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it makes me feel good to hear from people who i thoguht were cooler than me that they hate their college and are transfering (either to my school or from my school).

either way, it makes me feel good that im happy for the most part and have fun and a good group of friends when their lives fucking suck so bad they have to run from it, scrap everything, and start over.

i was leaving the diner and there was a girl behind me leaving too. i never know the etique...hold it and wait a little and seem like a tool, or let the door slam in their face.

so its double doors, and i waited a little extra to hold the door for a girl, and she just opened up the other one and walked right past me while i held the door like a tool.


also at the restaurant for mothers day i had to go to the bathroom and the seating was a little crowded. i get up to go and some fucker waiter was rushing by so i stoped moved out of his way, and he stops and knees right in front of me and starts doing something in the cabinet, im like wtf, go around the table, same shit happens on the other side with a different waiter!!!, i go back to the other place because the other dude left, and a waitress rushes by carrying food so i move and let her go, all the while spending like 45 seconds look like a massive douche not able to get by (when im able because i could fucking destroy them if i wanted but i was courteous).

a while back i asked my brother why when im nice to people and yeild or move out of the way a little bit they take complete advantage and either dont move at all or move even more in my way when im way bigger than them and will pwn them in every physical way. he says its cause they can because i let them.

do you guys refuse to move and plow into people because you have more physical strength or are you a yeilding candy ass like me?

im going tofight more people from now on in real life
 
I don't know, I never had anyone walk out the other door when I was holding one open for them. I think I would let a few choice words fly if someone felt like they were better then me.

I always try to be nice to people I don't know, you don't know how hard their day has been or what is going on in their life. Everyone vents in their own way or they are trying to get a task done because the manager is down their throat.

But if you know the people and they do shit like that, PLOW THEM! Knock their sorry asses onto the ground. Fuck them! If they are like that on a regular basis, just frigen plow them like a female in a 100 man train.

So what if they are stronger, tire irons and baseball bats can do a lot of damage.
 
SublimeZM said:
it makes me feel good to hear from people who i thoguht were cooler than me that they hate their college and are transfering (either to my school or from my school).

either way, it makes me feel good that im happy for the most part and have fun and a good group of friends when their lives fucking suck so bad they have to run from it, scrap everything, and start over.

i was leaving the diner and there was a girl behind me leaving too. i never know the etique...hold it and wait a little and seem like a tool, or let the door slam in their face.

so its double doors, and i waited a little extra to hold the door for a girl, and she just opened up the other one and walked right past me while i held the door like a tool.


also at the restaurant for mothers day i had to go to the bathroom and the seating was a little crowded. i get up to go and some fucker waiter was rushing by so i stoped moved out of his way, and he stops and knees right in front of me and starts doing something in the cabinet, im like wtf, go around the table, same shit happens on the other side with a different waiter!!!, i go back to the other place because the other dude left, and a waitress rushes by carrying food so i move and let her go, all the while spending like 45 seconds look like a massive douche not able to get by (when im able because i could fucking destroy them if i wanted but i was courteous).

a while back i asked my brother why when im nice to people and yeild or move out of the way a little bit they take complete advantage and either dont move at all or move even more in my way when im way bigger than them and will pwn them in every physical way. he says its cause they can because i let them.

do you guys refuse to move and plow into people because you have more physical strength or are you a yeilding candy ass like me?

im going tofight more people from now on in real life
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you personlize and internalize your meaningless interactions with total strangers way too much.
 
SublimeZM said:
it makes me feel good to hear from people who i thoguht were cooler than me that they hate their college and are transfering (either to my school or from my school).

either way, it makes me feel good that im happy for the most part and have fun and a good group of friends when their lives fucking suck so bad they have to run from it, scrap everything, and start over.

i was leaving the diner and there was a girl behind me leaving too. i never know the etique...hold it and wait a little and seem like a tool, or let the door slam in their face.

so its double doors, and i waited a little extra to hold the door for a girl, and she just opened up the other one and walked right past me while i held the door like a tool.


also at the restaurant for mothers day i had to go to the bathroom and the seating was a little crowded. i get up to go and some fucker waiter was rushing by so i stoped moved out of his way, and he stops and knees right in front of me and starts doing something in the cabinet, im like wtf, go around the table, same shit happens on the other side with a different waiter!!!, i go back to the other place because the other dude left, and a waitress rushes by carrying food so i move and let her go, all the while spending like 45 seconds look like a massive douche not able to get by (when im able because i could fucking destroy them if i wanted but i was courteous).

a while back i asked my brother why when im nice to people and yeild or move out of the way a little bit they take complete advantage and either dont move at all or move even more in my way when im way bigger than them and will pwn them in every physical way. he says its cause they can because i let them.

do you guys refuse to move and plow into people because you have more physical strength or are you a yeilding candy ass like me?

im going tofight more people from now on in real life
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I have noticed something similar to this - when I am walking through a large group of people I try to avoid running into them. So my head is up, I watch where I go, I am alert and I am constantly stepping left and right, twisting my body to avoid contact with others. People see me doing this, being the nice guy going the extra mile to be curteous and they walk right at me like I don't exist. Just expecting me to move. It really pisses me off.
 
SublimeZM said:
it makes me feel good to hear from people who i thoguht were cooler than me that they hate their college and are transfering (either to my school or from my school).

either way, it makes me feel good that im happy for the most part and have fun and a good group of friends when their lives fucking suck so bad they have to run from it, scrap everything, and start over.

i was leaving the diner and there was a girl behind me leaving too. i never know the etique...hold it and wait a little and seem like a tool, or let the door slam in their face.

so its double doors, and i waited a little extra to hold the door for a girl, and she just opened up the other one and walked right past me while i held the door like a tool.


also at the restaurant for mothers day i had to go to the bathroom and the seating was a little crowded. i get up to go and some fucker waiter was rushing by so i stoped moved out of his way, and he stops and knees right in front of me and starts doing something in the cabinet, im like wtf, go around the table, same shit happens on the other side with a different waiter!!!, i go back to the other place because the other dude left, and a waitress rushes by carrying food so i move and let her go, all the while spending like 45 seconds look like a massive douche not able to get by (when im able because i could fucking destroy them if i wanted but i was courteous).

a while back i asked my brother why when im nice to people and yeild or move out of the way a little bit they take complete advantage and either dont move at all or move even more in my way when im way bigger than them and will pwn them in every physical way. he says its cause they can because i let them.

do you guys refuse to move and plow into people because you have more physical strength or are you a yeilding candy ass like me?

im going tofight more people from now on in real life
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i think the waiters were just busy. and I doubt you looked like a douche because you couldn't get by- that happens to everyone all the time. You stand there and wait patiently, and it makes the other person look like the jerk for not letting you through.

wanna fight me?
 
Smurfy said:
you personlize and internalize your meaningless interactions with total strangers way too much.
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Disagree.


These people are purposely taking advantage of you, then laughing about it behind your back SZM.

Fight them.

Do it.

Now.

While you can still save face.
 
jh1 said:
Disagree.


These people are purposely taking advantage of you, then laughing about it behind your back SZM.

Fight them.

Do it.

Now.

While you can still save face.
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Why waste your energy on people you don't even give two shits about who you will probably never see again? I could give a rats ass what people who I don't know think of me if I'm leaving a restaurant or in one, etc.

Stop teaching him bad things. Letting shit like this go by you will guarantee you a happier life. You can't take everything so personal.
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Why waste your energy on people you don't even give two shits about who you will probably never see again? I could give a rats ass what people who I don't know think of me if I'm leaving a restaurant or in one, etc.

Stop teaching him bad things. Letting shit like this go by you will guarantee you a happier life. You can't take everything so personal.
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InquisitivePsyche is in on it. She's laughing at you too.
 
damn bro...sometimes I'd really like to reach out to you and help.....but...ehh...you prolly would never listen anyway
 
jh1 said:
Disagree.


These people are purposely taking advantage of you, then laughing about it behind your back SZM.

Fight them.

Do it.

Now.

While you can still save face.
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yep, agreed
these peeps are lol'ing at you as we speak, on some shitty ez board talking about the fat kid that was their bitch last night in a restaurant.
 
Smurfy said:
you personlize and internalize your meaningless interactions with total strangers way too much.
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so does that mean they are, or arnt taking advantage?

everyone takes advantage of everyone if they can get away with it...should i bump into them, or keep being good like im doing and have my rewards come in the afterlife
 
stilleto said:
i think the waiters were just busy. and I doubt you looked like a douche because you couldn't get by- that happens to everyone all the time. You stand there and wait patiently, and it makes the other person look like the jerk for not letting you through.

wanna fight me?
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id rather be a jerk than a pussyass bitch
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Why waste your energy on people you don't even give two shits about who you will probably never see again? I could give a rats ass what people who I don't know think of me if I'm leaving a restaurant or in one, etc.

Stop teaching him bad things. Letting shit like this go by you will guarantee you a happier life. You can't take everything so personal.
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exactly, so does that mean i sh ould stop yeilding to people?

im bigger, they are smaller, and if it pisses them off i will never see them again anyway.

is that what ur saying?
 
SublimeZM said:
so does that mean they are, or arnt taking advantage?

everyone takes advantage of everyone if they can get away with it...should i bump into them, or keep being good like im doing and have my rewards come in the afterlife
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You got to let certain things go ; anger turns to bitterness ; which turns into ugly lines on the face. Bitterness makes people ugly. YOu have to just let some things go! :)
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Why waste your energy on people you don't even give two shits about who you will probably never see again? I could give a rats ass what people who I don't know think of me if I'm leaving a restaurant or in one, etc.

Stop teaching him bad things. Letting shit like this go by you will guarantee you a happier life. You can't take everything so personal.
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IP was the one at the restaurant!!
 
cindylou said:
You got to let certain things go ; anger turns to bitterness ; which turns into ugly lines on the face. Bitterness makes people ugly. YOu have to just let some things go! :)
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you callin me ugly?
 
SublimeZM said:
so does that mean they are, or arnt taking advantage?

everyone takes advantage of everyone if they can get away with it...should i bump into them, or keep being good like im doing and have my rewards come in the afterlife
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They aren't. You're taking things that are nothing and turning it into something. The girl and the door, whatever. She was a jerk and it's her issue, not yours.
 
really, whatever...who gives a shit. you can attempt to be nice to people without letting it get into your own boundary.
when someone acts like a douche i just smile and brush it off or say some witty comment that just makes them feel like an idiot and makes me seem not phased. my life > theirs

notice when you're having a good day and you feel on top of the world,the little shit doesn't get to you? your boundary and identity is strong, so little shit like that doesn't make a difference.
 
calveless wonder said:
really, whatever...who gives a shit. you can attempt to be nice to people without letting it get into your own boundary.
when someone acts like a douche i just smile and brush it off or say some witty comment that just makes them feel like an idiot and makes me seem not phased. my life > theirs

notice when you're having a good day and you feel on top of the world,the little shit doesn't get to you? your boundary and identity is strong, so little shit like that doesn't make a difference.
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lol, its not like after this stuff happens i cry and hate life and wonder why i suck so bad....

this thread is more about observations than me actually letting shit get to me
 
Why would you allow the thoughtless behavior (chances are most of those peeps didnt even notice you) of others alter who you are?

Case in point -

In NJ 99.9% are tunnel-visioned, rude and self-absorped TOTALLY without any manners or etiquitte, yet I am who I am regardless. I dont let THEM affect me.

Since I have moved to Texas 99.9% of TOTAL STRANGERS practically fall all over themselves to be kind, courteous, friendly and helpfull. Yet I am still the same "me".

Do you get what I am saying here?

See, I am still me and yet the behavior of people around me is totally different which means it had naught to do with me at all, and everything to do with them. The people that were rude and ignorant were rude and ignorant to everyone else. The people who were polite and helpfull are that way to everyone, not just because I am "cute" or "special".... which, by the way.... I AM! :)
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Why would you allow the thoughtless behavior (chances are most of those peeps didnt even notice you) of others alter who you are?

Case in point -

In NJ 99.9% are tunnel-visioned, rude and self-absorped TOTALLY without any manners or etiquitte, yet I am who I am regardless. I dont let THEM affect me.

Since I have moved to Texas 99.9% of TOTAL STRANGERS practically fall all over themselves to be kind, courteous, friendly and helpfull. Yet I am still the same "me".

Do you get what I am saying here?

See, I am still me and yet the behavior of people around me is totally different which means it had naught to do with me at all, and everything to do with them. The people that were rude and ignorant were rude and ignorant to everyone else. The people who were polite and helpfull are that way to everyone, not just because I am "cute" or "special".... which, by the way.... I AM! :)
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you musta grown up in south jersey
 
the fact is, anyone who doesnt try at least a little bit to yeild on a narrow walkway so both people can pass is thinking some in their head about trying to bitch the other person, or thinking they are too important to move.

i wanna bash in face
 
I am and always have been VERY old-school when it comes to manners, so much so that people sometimes question my sincerity... then they come to know me and realize that I am all about being polite and nice because that is who I am. If someone is nasty to me, then I may or may not say something about it. Most often though, I will just walk away as their attitude is on THEM and I simply refuse to allow some creton's negativity to sully my world. :)

I have learned the hard way that there is no "enlightening" or debating with a moron... They are rude, shallow, nasty period. I used to try and engage these types. But quickly realized that my sunny disposition did NOT rub off onto them, however, their negativity did manage to bring me down a bit.
 
Yeah dude I agree with Jnevin

the chick who opened the other door was just being a bitch, or possibly she felt like you were standing in an open doorway waiting for someone, and wanted to give you space.

did you make eye contact with her smile etc?

I don't think you should stop "yielding" you're not really giving anything up.

It feels good to do good things for people.

Also I'm from canada.. and we all always open doors for each other.. and smile and say thank you..

do what makes you feel good bro, there are times to yield and times to b-line.

fighting doesn't really solve much, I faught all my life kicked alot of asses then some freakish thing happened and I fugged my ankle.

Now I'll only fight to defend myself or someone I care about, it's not worth going around picking shit.
 
SublimeZM said:
it makes me feel good to hear from people who i thoguht were cooler than me that they hate their college and are transfering (either to my school or from my school).

either way, it makes me feel good that im happy for the most part and have fun and a good group of friends when their lives fucking suck so bad they have to run from it, scrap everything, and start over.

i was leaving the diner and there was a girl behind me leaving too. i never know the etique...hold it and wait a little and seem like a tool, or let the door slam in their face.

so its double doors, and i waited a little extra to hold the door for a girl, and she just opened up the other one and walked right past me while i held the door like a tool.


also at the restaurant for mothers day i had to go to the bathroom and the seating was a little crowded. i get up to go and some fucker waiter was rushing by so i stoped moved out of his way, and he stops and knees right in front of me and starts doing something in the cabinet, im like wtf, go around the table, same shit happens on the other side with a different waiter!!!, i go back to the other place because the other dude left, and a waitress rushes by carrying food so i move and let her go, all the while spending like 45 seconds look like a massive douche not able to get by (when im able because i could fucking destroy them if i wanted but i was courteous).

a while back i asked my brother why when im nice to people and yeild or move out of the way a little bit they take complete advantage and either dont move at all or move even more in my way when im way bigger than them and will pwn them in every physical way. he says its cause they can because i let them.

do you guys refuse to move and plow into people because you have more physical strength or are you a yeilding candy ass like me?

im going tofight more people from now on in real life
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AHHHHHHHHHHHAHAHAHAH agreed
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
Yeah dude I agree with Jnevin

the chick who opened the other door was just being a bitch, or possibly she felt like you were standing in an open doorway waiting for someone, and wanted to give you space.

did you make eye contact with her smile etc?

I don't think you should stop "yielding" you're not really giving anything up.

It feels good to do good things for people.

Also I'm from canada.. and we all always open doors for each other.. and smile and say thank you..

do what makes you feel good bro, there are times to yield and times to b-line.

fighting doesn't really solve much, I faught all my life kicked alot of asses then some freakish happened and I fugged my ankle.

Now I'll only fight to defend myself or someone I care about, it's not worth going around picking shit.
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lol i never actually fight anyone, you just sound like a thug asshole
:worried: :worried: :worried:
 
I minored in Psych and have always been interested in the crowd mentality. Normally I yield a bit for people, but sometimes I feel like plowing people. What is weird is that people will damn near trample me on campus if I am in a yielding mood, but they avoid me if I'm aiming to run into them. It has a lot to do with where you look (eye contact causes problems), but posture affects it just as much. Keep the shoulders broad and square, and oncoming crowd beware!
 
Your posture does say a lot without you having to say a word. I have perfect posture from years of bbing/competing/modeling and I have to laugh every time I hear someone say that they find me "intimidating." I am like, WTF? I am a 5'3" 125# female who is tiny... how could I intimidate ANYONE?! Funny too, most say they never realize how short I am because of how I carry myself. LOL
 
newbiebynature said:
is that where Donnie Darko was filmed? i love that movie..
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I have no idea... matter of fact, I am almost afraid that I will sound waaaaaaaay old, but I've not heard of that movie. :worried:
 
don't get mad, just tell them they suck and forget about it. everytime you roll your eyes at them and say "hey it's your world, i just live in it," your test goes up 5 ng/ml



if you hold your line and bump someone your test goes up 10
 
nimbus said:
don't get mad, just tell them they suck and forget about it. everytime you roll your eyes at them and say "hey it's your world, i just live in it," your test goes up 5 ng/ml



if you hold your line and bump someone your test goes up 10
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how much do i get for smashing their teeth against the pavement
 
SublimeZM said:
so does that mean they are, or arnt taking advantage?

everyone takes advantage of everyone if they can get away with it...should i bump into them, or keep being good like im doing and have my rewards come in the afterlife
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lol taking advantage? what are they gettting out of it?


don't flatter yourself. strangers dont care that much. and they have no recollection of you.
 
Smurfy said:
lol taking advantage? what are they gettting out of it?


don't flatter yourself. strangers dont care that much. and they have no recollection of you.
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thanks for giving me the facts of life...knowitall :rolleyes:
 
lol i fuggin love sublime, bro we have the same social awareness

i usually hold doors if i determine i can stand there for less than 3-4 seconds without looking like a tool

sometimes it's not worth it, just let it slam...i hate rushing to a door because someone is holding it open, just fucking close it and i'll get there when i get there

lol @ the walking thing, bro i do the same shit, you have to be determined in your stride and know you will not move

but i'm nice and let them walk by even though i can fucking knock them down with one shoulder bump
 
swole said:
lol i fuggin love sublime, bro we have the same social awareness

i usually hold doors if i determine i can stand there for less than 3-4 seconds without looking like a tool

sometimes it's not worth it, just let it slam...i hate rushing to a door because someone is holding it open, just fucking close it and i'll get there when i get there

lol @ the walking thing, bro i do the same shit, you have to be determined in your stride and know you will not move

but i'm nice and let them walk by even though i can fucking knock them down with one shoulder bump
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ahh, finally someone who doesnt suck.

i know exactlyw hat you mean, sometimes they hold the door open for me and i look at em and walk real slow...other times ill dash up the steps to get to the door...it depends.

these fuckers just dont understand us
 
SublimeZM said:
ahh, finally someone who doesnt suck.

i know exactlyw hat you mean, sometimes they hold the door open for me and i look at em and walk real slow...other times ill dash up the steps to get to the door...it depends.

these fuckers just dont understand us
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you never answered my post #33 =(
 
SublimeZM said:
ahh, finally someone who doesnt suck.

i know exactlyw hat you mean, sometimes they hold the door open for me and i look at em and walk real slow...other times ill dash up the steps to get to the door...it depends.

these fuckers just dont understand us
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the problem is we care too much, and there's nothing wrong with that

and i'm sure this extends to other things in life as well

we appreciate and understand how others perceive us as well as social dynamics, which can either be considered a curse or blessing

except on somedays i really don't give a fuck and walk around all alpha-male and shit

i try not to think too much sometimes
 
nimbus said:
the best is when you form megazord with your friends on the way to class and make people walk in the grass
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You are on your way to class?


Let us know when you get there.

You fuck.
 
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