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B0ARDIN087

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Well just got out of a relationship like 2 and a half months ago or so. We had a really good time for like 9 months but I'm a senior in college and shes a sophmore. I'm graduating and prob moving back to pittsburgh when i'm done and shes from philly

Well basicly i spent some time trying to get over her and improve my life, cuz last semseter was rough for me really stressed over trying to get a job and i took alot out on her and basicly we broke up cuz of me and the fact we are in different places in life.

Well basicly I still miss her and I told her that and she said she does too some so I told her to take some time and think about it.

There are some MAJOR issues we will have down the road, major major major ones, but i do miss her.

Is there really any reason for me to pursue this any further, I do miss her and I see a future with her, but only in the near future and the rest is to chance. I know its tough for u guys to know my exact situation. But for your experience is age/religion(jewish vs catholic, shes real catholic)/distance jsut way too much to endure?

Wow I feel like i answered my quesiton just writing this, but oh well couldn't hurt.

And before you all call me a pussy, I have been fucking other girls, but I still miss her so if thats not a sign even tho they are much better in bed then her, i dont know what is
 
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Eh, now's the time to enjoy the genuine missing of a woman. Sooner or later you'll end up a fat, hairy-backed lonely online sex predator like puddlemonkey who lures women into his crusty lair only to have them sodomize him with a dildo made solely of hardened megadeth album covers and staples.
 
Eh, now's the time to enjoy the genuine missing of a woman. Sooner or later you'll end up a fat, hairy-backed lonely online sex predator like puddlemonkey who lures women into his crusty lair only to have them sodomize him with a dildo made solely of hardened megadeth album covers and staples.

killahbee i love you,

but in no part of this rambling can i find a coherent thought
 
killahbee i love you,

but in no part of this rambling can i find a coherent thought

Point here is - enjoy the act of missing someone, no matter how much of a pussyfaggot it makes you. In the end, it ain't gonna work out. But might as well give it a shot for the fuck of it. But don't fool yourself, it ain't gonna last long.

Sophomore means like 19, right? Pics, pls. I know you pull some sweet ass, borshead.
 
If you're fucking other girls - seriously, how important do you really think she is?? Especially at your age.

Let's face reality - you're gonna go through at least 10-20 more ex-gfs before you finally settle down. Career is what will decide the rest of YOUR LIFE.

Dont' be like 99% of the fools who bitch after age 30. Don't waste your precious active years chasing women ignoring everything else. Concentrate on the important goals of your life - the quality of your spouse will increase/decrease based upon your success in this area.

Grandfather wasn't an idiot when he said concentrate on your life - women come and go. He was an old fart, but he's been through this and that man knows.

case in point: When everyone was dealing with young love relationship bullshit and partying - I was learning 3d Animation, motion graphics, video engineering and being laughed at for being a nerd. Now they're all fat, kids, drowning in debt, whining about their lousy jobs - and I'm sitting pretty like a supermodel laughing *at them*, banging 18 y/o's. So think about it. :)

r
 
Well just got out of a relationship like 2 and a half months ago or so. We had a really good time for like 9 months but I'm a senior in college and shes a sophmore. I'm graduating and prob moving back to pittsburgh when i'm done and shes from state college.

Well basicly i spent some time trying to get over her and improve my life, cuz last semseter was rough for me really stressed over trying to get a job and i took alot out on her and basicly we broke up cuz of me and the fact we are in different places in life.

Well basicly I still miss her and I told her that and she said she does too some so I told her to take some time and think about it.

There are some MAJOR issues we will have down the road, major major major ones, but i do miss her.

Is there really any reason for me to pursue this any further, I do miss her and I see a future with her, but only in the near future and the rest is to chance. I know its tough for u guys to know my exact situation. But for your experience is age/religion(jewish vs catholic, shes real catholic)/distance jsut way too much to endure?

Wow I feel like i answered my quesiton just writing this, but oh well couldn't hurt.

And before you all call me a pussy, I have been fucking other girls, but I still miss her so if thats not a sign even tho they are much better in bed then her, i dont know what is
if u are in an LDR with her i suggest seeing other girls.

not banging other girls, because thats cheating.

but staying on top of ur game hanging out with women and going on dates.

and then replacing the LDR for a real relationship if u find a girl tahts worth it.

dump LDR girl before sticking mr winky into IRL girl, of course.
 
case in point: When everyone was dealing with young love relationship bullshit and partying - I was learning 3d Animation, motion graphics, video engineering and being laughed at for being a nerd. Now they're all fat, kids, drowning in debt, whining about their lousy jobs - and I'm sitting pretty like a supermodel laughing *at them*, banging 18 y/o's. So think about it. :)

r

glad to know r hasn't changed since I been gone., lmfao
 
I changed my name cuz I didn't want neone googling my name and reading everything, but I fuck much hotter bitches now LOL
 
Forget about this bitch and go in with your life and meet as many woman as possible. The more you talk to, the greater the chance of meeting someone new. Stay positive and have fun, and refrain from EX-GF talk with the girls you chill with. Take this attitude and you'll get what you want.
 
looks like this is being handled well enough. Long distance huh? Just remember...

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it isn't long distance, it will be when i graduate in may. we both go to penn state. i want to pursue her but its tough, first off knowing that i dont think i have a good shot of getting her back, she knows there is alot between us too and she has a good head on her shoulders.

and then if i do manage to, there isn't a good chance we will stay together after this year is done. with the only thing foreseeable that we get together is if one of us makes a life choice to live near the other, big commitment and right now we aren't together and I'm graduating in 4 months.

I do care for her alot and miss her, but after taking a step back from the relationship for a few months its tough to see what the right decision is, because I know that the fact that I still think well of her when I'm not still in the thick of things means something.

And for those sayign if i could be with other girls then I dont care for her, I thought about her the whole time and was just with them to try to get over her, oh and to get my d wet
 
another SWV in the making. Bro, it's over. You had something with her. You really like(d)/love(d) her, so you still think about her even though you're tagging randoms. You probably don't want to start investing time into anyone else locally right now because you're leaving in 4 mos. I guarantee that if you were to start spending more time with some other girl you thought was really cool/you got along with/had fun with, etc., that you'd get over this girl a lot quicker. But you won't do that, and wisely so. In the meantime, keep tagging that random poon and working on your game for when you get to where you're going to plant for a while. When you land where you land (pburgh or wherever), you will find girl(s) that you want to start investing your time with.

God damn kids.
 
another SWV in the making. Bro, it's over. You had something with her. You really like(d)/love(d) her, so you still think about her even though you're tagging randoms. You probably don't want to start investing time into anyone else locally right now because you're leaving in 4 mos. I guarantee that if you were to start spending more time with some other girl you thought was really cool/you got along with/had fun with, etc., that you'd get over this girl a lot quicker. But you won't do that, and wisely so. In the meantime, keep tagging that random poon and working on your game for when you get to where you're going to plant for a while. When you land where you land (pburgh or wherever), you will find girl(s) that you want to start investing your time with.

God damn kids.


haha thanks for this.

But I disagree, I think I'm a RECOVERING SWV. I handled this whole thing pretty well, and I'm happy with most things in my life. I was just kinda asking (i know here of all places) to make sure that this isn't the kinda decision I'm going to regret in the future.


Hindsight is 20/20 and I still think shes a good girl, but I see myself at a crossroads with her and dont feel like doing somethign Im going to regret later. My last ex I really couldnt' get over forever and it sucked and I was such a pussy about it. This is more like I'm not a pussy but I still care, and wanted to check what I'm doing. Before I coudlnt' focus on jack shit, now I focus on school, girls, and planning my upcomign cycle ( my first)! :kaioken:
 
haha thanks for this.

But I disagree, I think I'm a RECOVERING SWV. I handled this whole thing pretty well, and I'm happy with most things in my life. I was just kinda asking (i know here of all places) to make sure that this isn't the kinda decision I'm going to regret in the future.


Hindsight is 20/20 and I still think shes a good girl, but I see myself at a crossroads with her and dont feel like doing somethign Im going to regret later. My last ex I really couldnt' get over forever and it sucked and I was such a pussy about it. This is more like I'm not a pussy but I still care, and wanted to check what I'm doing. Before I coudlnt' focus on jack shit, now I focus on school, girls, and planning my upcomign cycle ( my first)! :kaioken:

damn, I think I remember some of your previous SWVness. You won't regret it. You said yourself there were major challenges in the road ahead for you guys. You'll meet another girl sometime down the road who you won't have these challenges with, and things will be much better overall. You'll look back on this then and laugh.

Take your time broliosis. I had to go through a helluva lot of crazies before I stumbled across my wifey. Don't let any girl put you on lockdown too soon and don't put yourself on lockdown too soon. Plenty of girls (but very few good ones) and plenty of time. I recommend imports over domestics by the way.
 
damn, I think I remember some of your previous SWVness. You won't regret it. You said yourself there were major challenges in the road ahead for you guys. You'll meet another girl sometime down the road who you won't have these challenges with, and things will be much better overall. You'll look back on this then and laugh.

Take your time broliosis. I had to go through a helluva lot of crazies before I stumbled across my wifey. Don't let any girl put you on lockdown too soon and don't put yourself on lockdown too soon. Plenty of girls (but very few good ones) and plenty of time. I recommend imports over domestics by the way.

Yup!
 
damn, I think I remember some of your previous SWVness. You won't regret it. You said yourself there were major challenges in the road ahead for you guys. You'll meet another girl sometime down the road who you won't have these challenges with, and things will be much better overall. You'll look back on this then and laugh.

Take your time broliosis. I had to go through a helluva lot of crazies before I stumbled across my wifey. Don't let any girl put you on lockdown too soon and don't put yourself on lockdown too soon. Plenty of girls (but very few good ones) and plenty of time. I recommend imports over domestics by the way.

good thats waht I wanted to hear..... I can deal with not being with her, plenty of other women around I just would find it alot harder if i wasn't sure that it was what I wanted.
 
i talked to her tonight, i told her i miss her and i probably will for awhile but things just dont make sense. hopefully i can fuck her a few times when we are drunk.

in any event, time to get focused on getting a job and making some G's so I can pull more prime pussy when i graduate
 
Really ADD today and have no desire to wade thru every post, but I did read a few and all I can say is, allow the relationship to take its own course. You miss her... or do you miss the comfort of having someone steady? You can't love someone and still go around fucking other women.

Everyone is brought into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime... looks to me like this one was a reason.
 
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