ladies I have a question?

[Megalomaniac]

So I hooked up with this girl several times about a year ago and I randomly gave her a call the other day and asked if she wanted to fly into Vegas to see a show with me. I didn't ask her situation now, I guess I just assumed everything was good. Did I set myself up for failure here?

 

[nycgirl]

Of course, you are setting yourself up. Because they are nothing but lying skanks. She has a boyfriend and is going to use you to climb up the ladder and cheat in Vegas. She's going to tell you how bad her boyfriend is, how you make her feel "alive" again with the attention you are showing her. Don't put your heart into it, she will do the same to you. Look at how the EF Whores carry themselves on this board with their avatars and crude sex talk. Why? Because they are nothing but lying skanks.

I think I covered the male response to this thread.

**EDIT - Don't do it Bro.

 

[bullett]

I don't see any problems, so long as you both know what you are going for...just some basic fun, and some light hearted companionship....no strings...Who cares if she has a BF, you are not asking her to marry you...

 

[Gymgurl]

As long as you both have the same idea of what the siuation is....could be fun

 

[foxxie]

So I hooked up with this girl several times about a year ago and I randomly gave her a call the other day and asked if she wanted to fly into Vegas to see a show with me. I didn't ask her situation now, I guess I just assumed everything was good. Did I set myself up for failure here?

Is never too late to ask, right Not unless you already married this girl your talking about then you are really in big pile of shit.

 

[Megalomaniac]

Of course, you are setting yourself up. Because they are nothing but lying skanks. She has a boyfriend and is going to use you to climb up the ladder and cheat in Vegas. She's going to tell you how bad her boyfriend is, how you make her feel "alive" again with the attention you are showing her. Don't put your heart into it, she will do the same to you. Look at how the EF Whores carry themselves on this board with their avatars and crude sex talk. Why? Because they are nothing but lying skanks.

I think I covered the male response to this thread.

**EDIT - Don't do it Bro.

what's this edit part? I'm not falling for her I just want to hang out for the weekend in the 1 king bed. I guess I'm wondering if she will understands my intent? All we have ever done is hook up but I haven't talk with her for a year so I'm just looking for a ladies perspective.

 

[Gymgurl]

AS LONGAS YOU BOTH SEE IT THE SAME Way.

 

[nycgirl]

what's this edit part? I'm not falling for her I just want to hang out for the weekend in the 1 king bed. I guess I'm wondering if she will understands my intent? All we have ever done is hook up but I haven't talk with her for a year so I'm just looking for a ladies perspective.

Darlin,I was being sarcastic (making fun of the typical male post about women).

Just make sure she understands that is what the weekend is about.

 

[Megalomaniac]

As long as you both have the same idea of what the siuation is....could be fun

I guess that is my question, how do I find out what here idea of the situation is without coming across as one of those guys you ladies complain about. From my standpoint it seems clear. In the past we hook up, have a good time. I guess I feel I should have felt it out a bit more before I asked her, I just don't want to come across like I expect her to be mine when I call.