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It's great how ex'es lie to you

hanselthecaretaker

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Like I care anymore, but in general it most likely stems from them not wanting to hurt your feelings. What they must not understand is how much worse it is for you to find out they lied behind your back.

For future reference, ladies: Fuck people's feelings, especially s.o.'s. Tell them how you really feel and make them own up to it. After some initial ego bruising they'll respect you for telling them the truth, if they're worth anything.
 
i would probably lie to an ex. but not to spare their feelings, if only to make myself look better.

that said if i truly cared about the ex i'd be honest with them.
 
im all about honesty. iv lied thinking it was the better thing to do, but when it comes down to it for the most part i wont bullshit
 
I've lied to exes about stuff that happened in the past (why do they need to know the details?) but I dont lie about stuff that is still going on.
 
Stefka said:
I've lied to exes about stuff that happened in the past (why do they need to know the details?) but I dont lie about stuff that is still going on.
what about lying about why ur dumping them? IMO thats a really important thing to help them move on and grow
 
SublimeZM said:
what about lying about why ur dumping them? IMO thats a really important thing to help them move on and grow

I've always been completely honest about why I was breaking up with a guy...Except for one time. But that time I needed to end it for very personal reasons and I couldn't make myself give that "it's not you, it's me" talk.
 
Stefka said:
I've always been completely honest about why I was breaking up with a guy...Except for one time. But that time I needed to end it for very personal reasons and I couldn't make myself give that "it's not you, it's me" talk.
respectable.

i hope i get a chance to dump someone, cause that means i got laid
 
SublimeZM said:
respectable.

i hope i get a chance to dump someone, cause that means i got laid
is that saying you've never been laid? not being a douche just asking based on how you worded that.
 
for u night crew people, iv been with 1 girl and lost my v when i was 17, everyone just calls me EF virgin so i stick with it...plenty on here who i talk with alot know im not actually one, but still joke about it.

i still suck at interacting with girls though :) (with pretty much anyone i first meet, i guess)
 
SublimeZM said:
for u night crew people, iv been with 1 girl and lost my v when i was 17, everyone just calls me EF virgin so i stick with it...plenty on here who i talk with alot know im not actually one, but still joke about it.

i still suck at interacting with girls though :) (with pretty much anyone i first meet, i guess)
nothing wrong with that, you are mad young still. i assume are you in or going to college in the fall.

that will bring many opportunities.
 
SublimeZM said:
for u night crew people, iv been with 1 girl and lost my v when i was 17, everyone just calls me EF virgin so i stick with it...plenty on here who i talk with alot know im not actually one, but still joke about it.

i still suck at interacting with girls though :) (with pretty much anyone i first meet, i guess)

I lost my v card when I was 17 too - #2 didn't happen till I was 22.
 
redshirt27se said:
nothing wrong with that, you are mad young still. i assume are you in or going to college in the fall.

that will bring many opportunities.
i am gunna start my soph year. i went into first semester freshmen year with my gf still in highschool...we broke up over winter break. things started to get bad, to the point where i was relieved when we broke up...shoulda happened sooner. very complicated but now i have no desire to deal with wimmins...never really had game, either
 
Stefka said:
I lost my v card when I was 17 too - #2 didn't happen till I was 22.
so you got a taste, and then had to wait 5 years for another bite?


that would've driven my crazy. you got patience.
 
Stefka said:
I'm nothing if not patient.
well being a chick, you control when you have sex unlike guys who have to work hard and still have many predetermined factors working against/for them.

albeit most chicks aren't about to just fuck random dudes 7days a week.
 
redshirt27se said:
well being a chick, you control when you have sex unlike guys who have to work hard and still have many predetermined factors working against/for them.

albeit most chicks aren't about to just fuck random dudes 7days a week.

I't's kinda funny though. In the last 4 years I've had a couple of long gaps where I just didn't have anyone I wanted to sleep with...But after 6 months I start thinking like a guy...I start rating every guy I see and instantly deciding if they are an option. I hate that. I kinda start missing interacting with guys like normal human beings. You guys have it hard.
 
Stefka said:
I't's kinda funny though. In the last 4 years I've had a couple of long gaps where I just didn't have anyone I wanted to sleep with...But after 6 months I start thinking like a guy...I start rating every guy I see and instantly deciding if they are an option. I hate that. I kinda start missing interacting with guys like normal human beings. You guys have it hard.
the only gaps i have last about 3 seconds.
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
Like I care anymore, but in general it most likely stems from them not wanting to hurt your feelings. What they must not understand is how much worse it is for you to find out they lied behind your back.

For future reference, ladies: Fuck people's feelings, especially s.o.'s. Tell them how you really feel and make them own up to it. After some initial ego bruising they'll respect you for telling them the truth, if they're worth anything.

Every woman I have ever dated has been a notorious liar. So, i have to come to the conclusion that nearly all of them must lie at the drop of a pen.
 
SublimeZM said:
for u night crew people, iv been with 1 girl and lost my v when i was 17, everyone just calls me EF virgin so i stick with it...plenty on here who i talk with alot know im not actually one, but still joke about it.

i still suck at interacting with girls though :) (with pretty much anyone i first meet, i guess)

You're only missing out on trouble bro. Stick with masturbating. Much less stressful lifestyle.
 
I will lie to an ex to spare his feelings. So what? :whatever:

You don't want to tell a guy, "hey, I broke up with you because I met someone who sparked my interest more than you did."
 
heatherrae said:
I will lie to an ex to spare his feelings. So what? :whatever:

You don't want to tell a guy, "hey, I broke up with you because I met someone who sparked my interest more than you did."
i'd tell a girl that.
 
heatherrae said:
I will lie to an ex to spare his feelings. So what? :whatever:

You don't want to tell a guy, "hey, I broke up with you because I met someone who sparked my interest more than you did."


Damn that all sounds awful, but I guess it's to be expected coming from a lawyer.
Do you also have no problem with your guy cheating on you behind your back pretending everything's cool, and then having to find out through a friend? What if he brought back a vd or something? What if he was with one of your friends?

"Oh baby you're the only one for me." Yeah, lies are great.
 
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