I was PM'ed at Bolex about this thread, so I came over to read it....Let me say that I was a ref for KK. I never once spoke to the guy anyway other than email. I had no cell phone #, no home addy, none of that shit....I helped several bros with problems over the short time I was a ref for him. However, when he scammed/got busted/left the country/got abducted by aliens, I still tried to help the few guys who emailed me by emailed him and trying to figure out what was up....Obviously he just chose to ignore my emails just like everyone else who was mailing him. I really have no idea who his other refs were, or how intimately they knew him. I do think sometimes people tend to think that certain people, mods and refs in particular, are somehow "in the loop" and talk face to face or have phone conversations quite often. I have been a member of various boards, including my home board Bolex, for 7 years. I have spoken to exactly 1 person that I knew off the boards, and that was in the gym. I know several guys from very close to me, including Kappa who has posted in this thread, but havent even spoken with them other than via email.
Bottom line is that sometimes there really isnt this big conspiracy that we all want to believe there is...Sometimes guys just decide to dick people over for whatever reason, and the rest of us suffer......
Since Im not over here very often, feel free to email me if you want any other details on the subject....
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