Is it wrong...

[jackangel]

specifically, i would avoid using the word 'fat', or referring to any loss of attraction on your part. i'm not a relationship therapist, but i did stay at a holiday inn express last night, so booyah.

 

[kristie_doll1980]

It may not be wrong but it is definately hurtful . How sensitive is she? Also, are you a perfect husband? If you are overwght then asking her to lose is the pot calling the kettle black. On the other hand, How much is her weight affecting you? Is she so big that you don't find her sexy anymore? If the attraction is gone then be honest with her. Even if it hurts. I am sure she would prefer losing weight to losing her husband. Then again, if she kicks you out don't get jeolous when there is a line of men lined up cause they like a little padding. Good luck...you'll need it.

 

[sre30]

ask her to join you for some cardio?

 

[Tytan]

very wrong......you better be creative if you want to ask her too...

 

[jdynasty]

I was just looking for a general concensus, I was reading a thread from another board, that was all women, and I just wasn't sure if a man could say such a thing with out getting his eyes ripped out