Is my bitch cheating? Poll!

[Staind]

Alright here is the deal. We have been in serious love for the past 13 months, living together the whole time. We are engaged, planned on getting married by November. We're both moody, lately I been slightly bitchy about not getting sex but like 5 times a week, giving her a hard time.

She's a stripper, so I kinda understand. A stripper on birth control, hating her job alot of the time...Anyway, I had some friends over and suddenly she insists on going to South Carolina to "check out the university" and relax a little (her sister had a wedding there less than a week ago, and I kinda made it not so fun...). Anyway, she is now extending her stay to 3-4 nights total. She admits she is going to dance clubs but says she isn't drinking much at all and is calling me around 3x a day. Tonight she supposed to call me at 2:30...If she doesn't call should I assume the bitch is cheating? Or should I just be the faithful man I am and not worry about it? I really love her....I've been crying alot these days...

 

[Baoh]

Sounds like a healthy relationship. You guys will outlast the stars.

 

[PHATchik]

Hmm, and you're the one that is posting on another thread about where to go in Atlanta to find "some bitches"? Yeah, that makes such sense to me when you combine it with this thread.

 

[-SD-]

Please break up with her and move out. She's a stripper. And don't say she isnt like all the other strippers, you think she is cheating and there is probably a good reason.

Relationships with strippers are dead ends, always.

 

[Staind]

Hey now, I never said I was even going to go to a club, just that I might. And I still wouldn't cheat on my baby. BTW, she became a stripper during our relationship, its a little different I think...Knowing me tho, I'll have to be shitted on before I fight back...I become attached and can't let go

 

[PHATchik]

Well, I could also ask why you assumed that she wasn't going to call. You said she was supposed to call at 2:30. You posted at about 1:20 or so? Why did you assume that she wouldn't call? SHe's been calling around 3 times a day? Well, why is she automatically cheating because she extended her stay? Ok, you said she was going to the club. You were talking about doing the same thing. Does that mean that she should assume you are cheating? Now if you have other reasons you would assume this, please share. Otherwise, you need to stop making assumptions. No flame intended.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

You are marrying a stripper and want to know if she is going to cheat on you? The question should be how many times did she cheat on you already and how many times will she in the future.

Stop crying too. While you are crying your eyes out, she is involved in a gang bang. Although she might me crying too, it involves a different type.

 

[Spectre]

Honestly if you are already this insecure in your relationship it's only going to get worse. But I think you have reasons to have your doubts. Good luck.

 

[manny78]

Hell yes.

 

[JohnyJuice]

So if she calls you at 2:30 she isnt cheating. LOL.
Man you are stupid. I have had chicks i just got dont boning roll over and call their boyfreinds and tell them that they are going to sleep and that they love them. They then hang up and suck my dick some more.

And dude, she is a stripper. You moron.

 

[Baoh]

So if she calls you at 2:30 she isnt cheating. LOL.
Man you are stupid. I have had chicks i just got dont boning roll over and call their boyfreinds and tell them that they are going to sleep and that they love them. They then hang up and suck my dick some more.

And dude, she is a stripper. You moron.

lmfao SO fuckin' true!

 

[Staind]

I appreciate all the feedback from everyone so far. Anyway I ended up calling her a little past 2:30. She was on her way back from the club. Our signal was really shitty so I didn't get to say alot. BTW, she is staying at her sister-in-law's house.

Havn't heard from her yet today either...I still trust her at this point (but not blind trust), believe me, I will be doing as much digging as I can and if she is cheating, I will find out about it sooner rather than later.

She's only been stripping like a month, and I can account for the money she has made, and if she was doing shit there she would be making 3x the money she makes now...I'm not an idiot.

The only question is has she cheated yet on the trip...

Day 1 - Calls me leaves messages, sounds worried about me. I'd give it a definite no.

Day 2 - Says she slept in all day, from the way she sounded and how I know her, she did. Then she woke up, took some allergy medicine and went to a club. Knowing where she is, prob was some mexican salsa type thing...I've been to it, no guys worth cheating on me with there.

Day 3 - This is where I am. Just got ahold of her a second ago. Again says she just woke up...She just doesn't sound the same, I don't feel the same love in her voice, maybe shes tired though...could be.

If I'm getting played I'll be sure to let all you guys laugh in my face...I just hope everything is ok...we'll see

 

[CanadianCripple]

I didn't read anything except the title... buuut my guess would beeee... YES! she is most definitely cheating. LOL

 

[Lift Chief]

Relationships with strippers are dead ends, always.

Words of wisdom

 

[Spectre]

I appreciate all the feedback from everyone so far. Anyway I ended up calling her a little past 2:30. She was on her way back from the club. Our signal was really shitty so I didn't get to say alot. BTW, she is staying at her sister-in-law's house.

Havn't heard from her yet today either...I still trust her at this point (but not blind trust), believe me, I will be doing as much digging as I can and if she is cheating, I will find out about it sooner rather than later.

She's only been stripping like a month, and I can account for the money she has made, and if she was doing shit there she would be making 3x the money she makes now...I'm not an idiot.

The only question is has she cheated yet on the trip...

Day 1 - Calls me leaves messages, sounds worried about me. I'd give it a definite no.

Day 2 - Says she slept in all day, from the way she sounded and how I know her, she did. Then she woke up, took some allergy medicine and went to a club. Knowing where she is, prob was some mexican salsa type thing...I've been to it, no guys worth cheating on me with there.

Day 3 - This is where I am. Just got ahold of her a second ago. Again says she just woke up...She just doesn't sound the same, I don't feel the same love in her voice, maybe shes tired though...could be.

If I'm getting played I'll be sure to let all you guys laugh in my face...I just hope everything is ok...we'll see

Don't live your life like this......

 

[JohnyJuice]

Don't live your life like this......

I am getting the feeling that this dude is a kid. Maybe 19-21?
definitly naive

 

[jwill3:16]

Hmm, and you're the one that is posting on another thread about where to go in Atlanta to find "some bitches"? Yeah, that makes such sense to me when you combine it with this thread.

makes the threads hard to belive both of them.

Plus if you have to ask a question like this in a chat board..
a.) she is cheating
b.) there is no trust in relationship
c.) your not happy!

if you ever have to think about something like this you have dobt plus why in the hell you getting married at 19.. there is a reason you cant drink and get Tattos untill your 21 in most states thats cause 99% of people that age cant make the right decisions... well thats my 2 cents

 

[easton104]

you need to dig up some old too short and take a lesson in pimpology

never turn a ho into a housewife

besides that, jealousy will eat you up if you let it...even if shes not cheating if you think she might be, thats a problem, may be your insecurities or could be her not deserving that trust, at any rate you dont wanna marry a girl u dont trust

 

[HumorMe]

Which University?

 

[Baoh]

Which University?

I'm pretty sure she's looking heavily into Fux U.

 

[HumorMe]

I'm pretty sure she's looking heavily into Fux U.

hmmmmmmmmm.........I might know where that is.

 

[Baoh]

hmmmmmmmmm.........I might know where that is.

Yeah. They even have the founding chapter of I Phelta Thi there.






















That joke is so lame. Both jokes, actually. I will self-impose a severe beating.

 

[Staind]

Yea, no more calls since that last one...i left a message...I think my next message will be from the masquerade, which will be my next post...and yea im 19...me and this girl met in a mental hospital, its been mad love since...i feel like i am a piece of shit, ill put any fall of this relationship on myself, prob end up back in a friggin hospital...

maybe the cycle continues?

 

[Baoh]

...me and this girl met in a mental hospital, its been mad love since...

This is the part where I laugh myself into cardiac failure.

 

[Staind]

Hey, laugh all you want. Keep your mind open. I met some of the coolest ppl in my life there. I'm not crazy, I mean yea, I had a rough childhood and bla bla, I got my issues, but for the most part I'm a normal member of society. I was forced to go from a butanediol OD, if you are living with your 'rents it coulda been any of you people. (of course I moved out after that...)

Anyway, don't patronize me. If you have good feedback, preferably without excessive sarcasm, I want to hear it.

 

[HumorMe]

This is the part where I laugh myself into cardiac failure.

No shit! That kind of information just made this thread null and void.

 

[Baoh]

Hey, laugh all you want. Keep your mind open. I met some of the coolest ppl in my life there. I'm not crazy, I mean yea, I had a rough childhood and bla bla, I got my issues, but for the most part I'm a normal member of society. I was forced to go from a butanediol OD, if you are living with your 'rents it coulda been any of you people. (of course I moved out after that...)

Anyway, don't patronize me. If you have good feedback, preferably without excessive sarcasm, I want to hear it.

Believe me. I'm close to pissing my pants from this laughter hurricane.

I walk along the shoreline where the sea of sanity meets the continent of crazy, and I call this unsanity. I know crazy, I know sane, and I am somewhere in between.

You, however, are just foolish. Honestly, you know nothing of love, and nothing of just about anything, it seems, except how to fuck your life up as amusingly to others as you can.

You, sir, have skills. Mad skills. *Crazy* skills. Were I you, I'd check my ass into the closest Kindergarten and start over.

 

[Staind]

You think I care bitch? One word describes you:

Troll. Spoiled little bitch troll who can't begin to comprehend the life experiences of a friggin' 19 year old. Suck your brother's cock piece of shit.

I didn't post this to be a fucking joke. I had some different experiences than you...so what? Enough to make you piss your pants, eh?

Edit: Me and my girl been through just about everything together, lived together for 12 months around eachother 24/7, Even worked at all the same places job to job for the last 10 months before this happened

piece of shit, think you have a clue? whatever.

 

[Baoh]

You think I care bitch? One word describes you:

Troll. Spoiled little bitch troll who can't begin to comprehend the life experiences of a friggin' 19 year old. Suck your brother's cock piece of shit.

I didn't post this to be a fucking joke. I had some different experiences than you...so what? Enough to make you piss your pants, eh?

Edit: Me and my girl been through just about everything together, lived together for 12 months around eachother 24/7, Even worked at all the same places job to job for the last 10 months before this happened

piece of shit, think you have a clue? whatever.

I'm older than you. I'm more intelligent than you. I pay my own way. I don't OD on anything. I don't fall in medicated mental health facility "love" with some skank. I've lived with a woman for longer than you.

You want a pat on the back, Mr. One-Flew-Over-The-Cuckoo's-Nest, and I won't give you that.

I'm not the only person laughing. Let me tell you, too- It is one HELL of a great laugh.

As for me not having a clue- You're giving me the entire puzzle.

 

[Staind]

Baoh: I'm not looking for a pat on the back, I'm looking for geniune non-insulting advice. Open minded advice.

I know this is where alot of people come to troll, but I just honestly want to expand my view. Sarcasm isn't going to help (but fuck, you probably are happy to see misery...)

I've known people who have been with their girls for 4 years and not had the kind of relationship me and my girl have. I know alot of people older than me, 21+, they still are cynical asses who got shitted on once and they gave up.

Even if I am I won't give up. I fucking believe in things. I don't think this world is one big piece of shit of backstabbing cocksucking whores. I'm gonna stick by my values, and if that kills me, then I DESERVE to be killed I guess.

Edit: I pay my own way too bro...

 

[easton104]

I dont think you need to kick the dude when he is down...thats fucked up...but staind, sounds like u have self esteem issues, heres your chance to nut up and do something that will build your character...dump this bitch, it hurts bad, i was in the same boat...was with a girl for almost 4 years and when things started to get funny and i started wondering where she was, i just decided to keep my pride and break up with her, hardest thing i ever did in my life...but at least i have dignity and didnt cling on to hope, all the while letting the spectrum of human emotions eat at me 24 hours a day

 

[Staind]

Its too early to say definite "dumping" would be going on or anything.

Actually my baby just called. She didn't even have anything to drink tonight and she KNEW I had been sipping the Everclear as usual, so thats a sure sign she isn't drunk. She didnt go dancing tonight either, no noise in the background at 11:30 Shes gonna stay one more day I know but if she comes back and everything seems ok I'm gonna be a happy man. Guess we will wait and see...

BTW: She just encouraged me to go the Masquerade and have fun...interesting. I think I'll take her advice LOL...

 

[Baoh]

If you are for real, do something about your situation and your life. That is all.

 

[Rockafella Skank]

... Edit: Me and my girl been through just about everything together, lived together for 12 months around eachother 24/7, Even worked at all the same places job to job for the last 10 months before this happened ...

So you've experienced the death of one of your children and financial ruin and ... and ... the list goes on forever. In 12 months, what you've experienced is a pimple on the ass of life. Not that it's insignificant, but there's a lots of ground you haven't covered. Lots of ground you don't yet know exists.

Originally posted by Staind ... I've known people who have been with their girls for 4 years and not had the kind of relationship me and my girl have. ...

A relationship that, three days ago, was perfect but is now cast in such doubt? Come on. Fill in some blanks here.

Frankly, the title of your post tells me everything I needed to know. A woman you hold in such high regard that you call her your bitch ... her heart must be aflutter with love. No one deserves to be cheated on, but I wouldn't be surprised if she was searching for something in others what she doesn't find in you.

 

[velvett]

We have been in serious love for the past 13 months, living together the whole time.

A stripper on birth control, hating her job alot of the time...

If she doesn't call should I assume the bitch is cheating? Or should I just be the faithful man I am and not worry about it?

1st, 2nd and 3rd mistakes.

1 -What is non-serious love? Sounds like you are making it more than you think/feel it is - like you need convincing.

2 - What does birth control have to do with stripping? And if it is related - maybe you've got bigger problems.

3 - She could also be injured or dead in a ditch somewhere. Or she could be like me and never recharge her phone batteries. Should you be faithful? Do you need to start cheating on her if you know or suspect she is cheating on you?


You really need to sit down and think about all of this and talk to your girlfriend - get some premarital counseling because November will come up real quick and ya'll are so not ready for such a step.

 

[velvett]

So you've experienced the death of one of your children and financial ruin and ... and ... the list goes on forever. In 12 months, what you've experienced is a pimple on the ass of life. Not that it's insignificant, but there's a lots of ground you haven't covered. Lots of ground you don't yet know exists.


A relationship that, three days ago, was perfect but is now cast in such doubt? Come on. Fill in some blanks here.

Frankly, the title of your post tells me everything I needed to know. A woman you hold in such high regard that you call her your bitch ... her heart must be aflutter with love. No one deserves to be cheated on, but I wouldn't be surprised if she was searching for something in others what she doesn't find in you.

You read my mind.

 

[HULKSTER]

No disrespect to any of the women on EF, but I would never let a non-familial woman hold such power over me. For it is power, and not love or respect, since you have repeatedly called her a bitch. But personally, if I caught my fiancee cheating on me, I think I would have to cleanse her skank body with a chemical bath of my choosing....most likely battery acid, unless making her drink Drano would be more painful. I'll get back to you all on that after I test those methods out on this pesky dog that keeps shitting in my yard.

 

[Staind]

Alright guess I shouldn't have sent so many mixed messages...Let me explain.

Bitch is the word I would refer to her IF she was cheating, and since I wanted opinions on the possiblities, I decided to use it a couple times. I've never called her that once, or even been mad enough at her to consider using it...

The birth control is significant b/c she only has been on that for a few months and her mood hit the shitter for 2 reasons: stripping and the birth control. She has already told me she is getting out of stripping in less than a month, and unless she gets into a really high class club with no bullshit (no contact whatsoever, no stupid low class customers) she won't ever get back in it. She doesn't enjoy this crap, it makes her miserable and she needs to either try a better club or get out.

Anyway don't mistake my tone in this post to how I treat her. She says crap like "why don't you yell back at me?" after an argument because I won't. Even when I'm right I just try to make her happy and end the conflict. She's been calling so right now I'm going to assume this trip is to make up for all the times she never had that night out with some girlfriends, I guess I see her point. Maybe there is too much time together sometimes. I'm just not used to spending anytime alone, I'm probably being the baby here and need to chill out.

It's pretty pathetic...I havn't eaten solid food (all shakes) in the past 3 days. My mood is like a PMSing bitch too, and I've been obsessive compulsive on cleaning the apartment. But shit at least it is working for cutting...

 

[John G]

StainD

First of all she is a stripper. I don't know how you lasted for 13 months, but I couldn't do it. I would rather work harder and longer hours just to make sure she didn't do that. But that is just me. Not saying that you should do that. On a second note do not base her cheating on the fact that she doesn't call you. Very bad move. Don't assume anything. It is either you trust her or you don't. If you trust her then it doesn't matter. Thirteen months isn't a very long time in my opinion to make a commitment such as marriage.

 

[WODIN]

you one clingy mofo for a guy......

 

[Spectre]

Staind; Well then just go ahead and marry her then, get it over with. If your going to do it a year from now or 6 mo, what does it matter, do it the minute she gets back. Take your beatting and learn your lessons so you can move on with your life while you are still young. What ever you do, don't have kids, ever.