1. Compassionate about other peoples feelings and a ture friend when other are having problems. One of the best listners I know and always willing to help out a friend when they are having problems
2. Extreamely Vendictive once he decides you are on his shit list.
3. Score of 1-10=7. I think your inability to fully commit to another person delves from your childhood experiences in particular your father. Perhaps those experiences are deep rooted in you. Simply put your scared of that level of love, becuase it opens you up to hurt if something goes wrong. I've seen your cycle with the ladies and I have never seen you fall deeply in love with any of them. Never bothered you to cut any of the ones before K loose and never look back. Maybe just like your Dad did to you? But in this last relationship you got caught up because of the child. All of a sudden you had to try to make it work. Things got real. Selfishness, compassion, commitment are things every married person has to work on every day. Its situational. You can be the person who puts other first each time the moment of truth arises, or we can be selfish and think about what's best for me.
I gave you a 7 because nobody gets a 10 except maybe Jesus and you are pretty close to making that change. Just have to find out what dectracts from you. What are the decisions that you are making in those moments of truth and why? Then how can you react differently.