Ladies, can you explain something for me please?

[jnevin]

Why is it that when I go out looking like a dirtball I hook up..... 85% of the time?

This was Saturday. Friends come by after I clean the house. I'm dirty, at least smelling decent, but in jeans, a t-shirt, and thongs with 5:00 shadow. They somehow talk me into going out, I changed clothes but looked the same... dirtball. Girls were coming up to me all night, flirting, touching, kissing my ears, etc. It was odd. I'm reasonably handsome, but it doesn't warrant the attention I was getting. I make good money but don't flash it around. I've stopped drinking, and everyone else was pigged and seemed to be having more fun than I was. The only thing I could think of was one of my friends was giving me shit because I paid for my car with a credit card. One of the girls asked why and I told her because I was just going to pay it off the next month. I haven't been dating or going out a lot lately, but this shit doesn't make sense.

 

[nycgirl]

How old are these women?

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

It was a tranny club.

Hope you went home alone / did not give out your number.

 

[Razorguns]

Fat girls need love too bro. I get the same attention from them when i go out. Just deal with it.

 

[jnevin]

How old are these women?

22-30 I'd say. I'm 29. Typical bar sluts too. It was funny though, the rest of the guys there were all dressed up, looking good, throwing $$$ around, and doing all they could to get these girls. I was literally wearing jeans, a t-shirt, and flip-flops. Jeans were Paper Denim, a Phillies throwback shirt, and ratty ass thongs. And scruffy. No cologne, was drinking bottled water and N.A. beer, just chilling on a couch, and fish were jumping in the boat.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

we love tall dark and dirty men wearing thongs

 

[jnevin]

It was a tranny club.

Hope you went home alone / did not give out your number.

Is that why the BJ's were so good?

Damnit.

 

[jnevin]

we love tall dark and dirty men wearing thongs

I'm 5'9" with a shaved head and a piece of toilet paper that seems to be permanently attached to either my shoe or the back of my pants though.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

I'm 5'9" with a shaved head and a piece of toilet paper that seems to be permanently attached to either my shoe or the back of my pants though.

us chick are always looking for toilet paper.. that must be it. We hate to drip dry.

 

[Razorguns]

22-30 I'd say. I'm 29. Typical bar sluts too. It was funny though, the rest of the guys there were all dressed up, looking good, throwing $$$ around,

Hope these women weren't too expensive from the agency!

 

[Scotsman]

22-30 I'd say. I'm 29. Typical bar sluts too. It was funny though, the rest of the guys there were all dressed up, looking good, throwing $$$ around, and doing all they could to get these girls. I was literally wearing jeans, a t-shirt, and flip-flops. Jeans were Paper Denim, a Phillies throwback shirt, and ratty ass thongs. And scruffy. No cologne, was drinking bottled water and N.A. beer, just chilling on a couch, and fish were jumping in the boat.

I've noticed the same phenomanon, when I make an effort to look nice no girls talk to me, but when I am in a stainded t-shirt and workout shorts hanging in the bar they talk to me.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[jnevin]

Hope these women weren't too expensive from the agency!

No shit. A couple were really cute too. I had to have looked like a tool too because I was genuinely surprised that they were coming up to us. My friends were doing the whole walk around and try to get girls to our table deal and it was just me and two others at our table.

And we didn't have one of the good tables there. It was more of a big coffee table in a sectional. The place is cool, very chill, no smoking, expensive. If I still drank I'd easily drop $200 there in a night.

 

[nycgirl]

22-30 I'd say. I'm 29. Typical bar sluts too. It was funny though, the rest of the guys there were all dressed up, looking good, throwing $$$ around, and doing all they could to get these girls. I was literally wearing jeans, a t-shirt, and flip-flops. Jeans were Paper Denim, a Phillies throwback shirt, and ratty ass thongs. And scruffy. No cologne, was drinking bottled water and N.A. beer, just chilling on a couch, and fish were jumping in the boat.

I'm not a "typical bar slut" so I can't speak for them. Maybe they just wanted to be in the company of a regular guy instead of the guys that look slick and feel the need to throw $$$ around to impress them. I'm sure you still looked good. Yes, that was cute when I was 20-23 (especially when I was still living at home), but at 27 that "game" is really old and does not work. I'm too old to make someone feel good about himself. I like the men that are secure enough to not give a damn.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

If you look anything like your ava.. then I can understand them hitting on you *wink*

 

[awittyusername]

Damn, jnevin it is still working. You have 2 of them worked up right here.

 

[nycgirl]

If you look anything like your ava.. then I can understand them hitting on you *wink*

LOL. Damn it, Frisky. I have avatars turned off. You made me look. I was hoping to see a hot man.

 

[pintoca]

flip-flops? count your blessings AAP didn't see you

 

[Evil_Frisky]

LOL. Damn it, Frisky. I have avatars turned off. You made me look. I was hoping to see a hot man.

lmao

 

[awittyusername]

LOL. Damn it, Frisky. I have avatars turned off. You made me look. I was hoping to see a hot man.

Nope i don't have an av of myself. I don't because I know how riled up you women can get.

 

[The Shadow]

IMHO - I think women are attracted to the guys who tend to "look" messy, but who are in fact "put together"


Like:


Jeans

Black T-shirt

Black shoes/Dr. Martens

5 o' clock shadow


....the look appears low maintenance...but for it to work - it really needs to be pulled together correctly...


Ironed, crisp jeans

BLACK(non faded) T-shirt


CLEAN shoes/boot



Cheeks and neck shaved clean

 

[Evil_Frisky]

IMHO - I think women are attracted to the guys who tend to "look" messy, but who are in fact "put together"


Like:


Jeans

Black T-shirt

Black shoes/Dr. Martens

5 o' clock shadow


....the look appears low maintenance...but for it to work - it really needs to be pulled together correctly...


Ironed, crisp jeans

BLACK(non faded) T-shirt


CLEAN shoes/boot



Cheeks and neck shaved clean

prep

 

[The Shadow]

Everything is all about the prep

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Everything is all about the prep

Aint that right!

 

[nycgirl]

Nope i don't have an av of myself. I don't because I know how riled up you women can get.

Yes, so many of the ladies Awitty. Imagine what they would do if they saw of pic of you. One can only imagine.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

When I go out filthy, I meet women.

When I clean up / dress up / go upscale, I meet women.

I don't think dress or even appearance matters that much Bors.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

seems every damn time I go out in my gym clothes sweaty and nasty I run into people I haven't seen in years.

 

[nycgirl]

When I go out filthy, I meet women.

When I clean up / dress up / go upscale, I meet women.

I don't think dress or even appearance matters that much Bors.

I think that is what I was trying to get at. It isn't the dress. Its the attitude. If I even smell a whiff of insecurity, I don't care how well dressed or "scruffy" you look, I will not be attracted to you.

 

[jnevin]

When I go out filthy, I meet women.

When I clean up / dress up / go upscale, I meet women.

I don't think dress or even appearance matters that much Bors.

Alright sizzle-chest. Not all of us have the luxury of walking around with a black AMEX hanging out of our zipper. But thanks for playing.

 

[jnevin]

Damn, jnevin it is still working. You have 2 of them worked up right here.

Lol. If you mention him... he will come.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Alright sizzle-chest. Not all of us have the luxury of walking around with a black AMEX hanging out of our zipper. But thanks for playing.

LOL, yes I often pull out the centurion card at the local watering hole, as if 99.99% of people would recognize it anyway.

I would meet women if I wore a scuba mask. Fins even.

 

[jnevin]

LOL, yes I often pull out the centurion card at the local watering hole, as if 99.99% of people would recognize it anyway.

I would meet women if I wore a scuba mask. Fins even.

That only works at the bowling alley, ass clown.

Back on topic. I need to capitalize on this. If I can now go everywhere like this it will not only save me time, but I'll be comfy all the time, have truckloads of young ass, and life will be good. Provided everything else in life goes well at the same time.

 

[jenscats5]

There's something about that "construction worker' look that a lot of women find attractive. I know several women who are into that look. It's a great look, IMO.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

That only works at the bowling alley, ass clown.

Back on topic. I need to capitalize on this. If I can now go everywhere like this it will not only save me time, but I'll be comfy all the time, have truckloads of young ass, and life will be good. Provided everything else in life goes well at the same time.

dood please

that was beginners luck

 

[jnevin]

There's something about that "construction worker' look that a lot of women find attractive. I know several women who are into that look. It's a great look, IMO.

Village people? Or regular?

I can make either work.

 

[jnevin]

dood please

that was beginners luck

Yeah, Matt the Beginnerwalker picked you up in flippers at Chuck e Cheese.





*Hoping I wasn't said "beginner"*

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Village people? Or regular?

I can make either work.

Bor please, for you, Y-M-C-A all the way.

Bolwing alley? Ill come to an upscale club in a Taco Bell uniform and still meet women. I'll even wear the taco Bell mesh-backed hat.

Fool. I got skills.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Yeah, Matt the Beginnerwalker picked you up in flippers at Chuck e Cheese.

*Hoping I wasn't said "beginner"*

Louisiana women and Matt are a dangerous combination, especially Cajun gals.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Yeah, Matt the Beginnerwalker picked you up in flippers at Chuck e Cheese.





*Hoping I wasn't said "beginner"*

Matt and I had wings...

 

[jnevin]

Bor please, for you, Y-M-C-A all the way.

Bolwing alley? Ill come to an upscale club in a Taco Bell uniform and still meet women. I'll even wear the taco Bell mesh-backed hat.

Fool. I got skills.

Not only skills, but a sweet wardrobe.

 

[jenscats5]

Village people? Or regular?

I can make either work.

No not Village People! The average Joe construction worker type. Not some pretty boy who primps & preens & uses more product on his hair than a girl.

 

[jnevin]

Suddenly I'm reminded of a thread from earlier.

http://elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=425329&page=1&pp=20

 

[Scotsman]

IMHO - I think women are attracted to the guys who tend to "look" messy, but who are in fact "put together"


Like:


Jeans

Black T-shirt

Black shoes/Dr. Martens

5 o' clock shadow


....the look appears low maintenance...but for it to work - it really needs to be pulled together correctly...


Ironed, crisp jeans

BLACK(non faded) T-shirt


CLEAN shoes/boot



Cheeks and neck shaved clean

Wow you just gayed up being a slob, that's impressive.

I go for more of a trucker or lumberjack that's been away from town too much look.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[jnevin]

Wow you just gayed up being a slob, that's impressive.

I go for more of a trucker or lumberjack that's been away from town too much look.

Cheers,
Scotsman

EL EM AY OH