Is seeing a girl everyday not healthy if we both want to?

[Murman]

Here's the thing man if you spend to much time with her and 3 or 4 months go by an your together all the time, one night you want to go out with the friends.

He or she this works both ways will start to think is he or she getting sick of me that now they want to spend time with thier friends. So make sure you do this from the start take a few night and do stuff with your friends or just stay home and chill.

Alot of us don't do this and all we hear later is you don't love me anymore!!!!!!

This doesn't take place all the time but it does most of the time.

Good luck with your girl!!!!!!

 

[HelenSL]

Here's the thing man if you spend to much time with her and 3 or 4 months go by an your together all the time, one night you want to go out with the friends.

He or she this works both ways will start to think is he or she getting sick of me that now they want to spend time with thier friends. So make sure you do this from the start take a few night and do stuff with your friends or just stay home and chill.

Alot of us don't do this and all we hear later is you don't love me anymore!!!!!!

This doesn't take place all the time but it does most of the time.

Good luck with your girl!!!!!!

why don't you just talk about it then instead of saying shit and getting the 'you don't love me anymore' later???

is that a dumbass question or is it that you are a dumbass for not explaining to her so she wouldn't worry?

there's nothing as stupid as acting to avoid a problem that is only in your own imagination...

excuse me if i was rude, i was thinking of my ex-psychiatrist again

[i fired him 6 mos ago] he returns no calls won't send my records and now thru a mutual friend i hear he is not sending them because i didn't pay up - but he never billed me for the last visit!!! His fault!!! bastard i need my records ]

love
helen

 

[-SD-]

Its equal desire to be with each other this much, we both ask to see each other, neither one of us feels pushy.

 

[theoak01]

natymike is right,this happened back when i was going out with that girl from jan-april,we saw each other everyday i didnt work and then she would come to my work and sit there with me,it got so bad i didnt call her for days and she had to initiate contact because jsut the sound of her voice got on my nerves,i say 4 -5 times a week is healthy

 

[Y_lifter]

Been there Bro, When I started dating my wife I asked her out every night for about a month.
Monday - Sunday we were actually going somewhere, Movies etc.
Finally she one night she said she wanted a night off to be with herself and do nothing.
She was all worried that I would be hurt or something.

I then realized how much of a chronic I had been wanting to see her all the time. And yes, we had fun every one of those nights but it was breakin my wallet...

 

[Body]

Can't put it any better than Winny Fan

 

[HelenSL]

if she is blowing you or letting you fuck her everyday, than it is fine. but as soon as a day goes by where she doesnt get you off, then you must break it off with her, for she will think that she can see you without fuckin or suckin you, and that is wrong. most girls are so stupid and think us guys want to talk and hang out with them. bottom line. yes you can see her everyday, but if no sucky, no fucky, then no see everyday.

I think you are right that a woman who thought that after sex with a guy every day for a while, she could unilaterally change the relationship to less sex, would be a bit foolish...

however there are such things as intimately personal relationships without sex

i'm not expecting you to believe that but i have seen such things...(ok that does assume no-one is lying about the relationship, granted... )...at least occasionally

***any relationship change needs to be mutually agreed upon or the relationship is going to be hurt, maybe even destroyed (at least for a while)***

love
helen