Is seeing a girl everyday not healthy if we both want to?

[-SD-]

I got a girlfriend, basically, and we see each other all the time, which is ok with me because we realy like each other, just not used to something like that. Is it unhealthy for the relationship since we just met a couple weeks ago to be like this? I dont want everything to be smothered but if we both like it I dont see a problem. Guess Im just not used to something like this. Anyone?

 

[Natymike]

Yes, you have only known each other a couple of weeks. So its not healthy for the relationship.

Me and my GF have been together for 5 months and we give each other a lot of "space" to keep the relationship healthy.

You will get annoyed at every little thing if you spend 24/7 together.

 

[TxCollegeguy]

I concur with Natymike

 

[-SD-]

is not everyday literally, but so far the majority of days we see each other in some capacity.

 

[TxCollegeguy]

I would set some limits like just on weekends or like 2-3 days at most

 

[Jax]

My girlfriend and I go to the same college, so every semester we see each other a LOT every day. Some little things DO start to get annoying, but someday you may need to be able to deal with those things EVERY day. On the other hand, space keeps it spicy. Dude, do whatever you want to. If you start to feel smothered, then spend fewer days together. After only a couple weeks you're still in the honeymoon period, you could probably spend every minute together and both be cool with it .

 

[velvett]

It's not unhealthy until you are solely dependant on one another or one person becomes controlling of the other person time and energy. While, I strongly believe couples should have outside interests and friendships without their mate it is nice to know that there is that sort of compatibility between you.

It's normal to be together more than usual when you start dating someone that you really jive with - so just sit back relax and enjoy your time together.

And don't analyze everything to death.

 

[twinturbo]

so what happens when you live together and after a year you start getting very annyoed with all the little stuff??

 

[lincoln]

Everyone is different. Some people need to have alone time. Others hate it.

 

[HelenSL]

kewl!!!

There's no problem with it. Time will wear this off, though. So enjoy it while you can.

yeah, that's what i was gonna say, except, how much it wears off it up to the both of you, in fact.

but partly you are getting to know each other; once you know each other better you will have less - finding out to do

and you will naturally get a bit more balance back in your lives...

but definitely i'd say...hey why not unless it is hurting your grades or other relationships/responsibilities in life...do be a bit careful of them though - don't let them slide in a way you'll regret later. You both can choose a whole lifetime to get to know each other better so really there's no rush on this... *smile* but try telling that to someone who is totally in love...*grin*

love
helen