I broke up with my Girlfriend of a year three days ago. I can tell this is for good and yes it hurts. Fortunately I live in a college town. So I went downtown got a job as a bouncer at the most popular club in the area. I also sat down and figured out how much money I would save by not seeing her (many new and exciting cycles). I flirted today with all the girls that I have always wanted to talk to in the gym but couldn't because I had a girlfriend. It was great. One girl told me she thought I was cute but mean because I never talked to anyone. I told her that was about to change and got her number. Don't get me wrong I still go home and think about her. It will be that way for a while. The key is not to go groveling back. Let her be the one that sees you out having a good time. Let her be the one that misses you. I know it is hard and I wish you the best.
Hey dude i have gone through the same thing.....had a girlfriend for three years. Then i went to school out of prov. Later I find out the bitch was cheating on me, and lying to me. I have never been hurt so bad in my life. Was out of things for a little while.........really got messed up.......and almost tried doing the last resort.....but luckly I was surrounded by some good friends that got me some help........This was my first experience with some anti-D's. This was when i totally got hard core into body building. What you have to remember is that things will get better. It's better that you find out now that her feelings are not true and not when you have kids or something.
But i did make myself feel better.....the first time i saw the dude she cheated with me on.......I kicked the living Sh*t out of him.
Hope things work out for you.....LAter..........DR
sorry to hear that bro...i know this will basically be impossible..but ignore her..if you ignore her she'll be all over you like fat women at a free buffet..oh and definately don't beat the crap out of the other guy until your sure there's no chance for you to get back together with her..then when your sure..kill him
Man... this is so weird I am going through the same shit. About a month ago my girl said she needed a break.. I said there is no such thing. You eithre want to go out or we aren't going out. So she said " well then we are not". I called and called it never got any where. I would ask to see her she would but it was wierd. She was very distant. I asked her back and she said not now. I ahve tried every thing. She says I am trying to hard for something that will not work now. I have not called in a week!!!!!! what should I do????
You have to realize that she is not the same person you fell in love with. Would the person you were inlove with told you she didn't want you and wanted to see someone else? NO! Its tough man, but you gotta move on. Life is too short to waste on some trim.
professor...had the same deal with an old girlfriend. i moved on, well, not completely. i still think about her a lot, i kept pics of us together, and even though she treated me pretty shitty afterwards, i'd still like to see her again. Just take that chunk of your heart that she occupies, cut it out, and throw it out the window.