Is it disrespectful?

[aandd]

A comment from BTS makes me wonder what you consider disrespectful to your significant other.

The comment is:

...heartbeats who have boyfriends yet still feel the need to disrespect them by telling a messageboard of meatheads that they like to get naked and cover themselves in whipcream.

Where does message board sex chat cross the line for you? I ASSumed for most people it would be eflirting... but are there those who would be upset to know their significant others spoke about sex AT ALL? And those who think it's all ok as long as no body parts actually touch?

 

[chefbone]

Sex and Food is good. E-flirting ...hmmmmmm...

 

[needtogetaas]

A comment from BTS makes me wonder what you consider disrespectful to your significant other.

The comment is:


Where does message board sex chat cross the line for you? I ASSumed for most people it would be eflirting... but are there those who would be upset to know their significant others spoke about sex AT ALL? And those who think it's all ok as long as no body parts actually touch?

only a girl would make a thread like this.scandoliss thats all I have to say about you.

 

[spongebob]

if i had to choose i would choose sugar free.

 

[spongebob]

sorry wrong thread

 

[KillahBee]

ANY flirting WHATSOEVER is disrespectful and indicative of a need for attention. Fuck anybody who says otherwise. I don't care where you do it, when you do it, how you do it.

 

[Lestat]

its just a chat board.. its fine.

 

[slat1]

Who likes whip cream spread all over them.
Question:
If its so bad to eflirt or post about sex online... isn't it just as bad to go to that section and read that shit?!?!?

 

[aandd]

ANY flirting WHATSOEVER is disrespectful and indicative of a need for attention. Fuck anybody who says otherwise. I don't care where you do it, when you do it, how you do it.

I agree... What constitutes flirting? Does asking others what they like sexually count as flirting. Is "hey people, whats your fetish, mine is XXXX" flirting? Or is it not flirting until it's something like "killah baby, I have this fetish about food. How would you like to eat whipped cream off these abs?"

PS: I'm not flirting with you. LOL.

 

[needtogetaas]

ANY flirting WHATSOEVER is disrespectful and indicative of a need for attention. Fuck anybody who says otherwise. I don't care where you do it, when you do it, how you do it.

no one flirts withyou.that must hurt.

 

[aandd]

Needtogetas...

I'm sorry, but your atrocious spelling was driving me fecking insane, so when you post all I see is:


This message is hidden because needtogetas is on your ignore list.

 

[Sub-Zero]

ANY flirting WHATSOEVER is disrespectful and indicative of a need for attention. Fuck anybody who says otherwise. I don't care where you do it, when you do it, how you do it.

lol... so not true.

half the shit i say i dont even think twice about, and i get ripped on by ELITE ANTI FLIRTERS all the time, even for telling frisky or klue or whoever id give her a pie

 

[spongebob]

im almost positive killa was being sarcastic

 

[Sub-Zero]

im almost positive killa was being sarcastic

i hope so.

 

[aandd]

im almost positive killa was being sarcastic

Probably so. LOL. I wasn't though. I wouldn't be happy if my man were flirting online, so I don't disrespect him by doing so.

Edit to add: but I do talk about sex, and dunk's comment got me to wondering if that in itself could be viewed as crossing the line.

 

[swole]

I don't think Killah was being sarcastic, and I agree with him 100%. I've only had 2 serious relationships and flirting (even online) is total disrespect. Besides having a fun companionship with my partner, I pride my relationships for their honesty, integrity and wholesomeness. If I found out she was going on a forum saying that shit, we'd have issues. I won't even talk to a girl like that to begin with. It's a totally different story if we're both on the forum talking to eachother.

 

[needtogetaas]

Needtogetas...

I'm sorry, but your atrocious spelling was driving me fecking insane, so when you post all I see is:


This message is hidden because needtogetas is on your ignore list.

do you have anny Idie why a cant spell.no.all you think is he cant spell he must be stupid.people like you are sad.Iam glad theres only a hand full of people like you.cuz if every one in america was like you then people like me would feel ashamed of what they did for there cuntry.you stupid fuck I cant spell cuz I got hit with a bomb.I have scars all over my body,I cant reamamber thing,I have tramers in my hands and feet,wtf more do you wont from me.do you wont me to feel bad for what Ive don,do you wont me to regrat serving my cuntry.think before you say things.I didnt ask for this.there are some good people on this bord but then there are people like you that just ad insult to injury.havent I sufferd enofe.
so aplod youreself you can spell and I cant.I am fucked for life and youre not.what a big girl you are.give youreself a big pat on the back.why dont I send my purple hert to you.you diserve it so much more then I do.

 

[starfish]

I don't think Killah was being sarcastic, and I agree with him 100%. I've only had 2 serious relationships and flirting (even online) is total disrespect. Besides having a fun companionship with my partner, I pride my relationships for their honesty, integrity and wholesomeness. If I found out she was going on a forum saying that shit, we'd have issues. I won't even talk to a girl like that to begin with. It's a totally different story if we're both on the forum talking to eachother.

Good for you! I think guys who act like that are so classy and 100x more attractive than I gotta have attention and flirt with everyone I see.

 

[needtogetaas]

do you have anny Idie why a cant spell.no.all you think is he cant spell he must be stupid.people like you are sad.Iam glad theres only a hand full of people like you.cuz if every one in america was like you then people like me would feel ashamed of what they did for there cuntry.you stupid fuck I cant spell cuz I got hit with a bomb.I have scars all over my body,I cant reamamber thing,I have tramers in my hands and feet,wtf more do you wont from me.do you wont me to feel bad for what Ive don,do you wont me to regrat serving my cuntry.think before you say things.I didnt ask for this.there are some good people on this bord but then there are people like you that just ad insult to injury.havent I sufferd enofe.
so aplod youreself you can spell and I cant.I am fucked for life and youre not.what a big girl you are.give youreself a big pat on the back.why dont I send my purple hert to you.you diserve it so much more then I do.

what nothing to say now.

 

[needtogetaas]

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[needtogetaas]

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[hanselthecaretaker]

E flirting by itself is the weakest and least personal form of interaction, so I don't even think it counts as flirting really. Just characters on a screen, and almost like typing out fantasies that are already in your head to an imaginary partner.....but if you add to that somehow by revealing more of yourself to someone and identifying with them, then it could lead to something a little more personal and potentially damaging to a relationship.

 

[big4life]

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Oh yeah, what does everyone have against whipcream?

 

[habitualhealth]

I agree... What constitutes flirting? Does asking others what they like sexually count as flirting. Is "hey people, whats your fetish, mine is XXXX" flirting? Or is it not flirting until it's something like "killah baby, I have this fetish about food. How would you like to eat whipped cream off these abs?"

PS: I'm not flirting with you. LOL.

I guess it depends on who you ask. I can say "wut up skanky beyotch" and the AEFOFAGOS freakin' flame the heck out of me. (coughcoughawittycough)

God forbid one ever partake in the BTS forums.

 

[big4life]

To be honest I would rather see 100 threads where people flirted as opposed to one thread about bombs.

 

[stilleto]

do you have anny Idie why a cant spell.no.all you think is he cant spell he must be stupid.people like you are sad.Iam glad theres only a hand full of people like you.cuz if every one in america was like you then people like me would feel ashamed of what they did for there cuntry.you stupid fuck I cant spell cuz I got hit with a bomb.I have scars all over my body,I cant reamamber thing,I have tramers in my hands and feet,wtf more do you wont from me.do you wont me to feel bad for what Ive don,do you wont me to regrat serving my cuntry.think before you say things.I didnt ask for this.there are some good people on this bord but then there are people like you that just ad insult to injury.havent I sufferd enofe.
so aplod youreself you can spell and I cant.I am fucked for life and youre not.what a big girl you are.give youreself a big pat on the back.why dont I send my purple hert to you.you diserve it so much more then I do.

i don't see where she said she assumed you were stupid or said anything sad.
you're a nice guy and your spelling is funny, but it drives a lot of people insane.

 

[habitualhealth]

To be honest I would rather see 100 threads where people flirted as opposed to one thread about bombs.

how YOU doin'?

 

[big4life]

how YOU doin'?

I'm getting ready for work.

When I should be getting ready for sleep.


But enough about that, how do you feel about whipcream?

 

[Raina]

I don't think I've ever posted something here that he didn't know. Who knows what he says about sex when I'm not around but it can't possibly be more than he'll say when I'm present. Neither of us really care.

Talk is talk. I'm not a big flirt though.

 

[EnderJE]

I don't think that there's any harm in it. I think that some people take it a little too seriously.

 

[spongebob]

so is this thread that wrecked the buffet?

 

[EnderJE]

Talk is talk. I'm not a big flirt though.

Says the woman posing almost nekkid in her avi...

 

[aandd]

Needtogetas:

I saw your reply when Stilleto quoted it, so here is mine:

I am filled with gratitude and amazement at those who serve in our armed forces. I am ashamed to admit that I did not have enough civic duty in me to step up and do my duty when it was presented to me. I feel honored to know every soldier I have met.

I do not think you are stupid or sad. It is simply that deciphering your posts gives me a headache and makes me want to scratch my eyeballs out. It is nothing against you as a person, veteran, etc. I realize there is a reason for the way you post. However quite honestly the lack of punctuation, poor spelling, and lack of paragraphing just really gets to me. So I blocked your user.

I did note, however, that you typed "go to hell" gramatically correct on my bomb. LOL.

 

[EnderJE]

Needtogetas:

I did note, however, that you typed "go to hell" gramatically correct on my bomb. LOL.

Now that's sig worthy...

 

[Raina]

Says the woman posing almost nekkid in her avi...

I supposed but my brother in laws and sister have seen that picture and I'm not flirting with them. Plus my husband took the picture for the purpose of being my avatar so he doesn't care.

 

[spongebob]

Needtogetas:

I saw your reply when Stilleto quoted it, so here is mine:

I am filled with gratitude and amazement at those who serve in our armed forces. I am ashamed to admit that I did not have enough civic duty in me to step up and do my duty when it was presented to me. I feel honored to know every soldier I have met.

I do not think you are stupid or sad. It is simply that deciphering your posts gives me a headache and makes me want to scratch my eyeballs out. It is nothing against you as a person, veteran, etc. I realize there is a reason for the way you post. However quite honestly the lack of punctuation, poor spelling, and lack of paragraphing just really gets to me. So I blocked your user.

I did note, however, that you typed "go to hell" gramatically correct on my bomb. LOL.

humility is a virtue not everyone is blessed with.

do you really go thru life with like this???

 

[EnderJE]

humility is a virtue not everyone is blessed with.

do you really go thru life with like this???

Its the Intraweb, bor...its all fake.

The next thing you know, she'll be telling you that she's hawt too.

I'm kidding!

 

[nycgirl]

I think her question had to do with discussing sex in the BTS forum not e-flirting.

Whether you are in a relationship or not, I don't see the big deal about discussing sexual issues, desires or needs with other adults. Someone may have a question and someone on the board may be able to answer the question. I don't see how discussing this topic with other people hurts a relationship.

Lets assume your S.O. is posting in BTS, if someone makes a comment and your partner reacts in a way that may hurt the relationship, that is one thing. But if it is just healthy discussion, what is the big deal?

 

[Dunk]

if the sig other knows about it then fine. i only said what i said to imnoturegrlfriend (the quote aaand is refferring to) b/c i recently i found a messageboard where my ex had been e-flirting on behind my back when we were together.

i hate (ladies cover your eyes) cunts like that.

 

[spongebob]

Its the Intraweb, bor...its all fake.

The next thing you know, she'll be telling you that she's hawt too.

I'm kidding!

your right were all just pixels here. and words are nothing but variables.

 

[pintoca]

lmao, I recognize the post and the poster...even though it was thoughtfully left out...

take it with a grain a salt, the poster is well known for simply having fun.