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is the grass always greener?
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satanic goatslayer
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The grass is always dug up because summer is the perfect season for gravedigging.
HappyScrappy
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that's why I think everyone should shave.
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Big Buck
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shave the grass off and leave it bald....
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MommaKin
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The grass is not greener..or not always...I think ppl most of the time convince themselves it is....
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MommaKin
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one more thing, there is no grass, like Wod said and if there is, shave it all off, like Buck said and I then said show us the pics!!
show!!
show!!
It depends.
If the reason someone is looking is because they are bored or because of physical attraction, then the
grass probably isn't greener.
If on the other hand there is a real attraction, not just physical, it probably can be.
Just be sure the grass is real and not artificial.
Once you make that move there is usually no turning back.
If the reason someone is looking is because they are bored or because of physical attraction, then the
grass probably isn't greener.
If on the other hand there is a real attraction, not just physical, it probably can be.
Just be sure the grass is real and not artificial.
Once you make that move there is usually no turning back.
WODIN said:Supergirl I never said...better safe than sorry, but if you feel the need to set your self apart to feel like your life is full then by all means...enjoy your delusion.
**MTSW watch this one....**
damn wodin, why so defensive and argumentative? and what is mtsw?
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Big Buck
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I want you for breakfast....lunch...dinner....and a midnight snack (and small nibbles between those) LOL 
LOL 
supergirl said:
Not being defensive, just argumentative...
Cuz I feel like it! mtsw is irrelivant.I think you are looking to set yourself apart in order to feel a sense of selfworth. I can fully understand the need and desire to do this living in and around NYC. We all have a basic desire to feel this way, however, I do think that living in large groups magnifies this, hence the development of celebrity in our society.
actually wodin, i am not looking to for a false sense of self worth.. i am very secure in me and don't need other peoples approval to make me feel worthiness.. i get that all on my own... with that said... it just seemed to me that everyone kinda didn't feel like the chance of greener grass was worth the risk and i simply stated that in my opinion, IT IS... now what that says about me is that yes, i believe in taking chances especially when i am not satisfied with the status quo and if i am really curious if the grass is greener, then obviously something in my own life/relationship is askew... And i posted this thread to see if other people agreed with this idea and if anyone has had any experience with it... not a post to self brag nor set me apart from the rest..WODIN said:
Jimsbbc
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basically if things aren't working out for her in a relationship she starts hunting men like May at a gay parade. She won't address what is wrong in the relationship and work on it, gives up and moves on like the 55% of Americans that prefer to go ahead and divorce. Fuck it, right? Anyway, MTSW means,
My Tit Squirted Water
My Tit Squirted Water
firstly.. if you read any of the posts, you would see that the situation doesn't pertain to me (i am not in a relationship) secondly.. if i am not happy, i am not gonna stay.. PERIOD..i don't have enough time in this life to waste any little bit of it!!! and i always address what is wrong in all of my relationships and if it is not fixable or worth fixing, then fuck it.. time to move on... Life is about growing, learning from your experiences and enjoying the road along the way....Jimsbbc said:
ps: i know lots of happily divorced people.. shit everyone makes mistakes
Steelplate
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The proverbial grass is greener where it is tended to.. You cant expect to have lush growth if you arent willing to put the time, and care in that is required..
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MommaKin
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How green was the grass if you're now single?
How many times has the grass been greener for you?
Have you ever been married?
How old are you?
If you've had any long term relationships, how long were they and how many did you have?
Pardon me, but, you seem young and inexperienced.
How many times has the grass been greener for you?
Have you ever been married?
How old are you?
If you've had any long term relationships, how long were they and how many did you have?
Pardon me, but, you seem young and inexperienced.
Jimsbbc
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You are the product of New Age thinking. fuck commitments if it doesn't make you happy and isn't totally convenient for you, right? People are too quick to give up on their significant other/spouse. Being in a marriage now is like 5-10 year term, then go trade em in for a new one... fuck that. If you can't stick to a commitment of that level, don't fucking do it in the first place. I am trying not to flame you here, but your attitude pisses me off.
Kakdiesel
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I'm with Jimbbc on this one...not you personally supergirl, but many girls just give up too quickly on a relationship..they dont try to work little kinks out...
"well i'll just find me a new/better man...."
Fuck that...relationships are work..marriage is work. ask anybody who's married..its never perfect and easy..there are bumps, but if you truly love someone or are capable of loving somebody then you would deal with it, fix it, and move on..communication...communication..
Hey ladies, remember those little fairy tales you use to hear and read about when you were little? About the knight in shining armor riding in on his little horse and sweeping you off of your feet?
Well, sorry, the knight is dead and so is his god damn horse...
"well i'll just find me a new/better man...."
Fuck that...relationships are work..marriage is work. ask anybody who's married..its never perfect and easy..there are bumps, but if you truly love someone or are capable of loving somebody then you would deal with it, fix it, and move on..communication...communication..
Hey ladies, remember those little fairy tales you use to hear and read about when you were little? About the knight in shining armor riding in on his little horse and sweeping you off of your feet?
Well, sorry, the knight is dead and so is his god damn horse...
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MommaKin
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excuse me, but, I wanna be a member of JimsBBC...
your sig distracts me Jim...
your sig distracts me Jim...
supergirl said:actually wodin, i am not looking to for a false sense of self worth.. i am very secure in me and don't need other peoples approval to make me feel worthiness.. i get that all on my own... with that said... it just seemed to me that everyone kinda didn't feel like the chance of greener grass was worth the risk and i simply stated that in my opinion, IT IS... now what that says about me is that yes, i believe in taking chances especially when i am not satisfied with the status quo and if i am really curious if the grass is greener, then obviously something in my own life/relationship is askew... And i posted this thread to see if other people agreed with this idea and if anyone has had any experience with it... not a post to self brag nor set me apart from the rest..
IF you see something in your life as being askew then you are wanting something else. This is much like a person who is in the shade on a hot day, gets bored with it, goes into the sun and then feels the discomfort of being in the heat. These are only perceptions, someone else might fully enjoy the sunshine and consider it to a joyful thing.
Like I said...there is no grass.
I LOVE BEING SINGLE... i am 25 living by NYC.. where better to be single?.. never been married, have no kids, can't see getting married any time soon... had a 2 year relationship to whom i had lost my virginity to.. and the rest have been a year or less... i am not one to randomly enter into a relationship.. i have to really care about the guy and then i will fight for him no matter what, UNLESS he treats me like shit, trys to control me or is just a total asshole...MommaKin said:
i would rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong
oh and JIM.. don't hate the player.. hate the game
Kakdiesel said:
oh and that only applies to women... I DON'T THINK SO you MEN are just as fickle if not more... you MEN when having problems in a relationship are the ones with the ostrich syndrome and don't want to talk it out.. you MEN are the ones who check out other women... you MEN forget what passion and romance is... like you said kaky.. the knight is dead
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Big Buck
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winny fan said:
damn, you're smooth...I gotta write that one down so I can use it this weekend when I'm @ the club....LOL
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Big Buck
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*raises hand* can I be a Mr. Wrong...
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KAYNE
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WHATEVER SIDE I'M ON IS WHATEVER SIDE THE GRASS IS GREENEST ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
KAYNE
KAYNE
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MommaKin
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aww yes, young and knows it all.....I was there once
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MommaKin
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It shows you care that you noticed my response and took the time to comment.
I love you for that Capt.
I love you for that Capt.
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MommaKin
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Thanks for the tip.
Now go wipe the shit off of your face, you felcher
Now go wipe the shit off of your face, you felcher
winny fan said:
oops so sorry winny.. i was busy fighting the evil forces who thing us young people don't know anything about life... Now, about the dirty sanchez.. been there done that with salami.. how about we try the donkey punch salalmi is always raving about LOL
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MommaKin
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I know who TheSalami is and I love him!!
Milhouse
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wah wah wah
People always think the grass is greener on the other side.
Well it can be but the problem with most people who think like this is they don't put the time and effort required into making the grass greener. That includes the present.
Good example is with the people working in IT type industries who jump to other companies every time some other company offers $10000 more a year. So the person jumps. In a hot industry, I am good , get a job anywhere.
Yeah ok then the economy tanks as it always does every 7-10 years. So who do you think the boss lays off first. The people who jump from company to company and always think the grass is greener or the schmiuck who has slugged it out from day one with loyalty.
I hated my carreer and business the first 6-7 years. I didn't make enough yad yada yada. I stuck thru with it while watching people come and go and now I really love what I do the past 3-4 years and have started to see the rewards just this past year.
I treat relationships like that too. MY last one which ended late last fall we tried to work it out rather then check out the grass first. It didn't work but thats ok too. We didn't just jump to the other pasture right away nor did we settle when we realized that we deserve better then each other. She is happier now and so am I.
I am single by choice now, just for the fact that I refuse to settle for less then I or any potential person I could/would be with deserves.
Bottom line is you have to exhaust every avenue that is in front of you first before jumping ship. That way you learn from your successes and mistakes.
I have no fucking clue what I just said there.
People always think the grass is greener on the other side.
Well it can be but the problem with most people who think like this is they don't put the time and effort required into making the grass greener. That includes the present.
Good example is with the people working in IT type industries who jump to other companies every time some other company offers $10000 more a year. So the person jumps. In a hot industry, I am good , get a job anywhere.
Yeah ok then the economy tanks as it always does every 7-10 years. So who do you think the boss lays off first. The people who jump from company to company and always think the grass is greener or the schmiuck who has slugged it out from day one with loyalty.
I hated my carreer and business the first 6-7 years. I didn't make enough yad yada yada. I stuck thru with it while watching people come and go and now I really love what I do the past 3-4 years and have started to see the rewards just this past year.
I treat relationships like that too. MY last one which ended late last fall we tried to work it out rather then check out the grass first. It didn't work but thats ok too. We didn't just jump to the other pasture right away nor did we settle when we realized that we deserve better then each other. She is happier now and so am I.
I am single by choice now, just for the fact that I refuse to settle for less then I or any potential person I could/would be with deserves.
Bottom line is you have to exhaust every avenue that is in front of you first before jumping ship. That way you learn from your successes and mistakes.
I have no fucking clue what I just said there.
fistfullofsteel
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supergirl said:
i am guessing he is talking about matttheskywalker when he said mtsw.
he wants to impress matt and everybody else with his philosophy and stroke his own ego. then again i could be wrong because wodin supposedly desires nothing in life. i just wish he had no desire to live and just kill himself.
thefantom1
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My world is sand........ It would be nice to find a single blade of grass......
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Johnny Zampon
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bump for supergirl.
Dread Lord Good Guy
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grass has bugs in it
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