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AFeedz

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Is it rude to turn down a bachelorette party, when you're a bridesmaid in the wedding?

This bitch sends us out an email today giving me a pricing breakdown for her party.

500-whatever per person plane ticket
500-whatever per person for the hotel
70 whatever pp for whatever club
100 whatever pp for some VIP nonsense
100 whatever pp for some poolside bullshit

I don't remember the rest or if there was anymore but that's the gist.

And then I'll have to pay for food and to tip all these assholes, like the people at the spa were supposed to be attending.

Fuck that nonsense, right? Not rude when she's being inconsiderate enough to ask me to spend prob like 2k on a 2-3 day trip, right? When I already need to buy your ass gifts and a $300 bridesmaid dress?




/jew
 
AFeedz said:
Is it rude to turn down a bachelorette party, when you're a bridesmaid in the wedding?

This bitch sends us out an email today giving me a pricing breakdown for her party.

500-whatever per person plane ticket
500-whatever per person for the hotel
70 whatever pp for whatever club
100 whatever pp for some VIP nonsense
100 whatever pp for some poolside bullshit

I don't remember the rest or if there was anymore but that's the gist.

And then I'll have to pay for food and to tip all these assholes, like the people at the spa were supposed to be attending.

Fuck that nonsense, right? Not rude when she's being inconsiderate enough to ask me to spend prob like 2k on a 2-3 day trip, right? When I already need to buy your ass gifts and a $300 bridesmaid dress?




/jew
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don't u :heart: her?
 
Ugh, this is why I told myself that I would never be a bridesmaid again! I swear, my last time was THE LAST!

She's going to be pissed and gossip about you the entire weekend about how you're jealous and can't stand when the attention isn't on you. Or something like that.
 
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cindylou said:
Ugh, this is why I told myself that I would never be a bridesmaid again! I swear, my last time was THE LAST!

She's going to be pissed and gossip about you the entire weekend about how you're jealous and can't stand when the attention is on you. Or something like that.
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then she's going to get fat and her husband is going to cheat on her
 
cindylou said:
Ugh, this is why I told myself that I would never be a bridesmaid again! I swear, my last time was THE LAST!

She's going to be pissed and gossip about you the entire weekend about how you're jealous and can't stand when the attention is on you. Or something like that.
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Maybe. Im guessing I won't be the only one skipping out. If you're rude and baller enough to want us all to go on this trip, you need to pay for my ass. I'm not spending that on a bachelorette party. Not even close.
 
Yea, if you turn her down though. Please give a legit reason. If you just say "NO" and expect her to understand... well I have done things like this before with girls in general and (even though I'm a guy I figured this much out) man... the recoil is horrid. Like most people would think "Meh, they'll understand right?" But in times like these the girls will get even more selfish and think you don't wanna go for EVERY bad reason possible. (I'm sure you can imagine a few)
 
mattrag said:
Yea, if you turn her down though. Please give a legit reason. If you just say "NO" and expect her to understand... well I have done things like this before with girls in general and (even though I'm a guy I figured this much out) man... the recoil is horrid. Like most people would think "Meh, they'll understand right?" But in times like these the girls will get even more selfish and think you don't wanna go for EVERY bad reason possible. (I'm sure you can imagine a few)
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u don't need a reason under those conditions

my reason wood be "cuz I don't have gold bricks falling out of my ass"
 
mattrag said:
Yea, if you turn her down though. Please give a legit reason. If you just say "NO" and expect her to understand... well I have done things like this before with girls in general and (even though I'm a guy I figured this much out) man... the recoil is horrid. Like most people would think "Meh, they'll understand right?" But in times like these the girls will get even more selfish and think you don't wanna go for EVERY bad reason possible. (I'm sure you can imagine a few)
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I'm ok with her being mad. I don't owe her an explanation. If she cut me out, that'd be fine by me.
 
cindylou said:
15 bridesmaids. I already don't like her. Lol!

Completely agree Annie.
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Right? I hate it. There's no way you're super equally close to 15 people. Draw the line. I told her she didn't need to include me and she told me she wanted me and would cut some other people before me. That's scary but I mean I like her and we chill but were not even like best friends.

And um, if you could've cut people, you should've.
 
If you were one of four bridesmaids, I'd do some soul-searching.

If you were one of 15, I'd pass. That is ridiculous.
 
AFeedz said:
Right? I hate it. There's no way you're super equally close to 15 people. Draw the line. I told her she didn't need to include me and she told me she wanted me and would cut some other people before me. That's scary but I mean I like her and we chill but were not even like best friends.

And um, if you could've cut people, you should've.
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She doesn't have any really close friends I bet...she's kinda superficial with her friendships?
 
Tell her it wouldnt be a sound investment decision since it has a 50% FAILURE rate.
 
Blah blah blah Im getting married
Blah blah blah spend $1500 going to my party
Blah blah blah I have to plan my own bachelorette party
Blah blah blah my life sucks because I have 15 bridesmaids and no actual friends
Blah blah blah I will be divorced in 5 years and everyone will be pissed they are out the money and time

Fuck Im pacing
 
-SD- said:
Blah blah blah Im getting married
Blah blah blah spend $1500 going to my party
Blah blah blah I have to plan my own bachelorette party
Blah blah blah my life sucks because I have 15 bridesmaids and no actual friends
Blah blah blah I will be divorced in 5 years and everyone will be pissed they are out the money and time

Fuck Im pacing
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Lol pretty much.
 
I dunno, we all went to N.O. for my sis in law's bachelorette party and it was an awesome time. I paid for myself. I had no problem with it. But if i didnt want to spend the money, i didnt have to go and my sis in law isnt some asshole who would hold it against me.

Sounds like you dont really like this girl
 
just get loaded and let the rest take care of itself. noone will ask again. i didnt even wear a suit to my cousins wedding. the pics are great. everyone dolled up and me in jeans, a black hoodie with a green plaid coat over it lol
 
That is the thing smurf, it all depends on who asks you. Brides don't just ask their close friends anymore. I was a bridesmaid 8 times in 5 years. I had three girls stand with me, one was my sister. By the time I was buying dress number 4, I was done with stuff like this. In the beginning these parties were fun but after awhile they became a drain and more and more expensive. The brides became more demanding and bitchy too.
 
CoBra666 said:
just get loaded and let the rest take care of itself. noone will ask again. i didnt even wear a suit to my cousins wedding. the pics are great. everyone dolled up and me in jeans, a black hoodie with a green plaid coat over it lol
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Lol nicely played, although I took the same concept into effect the other night just a different scenario, got loaded.. Let the scenario play out, and now I am well on my way to being single .

As for the original post I would just offer a decent reason why you can't go, like you can't afford it if she's mad well maybe she shouldn't have a destination wedding, the whole purpose of those are to give friendly invites out to people that can't afford them so you don't look like an ahole when they decline.


Ride it like you stole it!!
 
tell her your mom's sick with a terminal disease.. then after you can share the exciting news of a miraculous cure.. all because of Jesus..
 
ceo said:
So, 15 people...at $1500 (or more) a piece?

What the fuck kind of bachelorette party costs $22,500?? Please give some details about this par-tay.
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The kind that starts with a hotel suite bigger than my mother's house.
 
nice 1% life

"oh look at me i have friends who can afford a 2000 party"
 
Are party drugs inc? I would totally go...that's not too bad of a price
 
I could see that being for a bachelor party...women aren't going to spend that kind of money on partying...
 
EarthRider said:
nice 1% life

"oh look at me i have friends who can afford a 2000 party"
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lol shutup.

I'm smart with my money (I think, anyways), so I could spend that money on it. It really doesn't have to do with not being able to afford it. It has to do with the fact that I think it's rude to ask me to spend that much, whether you know I can afford it or not, when you know about all the other shit I need to buy for your wedding.

And for the people saying it doesn't sound like I like her much, I do. We're not best friends, but we hang out a lot. She's not some completely random acquaintance. I just don't like this act specifically.
 
wootoom said:
I could see that being for a bachelor party...women aren't going to spend that kind of money on partying...
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At least a couple hundred of it is going strictly toward partying. I'd consider that no problem if I weren't already paying over $1,000 just to fly and sleep there. And she probably isn't going to want to eat anywhere particularly affordable. I spent a few hundred on my best friend's bachelorette party in November, but we stayed in Tampa for it. And I spent a few hundred on one in Miami a couple weeks ago.

My PM inbox is now accepting applications for a sugar daddy who'd like to take care of me through the next few months until this is over, because I'm not wasting my own money on that bullshit. :)
 
AFeedz said:
lol shutup.

I'm smart with my money (I think, anyways), so I could spend that money on it. It really doesn't have to do with not being able to afford it. It has to do with the fact that I think it's rude to ask me to spend that much, whether you know I can afford it or not, when you know about all the other shit I need to buy for your wedding.

And for the people saying it doesn't sound like I like her much, I do. We're not best friends, but we hang out a lot. She's not some completely random acquaintance. I just don't like this act specifically.
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I think its totally obnoxious to ask girls in their early 20s to spend that kind of money on a weekend. Its one thing if you're in your late 30s and 40s and have a lot of disposable income but people in their early 20s don't. You might be able to afford it but I'm suuuure you can think of a million other things you'd rather do with that money. She should at least have another smaller party here so people that don't want to spend thousands of dollars (even if they can afford it but for whatever reason don't want to) can participate, I think. 20k on a bachelorette party is stupid; the wedding shouldn't cost any more than that but thats the way weddings are anymore, the weddings cost 100k and the parties are all 20k...I don't understand it. I ran into this and didn't do some things and because everyone thought I could afford it, got pissed. I couldn't afford it. Think about every time you're a bridesmaid you have to spend all that money, you'd go broke trying to please everyone. I will spend 1k on a weekend, tops. If I really like you.
 
cindylou said:
I think its totally obnoxious to ask girls in their early 20s to spend that kind of money on a weekend. Its one thing if you're in your late 30s and 40s and have a lot of disposable income but people in their early 20s don't. You might be able to afford it but I'm suuuure you can think of a million other things you'd rather do with that money. She should at least have another smaller party here so people that don't want to spend thousands of dollars (even if they can afford it but for whatever reason don't want to) can participate, I think. 20k on a bachelorette party is stupid; the wedding shouldn't cost any more than that but thats the way weddings are anymore, the weddings cost 100k and the parties are all 20k...I don't understand it. I ran into this and didn't do some things and because everyone thought I could afford it, got pissed. I couldn't afford it. I will spend 1k on a weekend, tops. If I really like you.
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Yeah. Besides her family members, I know a group of the other girls can't afford it. I want to go to grad school, I could use that couple grand. My dad and his wife are also renting a house in France for a few months this summer, I could use it to visit them. Her bachelorette party just isn't on my list of priorities of things to spend that much money on.

Except when I get engaged/married, I'm going to invite you and demand you spend thousands to be there. lol :qt: And then I'm going to make you my 22nd bridesmaid.
 
roofie everyone at the pre party and never leave the hotel..

I think it is rude for her to ask, you are not her father..
 
lmao, what happen to the days of going to a bar and getting blasted for a night

i could do drugs, get wasted and enjoy a great hang over for less than a hundo
 
AFeedz said:
At least a couple hundred of it is going strictly toward partying. I'd consider that no problem if I weren't already paying over $1,000 just to fly and sleep there. And she probably isn't going to want to eat anywhere particularly affordable. I spent a few hundred on my best friend's bachelorette party in November, but we stayed in Tampa for it. And I spent a few hundred on one in Miami a couple weeks ago.

My PM inbox is now accepting applications for a sugar daddy who'd like to take care of me through the next few months until this is over, because I'm not wasting my own money on that bullshit. :)
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PM Sent!!
 
Do I misunderstand something: $22,500 for a bachelorette party?!? A FRIGGIN' PARTY?! ARE YOU SHITTING ME?!

15 bridesmaids? GTFO. If you have anything more than three or four they better be mostly family.
 
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