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Sorry to hear bro, but beïng a Bodybuilder girls are never a problem!!!Don't walk after her heels, let her go.The best way bro...
Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend Feeling Down.
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FrancoValdes
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TAURUS-1977.................
man, if you really really want her back you have to do what MP5 told you.
About a year ago my 2 year girlfriend, out of the blue told me she liked sme other guy at work and wanted to be alone. I really liked her and I was devastated. But after a week of misery I started in the gym, started a cycle and went on with my life. I started breeding with any bitch that would cross my way till I found a cuban girl that just thought I was some kind of God or something. She treated me like great and respected me...and most important of all...she was like 10 times better looking thatn my ex.......
I started going out with her and letting myself be seen ....jejejejeejje guess what???? My ex starts calling me again, leaving me messages , sending love letters through the mail, leaving balloons and stuffed animals in my window...she even showed up at my house while I was with this girl.......I was dissing her and actually having fun!
Well, after 2 months of ass-kissing I took her back and now she is sooooooo jealous and obeying that is not even funny jejejejejejeje
If you dissapear for a while, and stop calling her totally....she will come back , believe me
man, if you really really want her back you have to do what MP5 told you.
About a year ago my 2 year girlfriend, out of the blue told me she liked sme other guy at work and wanted to be alone. I really liked her and I was devastated. But after a week of misery I started in the gym, started a cycle and went on with my life. I started breeding with any bitch that would cross my way till I found a cuban girl that just thought I was some kind of God or something. She treated me like great and respected me...and most important of all...she was like 10 times better looking thatn my ex.......
I started going out with her and letting myself be seen ....jejejejeejje guess what???? My ex starts calling me again, leaving me messages , sending love letters through the mail, leaving balloons and stuffed animals in my window...she even showed up at my house while I was with this girl.......I was dissing her and actually having fun!
Well, after 2 months of ass-kissing I took her back and now she is sooooooo jealous and obeying that is not even funny jejejejejejeje
If you dissapear for a while, and stop calling her totally....she will come back , believe me
TAURUS1977
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I CALLED HER ON THE PHONE TUESDAY NIGHT TO GET MY STUFF BACK I WAS ACTING LIKE I WAS NOT INTERESTED. SHE TOLD ME TO COME UP AND TALK TO HER. WHEN I WENT UP THERE SHE CAME OUTSIDE AND WAS SUPER NICE. SHE TOLD ME TO COME UP TO HER APARTMENT. WHEN WE WENT UP THERE SHE CUDDLED WITH ME AND EVEN SUCKED MY DICK. AFTER SHE WAS FINISHED SHE TURNED INTO A TOTAL BITCH. TELLING ME SHE WANTED ANOTHER GUY AND THAT SHE WANTED ME TO GET OUT. I TOLD HER NO THAT I WAS STAYING SHE GOT MAD. WELL I ENDED UP STAYING ALL NIGHT. WE WOKE UP THE NEXT MORNING AND SHE WAS STILL ACTING LIKE A BITCH. TELLING ME TO GET OUT AND THAT ARE RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER AND SHE WANTED TO GO OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE. WELL AFTER A LITTLE FIGHT I DECIDED TO LEAVE. WHEN I LEFT I SAW A NEIGHBOR AND ASKED HER WHO MY EX WAS SEEING. SHE TOLD ME AND I WENT BACK AND TOLD MY EX THAT I BET HERE NEW BOYFRIEND WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THAT SHE WAS GIVING ME HEAD. SHE FLIPPED OUT AND NOW SHE WILL NOT TALK TO ME. ALSO YESTERDAY I TOLD HER BOSS SOME INFORMATION THAT WILL PROBLEY GET HER FIRED. SHE WAS TRYING TO SCAM HER BOSS OUT OF MONEY FOR A BASEBALL SHE CAUGHT FROM MARK McGWIRE. REALLY THE DETROIT TIGERS HIT THE BALL AND WE CAUGHT IT. SO I E-MAILED HE BOSS AND LET HER KNOW. I KNOW THAT WAS STUPID TO DO BUT I FELT LIKE GETTING BACK AT HER. SHOULD I LEAVE THE WHOLE THING ALONE? IF SHE DOES NOT CARE FOR ME ANYMORE WHY DID SHE INVITE ME TO HER APARTMENT FOR A LITTLE ACTION? SHE IS MOVING SUPER FAST WITH THIS NEW GUY THE FIRST NIGHT SHE MET HIM WAS SATURDAY AND SHE TOLD ME SHE STAYED ALL NIGHT AND GAVE HIM HEAD SATURDAY. SINCE SHE IS MOVING SO FAST WITH THIS GUY DO YOU THINK IT WILL LAST?
FrancoValdes
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oh man!...my gf did the same thing when she left me!!! You know why they do that???? To feel important and make you feel even worse. See, their weapon is sex and the love you have for them...
next time she wants to give you head...turn her away and throw her out!!!...never fails!
next time she wants to give you head...turn her away and throw her out!!!...never fails!
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One phrase comes to mind ,DONT CHASE, REPLACE.Nine times out of ten the grass is not greener.Keep your pride and she will be back,this time on your terms.Also, still keep the the communications going,let her call you and always be upbeat as things in your life have not missed a beat,show no weakness and do not persue her under any circumstances.
One phrase comes to mind ,DONT CHASE, REPLACE.Nine times out of ten the grass is not greener.Keep your pride and she will be back,this time on your terms.Also, still keep the the communications going,let her call you and always be upbeat as things in your life have not missed a beat,show no weakness and do not persue her under any circumstances.
I'm sorry to hear that bro. I've been with my girl for a little over 4 years now and have recently caught feelings for another women, who happens to be married. Now It's showing me that nothing is guranteed. I never thought I could catch feeling for anyone else besides my girl but I have. Since she's married, I won't purse anymore but, at least the whole experiance showed me that I could fall for someone else. So can you bro. It's going to hurt really really bad for a while. Trust me, I know bro. But be strong man. Talk to us on the board. She'll feel stupid in a few weeks or so and probably regret it. But if she's been cold through the whole situation, she doesn't deserve your forgiveness. This whole situation will make you a stronger person.
TAURUS1977
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THANKS FOR THE INFORMATION GUYS. I FEEL BETTER TODAY. I KNOW SHE WILL REALIZE ONE DAY SHE MADE A MISTAKE AND PROBLEY COME CRAWLING BACK. BUT UNTIL THEN I AM GOING TO MOVE ON. OH YA I HAD A QUESTION I SAW THIS GIRL AT A RESTAURANT AND WHEN I WALKED BY HER WE MADE EYE CONTACT IT SEEMS SHE WAS CHECKING ME OUT. THE PROBLEM IS I SAW HER AT THE MALL AND SHE WAS WITH HER BOYFRIEND. I WANT TO ASK HER OUT BUT I AM 24 AND I THINK SHE IS ABOUT 17 WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK. SHOULD I ASK HER OUT? THIS GIRL IS HOT SHE LOOKS A LITTLE LIKE BRITTNY SPEARS. REALLY IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND I DONT WANT TO BOTHER HER.
TAURUS1977
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SO I SHOULD GO FOR IT GUYS?
Taurus,
Let me tell ya the best advice I can give you that was given to me a while back. LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE YOU TWO WILL NEVER GET BACK TOGETHER. This will allow you to move on in the best way possible and if you don't get back together, you've prepared yourself for it. If however, you do get back together, that's just a huge plus you weren't expecting. If you keep on dwelling on this girl without trying to move on, you will stay in a continuous emotional spiral that will take a long time to get out of.
Two, as hard as it may be to do this (believe me, I've been there twice), break-off ALL communication with her. You CANNOT be a friend to her right now. All the continuous talk with her will get you is depression. IF you don't get back with her, time will heal your wounds and THEN you can be a friend. NOW isn't the time because there is too much EMOTIONAL feeling for her. For example, when I've gone through hard break-ups in the past, I'd go several days w/o talking to her/them and I'd start feeling better. Then, the instant I heard her voice on the other line or saw her face, I was right back where I started... YOU CANNOT MOVE ON LIKE THAT BRO.
Third, as long as she can have the best of BOTH worlds, why should she choose you man? I mean, right now she has this other guy, but she knows all she has to do is snap her fingers (no offense, I've been there) and you're there. So, let her know what it's like for you to not be there waiting on her and see if it changes how she feels about you. By doing so, you are moving towards a recovery and she is forced to make a REAL decision about her feelings.
Lastly, you guys may not ever get back together and that might be for the best. Although I don't pretend to be a portrait of Christianity, I do know that God IS the answer to alot of problems bro. HE can see the big picture when we cannot. Right now, YOU CANNOT because you are hurting and that sucks. If in my past I would have gotten my wishes and been allowed to stay with the girls that I was hurting over, I'd be robbed of the blessing I received when I met the girl I'm dating now... the best person I know. I'm not gonna throw the "there are many fish in the sea" analogy at you because that doesn't help the way you feel in times like these.
In closing, the only things that can make you feel better is TIME, God, and a new chick one day. But make sure you close all ties with her for now buddy. If you wish to discuss any of this further with me, email me. I hope this helps and sorry so long.
Let me tell ya the best advice I can give you that was given to me a while back. LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE YOU TWO WILL NEVER GET BACK TOGETHER. This will allow you to move on in the best way possible and if you don't get back together, you've prepared yourself for it. If however, you do get back together, that's just a huge plus you weren't expecting. If you keep on dwelling on this girl without trying to move on, you will stay in a continuous emotional spiral that will take a long time to get out of.
Two, as hard as it may be to do this (believe me, I've been there twice), break-off ALL communication with her. You CANNOT be a friend to her right now. All the continuous talk with her will get you is depression. IF you don't get back with her, time will heal your wounds and THEN you can be a friend. NOW isn't the time because there is too much EMOTIONAL feeling for her. For example, when I've gone through hard break-ups in the past, I'd go several days w/o talking to her/them and I'd start feeling better. Then, the instant I heard her voice on the other line or saw her face, I was right back where I started... YOU CANNOT MOVE ON LIKE THAT BRO.
Third, as long as she can have the best of BOTH worlds, why should she choose you man? I mean, right now she has this other guy, but she knows all she has to do is snap her fingers (no offense, I've been there) and you're there. So, let her know what it's like for you to not be there waiting on her and see if it changes how she feels about you. By doing so, you are moving towards a recovery and she is forced to make a REAL decision about her feelings.
Lastly, you guys may not ever get back together and that might be for the best. Although I don't pretend to be a portrait of Christianity, I do know that God IS the answer to alot of problems bro. HE can see the big picture when we cannot. Right now, YOU CANNOT because you are hurting and that sucks. If in my past I would have gotten my wishes and been allowed to stay with the girls that I was hurting over, I'd be robbed of the blessing I received when I met the girl I'm dating now... the best person I know. I'm not gonna throw the "there are many fish in the sea" analogy at you because that doesn't help the way you feel in times like these.
In closing, the only things that can make you feel better is TIME, God, and a new chick one day. But make sure you close all ties with her for now buddy. If you wish to discuss any of this further with me, email me. I hope this helps and sorry so long.
