I've got a problem

[dugie65]

Well i'm not sure if it's exactly a "problem" per se BUT:

during sex I have the hardest time getting off. Usually it takes me upwards of 45min to go, and usually 2-3 hours if alcohol is involved.

Is this mental?

I have no problem watching porn and getting off, but when it comes to sex it takes entirely too long. Thanks for any answers you can provide.

 

[The Shadow]

40ish is average for me......I think its mainly mental

 

[Hiatussin]

mental

its always mental for me. sometimes I dont cum other times I cum way fast

if it takes long im not that horny but more "agressive" when its fast i just feel powerless and super horny

 

[*MissFit*]

mental

 

[dugie65]

anything I can do to speed it up?

 

[ruckus]

Bro, I have the exact same prob..... and it fucking sucks!!! I fake orgasims a shit load...

I would love to speed things up too.

 

[nycgirl]

What about asking the girl to finish you off with a bj? In lieu of trying to have orgasm via sexual intercourse.

 

[stilleto]

clearly, don't add alcohol to the problem.
and, subsequently, rid your mind of any problems or concerns.

 

[bilter]

men are very visually stimulated, hence your lack of a problem when watching porn. This is purely a mental thing with me, if I want to get off its just a matter of what thoughts are bouncing around in my head. This may not be a bad thing as it sets you up for having a lot of control. Or, if your minds not up for it just slap in some porn while your doing it.

 

[traddum]

u might try getting the girl to talk dirty to u and be very vocal... this certainley gets me into it alot mor thanm if they arent ...just a thought

 

[hotzie]

bro hook me up with your problem

 

[swole]

Well i'm not sure if it's exactly a "problem" per se BUT:

during sex I have the hardest time getting off. Usually it takes me upwards of 45min to go, and usually 2-3 hours if alcohol is involved.

Is this mental?

I have no problem watching porn and getting off, but when it comes to sex it takes entirely too long. Thanks for any answers you can provide.

regarding your partner, does he ever complain about you taking too long?

 

[dugie65]

regarding your partner, does he ever complain about you taking too long?

uhh.. what?

 

[lilpumper]

same thing here, girls have even asked me if they didnt make me horny enough which is clearly not the case. its def mental because just the other day my girl and i had quick sex in the bathroom of her parents house while her whole family was there and it only took like a minute lol