Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend Feeling Down.

[dafoe69]

The ideal thing to do is remain friends, accept it, and move on. This is all well and good but it's not how it works. The best thing for you to do IMHO is to remove her from you life as much as possible. I was in love with my best friend for 5 yrs and when she went for another dude I lost my love and my best friend in one shot. How can you be friends with someone you love and hear how she's so happy with someone that isn't you. It's like they say nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.
I a truly sorry we've all been there at one point or another.

 

[maximized]

sweet 17. how yummy they taste. im 24. ive dated a 17 year old this year. i would go 17 and up, but not younger for me. so id say the age is fine, but she has a boyfriend. i dont start shit with other guys, i let them start with me and i just finish it. so me personally, i would not ask her out. id just be around and let her ask me out (being the body builders we are, women just flock! heh) so it depends on you. if you are the type to start shit, then go ahead. take your aggressions out when he steps up, which you know he will. if you are the type that doesnt, then find someone else. there are so many hotties out there. just go stand in front of the high school in front of your trans am with your shirt off...hehe. that will attract the little honeys.



-max

 

[M56M]

In all honesty bro, you HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HER. And believe me you are not alone, as you can see alot of guys go through the same shit. I am one of them. But how you can even want a girl back after she told you that she had another guys cock in her mouth blow my mind(no pun intended). Go and live you life, just go to the mall and walk around, that alone should show you that there is a SHIT LOAD of beautiful women out there. And you are only 24 yrs old, you have your whole life ahead of you, don't let it pass you by. Now is the time that you can have fun and experience it, and sooner or later after you have fucked a so many woman you lost count....the right one will appear. Good Luck i wish you the best.

and remember...NEVER TRUST ANY WOMAN!

PS: STOP TYPING IN ALL CAPS!!

M56M

 

[g-zilla]

X GIRL.....NEXT GIRL DUDE....ITS ROUGHBALL BUT TIME WILL HEAL ALL WOUNDS....LOOK AT IT THIS WAY....MAYBE THERE IS A REASON YOU GUYS ARE BREAKING UP...MAYBE THERE SOMEONE BETTER FOR YOU OUT THERE...I KNOW ITS A ROUGH PILL TO SWALLOW BUT KEEP YOUR HEAD UP G.........ALL THE MORE REASON TO GET JACKED!!!!!

 

[dmac74]

This is my first reply here and I lovethe sight just to let you know. This post lead me to register to the site because I myself have just gotten out of around a 4 year relationship with a girl that I supported through college. It has been the hardest thing in my life and I still cry to this day occasionally, but not as bad as it used to be. Time heals all.

Its even worse when the girl runs away like mine did. She rode my coat tails and got out. To feel used and to get dumped hurts more than anything. It makes you question yourself, your body, you actions and emotions. It makes you ask "what was wrong you?"

Some much more to say and ask, but here is the good thing about it. It made me re-examine myself, healed alot of realtionships and problems with my family and my dad in which I hadn't talked to in 13 years, and in the two months and one week I have gone from around 300 pounds to 249.
Work on yourself, yourself, yourself, and let her worry about herself. Silence is Golden. If she knows you are going to be there and are still there then she is going to string you on. And try to replace and move on. So many people out there, lonely and wanting to be with some one like us. Just be happy that you weren't married and with kids. I know that it doesn't make the pain go away just yet, but it gets better everyday and you will have your good days and your bad, your good minutes and then all of the sudden, BAM, pain, loathing, longing.

Will write more later(could write a book) but I need to go train and do my cardio. Stay tough.

 

[BigTri]

sorry to hear that Man! She will come back tho trust me! I know this because It happend to me once.. She just wants to try another guy before you two get too close! She will realize that she misses you so much and come back just begging to get in your pants, Trust me!!!

 

[TAURUS1977]

DO YOU ALL REALLY THINK THAT IF I HOLD OUT LONG ENOUGH THAT SHE WILL COME BACK?

 

[dmac74]

I go by this mentality and it is the only way you can go..........

Concentrate on yourself, be selfish.
You can't read her mind or change it.
Silence is golden and get in better shape at the gym, go buy yourself something, get some new clothes.

But here is the bottom line and not to be a bible thumper but praying about it and asking God to give you strength and guidance helps. I am not a terribly religious man don't get me wrong, but it helps you internally.

AND IF IT IS MEANT TO BE WITH HER, IT WILL HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!

Don't push or beg, because they see that as weakness and that turns them off even more. Stay away and see what's out there, and you can either move on or wait to see if she comes back, but you can't do anything to change her mind. So concentrate on YOURSELF and if it happens, it happens.

DMAC74

 

[M56M]

I go by this mentality and it is the only way you can go..........

Concentrate on yourself, be selfish.
You can't read her mind or change it.
Silence is golden and get in better shape at the gym, go buy yourself something, get some new clothes.

But here is the bottom line and not to be a bible thumper but praying about it and asking God to give you strength and guidance helps. I am not a terribly religious man don't get me wrong, but it helps you internally.

AND IF IT IS MEANT TO BE WITH HER, IT WILL HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!

Don't push or beg, because they see that as weakness and that turns them off even more. Stay away and see what's out there, and you can either move on or wait to see if she comes back, but you can't do anything to change her mind. So concentrate on YOURSELF and if it happens, it happens.

DMAC74

Good Advice...like i said live your life.
Don't depend on her coming back becuase you will be wasting your time. IF it happens it happens but don't wait around.

M56M

 

[Adaptek]

3 Points to remember:

1. Always fuck em in the ass. - If you dont do it, some other guy will.

2. Nice guys finish last.

3. Never trust em as far as you can throw em.