is mutual mind fucking okay?

[dirty~d~]

Accidental discharge.

End of problems.

"I was cleaning it and the next thing I know, officer, she was laying on the floor bleeding. I thought she was just being dramatic. My bad."

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

Accidental discharge.

End of problems.

that's how I got into this world

 

[beefcake28]

"I was cleaning it and the next thing I know, officer, she was laying on the floor bleeding. I thought she was just being dramatic. My bad."

 

[javaguru]

just wondering, it seemed fun at the time now my head is fubar'd again. oh well.

I'm assuming this is a "back and forth" with an ex. I learned years ago that it's best to cut all ties with a break-up when it was anything more than a casual dating relationship. Once feelings are involved you need to cut that shit off, as men we're raised to compartmentalize these things, just do it. It will save you a world of grief in the long run. I finally figured this out after an on and off again relationship of almost two years that SHOULD have ended in the first two months. Just end it and stay strong.

 

[beefcake28]

I'm assuming this is a "back and forth" with an ex. I learned years ago that it's best to cut all ties with a break-up when it was anything more than a casual dating relationship. Once feelings are involved you need to cut that shit off, as men we're raised to compartmentalize these things, just do it. It will save you a world of grief in the long run. I finally figured this out after an on and off again relationship of almost two years that SHOULD have ended in the first two months. Just end it and stay strong.

I agree... but, sadly, there's more to it than just that. I'm not gonna divulge details, but she lives about a block away from him, and has done some pretty "stalker-ish" shit, which myself, and MM, have witnessed personally... making it more difficult for things to just end.

 

[mountain muscle]

that's how I got into this world

No wonder. Fuggin' glocks.

 

[javaguru]

I agree... but, sadly, there's more to it than just that. I'm not gonna divulge details, but she lives about a block away from him, and has done some pretty "stalker-ish" shit, which myself, and MM, have witnessed personally... making it more difficult for things to just end.

My tough love response is, "Your door locks?" I understand, I lived that back and forth crap for too long.

 

[mountain muscle]

My tough love response is, "Your door locks?" I understand, I lived that back and forth crap for too long.

If you only knew.

 

[javaguru]

If you only knew.

I can imagine, based on what my ex and I mutually did to each other. It was a cluster fuck. Why do you think I learned the lesson so well.

 

[beefcake28]

If you only knew.

Exactly.


I hear what Java is saying, and I agree with him in principal, but there is much more to it. Like I said, I'm not gonna divulge details. It isn't my place to do that... but I wish it were that simple.