truth]

IronMan271: I envy you very much...very much. I desier what you have more than anything else in this world.

bikinimom: Your post brought tears to my eyes. Honestly...

B True

 

[toga22]

Being in true love doesn't compare to any other feeling in the world.

Sex is about self-gratification. Making love is pleasing your partner and yourself. Love is hard and it takes a lot of work. There are so many forces out there that try to break true love apart. But you only know if you are truly in love when one of these obstacles comes in your way. And you and the person you are in love with fight to overcome it and stay together.

 

[Honeynut]

It sounds like you are truly in love

 

[Grizzly]

Sex is about self-gratification. Making love is pleasing your partner and yourself.

I don't know about that. I've never gone into a sexual encounter looking for self-gratification. Well, atleast not solely for myself. When I have a woman naked, my first and foremost goal is to get her off many, many times. If I don't come, then I don't care. I go down on them for long periods of time just to make them feel good. Granted, I get a large amount of pleasure from making them feel good, but that's a secondary concern. Though, I will give you that most people are all about themselves when it comes to sex. Atleast, in my experience.

 

[luv2workout]

BMOM....Its been a while but my heart goes out to you...I can relate sometimes to where your at/where you've been...still luv ya!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Thank you Luv......life has INDEED been strange, but everything happens for a reason and it does get better.

I see from your pics that you are doing AWESOME with the training! Good for you!

 

[luv2workout]

Bmom - actually those pics are from way back....the training has been going great.....need some new ones but its always something - not tan enough, got a pimple, bad hair day, just dont feel like it...the list goes on and on

you know ive read your posts and wanted so many times to email you, but I didnt (SORRY)....you are strong and I believe that you can handle whatever life may throw at you and yes, it will get better...did you see that poem that was on Womens Disc. board awhile back? If you missed it - here it is.....your friend, shan

You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don't you take it awful hard
'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin' in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I've got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history's shame
I rise
Up from a past that's rooted in pain
I rise
I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

 

[luv2workout]

Iron Man

Sorry for taking up soooo much of your posts.....Now yall can get back to the subject of LOVE

 

[luv2workout]

BUMP for Bmom

 

[pigginsly]

I was told this, you can't feel love until you give love...
Makes a lot of sense!!!
Finish each day believing that YOU are special that you have the oppurtunity to be able to feel emotion and feeling in the form of love..
Lots do not know how to do that, only hate..
My heart goes out to all of you, who know sensitivity and passion
through and through out....

 

[Bikini Mod]

Thank you gurl, I appreciate it immensely.....will share one with ya later. Don't have time to cut and paste - gotta take the kiddies to dance class....do it later tonite.

 

[buksoon]

This poem, "Love Is Not All", by Edna St. Vincent Millay.... it is wonderful.

Love is not all; it is not meat nor drink
Nor slumber nor a roof against the rain,
Nor yet a floating spar to men that sink,
And rise and sink, and rise and sink again;
Love cannot fill the thickened lung with breath,
Nor clean the blood, nor set the fractured bone;
Yet many a man is making friends with death
Even as I speak, for lack of love alone.
It well may be that in a difficult hour,
Pinned down by pain and moaning for release,
Or nagged by want, past resolution's power,
I might be driven to sell your love for peace,
Or trade the memory of this night for food.
It well may be. I do not think I would.


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You know B Fold, by the way? Big huge muscle man, right? His heart is the muscle that is really astounding. Everything else about him is downright puny next to it. I look at him and can't even see those other muscles.

He's an amazing person. Any girl would be so unthinkably lucky to have him in her life.

 

[b fold the truth]

buksoon: gulp....what do I say? I promise you this...I am not that great. There are two people on this board that know me personally...and they would probalby disagree with you. I'm not great, I am just honest. I guess I just sound like a little kid on the phone huh? I guess that one could look at the big tough guy in my pics...but when they hear my soft little voice and see me when I am very intimidated by a woman...opinions change.

Lucky? I don't know. But you do not know how much I appreciate all of your words. I begin to think that I am one of the few that actually know you. You are a real sweetie...very sweet. I hope that you, above all, find that love in your life as well as inside of your heart. I pray that you find personal and loving satisfaction that is whole and true. I pray.

B True

 

[Godfather123]

love is both pleasurable and paonful i loved someone more then i thought was ever possible for 3yrs then it was over so i hurt more then i ever thought possible if love doesn't work it a double edged sword

 

[Honeynut]

the pain is worth it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

For Luv2...

Here is the poem I was talking about earlier. When it was first sent to me several months back, though I appreciated it...I didn't understand it. I was going through my old emails and quite accidentally happened across this one. After re-reading it, it has become crystal clear..... I now understand because I am living it.

What is love? I don't know....I honestly do not have a clue anymore. Will it elude me for the rest of my adult life. I am not sure, but I guess that perhaps I should begin to accept that I may never experience it again.

It's ok. I have beautiful children who love me very much. The rest, well the rest I'll figure it out somehow. I am not the first and I am sure that I will not be the last.

I never used to mind pain when I was younger... I felt that it was well worth the price. Now I just don't know. It seems the pain sometimes overwhelms me and I just don't want to feel it anymore.

Anyway, here it is:

Once upon a time,
A sleepy star fell for me,
Leading me away,
From the mounting pile of rejection.
Creating a lucid picture,
For my fingers to trace.
Seeking the impossible out-come,
To a never ending situation.
My unconditional spirit,
Still wanders the path,
Searching....
Complex wounds manifest,
As a source of strength.
Unrelenting desires still beckon,
Causing damnable scars.
There is no joke in my eyes,
Yet, everyone laughs at the tears.
Once upon a time,
I sought that which is true.
Now I struggle to stay conscience,
And grow stronger from it.....

Ranger


Thank you, Ranger.

 

[luv2workout]

Gotta love Rangers poems....I sent you a message on chat!

I copied this..I will read it over and over