Come here and give me some sugah.... sugah!
I didnt see the thread that sparked all of this and I am not interested in it as it seems to be a done deal, not into proliferating controversy.
From what I understand though, you lost your temper when someone made a racial slurr. Imagine how it would feel if asshole after internet asshole - some hiding behind the title "mod" made all sorts of baseless slanderous comments about you as a MOTHER - knowing not fucking thing one about you OR your situation, actually made fun of an unbelievably gut-wrenchingly painfull situation that you were powerless to control, poststalked you ad nauseum, sent you nauseating red, etc after being ignored for months and weeks on end?
Imagine how THAT would feel.