Is it cheating if...

[jaimejame78]

If you mess around with the same sex? Had this conversation today and never came to a conclusion. Thoughts

 

[joe d]

if you are involved with another person while you are in a relationship with someone else then you are cheating.

 

[cryptosporidium]

if you are involved with another person while you are in a relationship with someone else then you are cheating.

+1

 

[zagdawg22]

nope. especially not if he gets to watch!

 

[IrightI]

if you are involved with another person while you are in a relationship with someone else then you are cheating.

+2, cheating is cheating. You have mental cheating, like you may have on a chat room, and of course physical. If your doing something that you wouldn't do in front of your SO/ spouse, it's cheating.

BUT, if a female is cheating with another female, why not just ask your SO/spouse to join. Chances are he's all for it....


TxB

 

[BBR100]

It's cheating if the other person is not made aware of it.

 

[kx250rider]

Definitely cheating, unless it's some weird situation where your significant other is in favor AND is involved. And that's about as healthy for a relationship as drinking pure sugar water is healthy for a diabetic.

Charles

 

[musclemom]

It's cheating if the other person is not made aware of it.

This ^^^

Definition of cheating: engage in deceitful behavior or be sexually unfaithful to one's partner.

 

[miplank]

If you have to ask you probably shouldn't be in a relationship...

 

[Ezekiel]

If you have to ask you probably shouldn't be in a relationship...

This ^^^^^

 

[thelocal]

i say if u wanna cheat you come my way

 

[jaimejame78]

You guys are some of the first that I have ever heard respond this way. I agree with you, however I think that a lot of people say it wouldn't be cheating because they think of it in a fantasy type way and assume they would be invited to join in. I have argued many times that it would be cheating mostly because I would never invite my husband to join in because I couldn't handle "seeing" him bang another woman. I jokingly brought up a "what if" scenario and he said he wouldn't consider it cheating. But I am pretty sure that's because he assumed he would get to join in. Boy will he be let down when he reads this. lol

 

[thelocal]

yea if i wasnt invited to join in,id file for divorce no lie lol

 

[IrightI]

yea if i wasnt invited to join in,id file for divorce no lie lol

if there's kids involved, divorce isn't always the best solution. If my wife was cheating with another man, it certainly would be harder to deal with than if she was with another woman, but if she wouldn't include me, Dvorse would certainly be an option. One would hope that whatever she was getting out of the relationship, she would be able to share...

 

[Underwraps]

You guys are some of the first that I have ever heard respond this way. I agree with you, however I think that a lot of people say it wouldn't be cheating because they think of it in a fantasy type way and assume they would be invited to join in. I have argued many times that it would be cheating mostly because I would never invite my husband to join in because I couldn't handle "seeing" him bang another woman. I jokingly brought up a "what if" scenario and he said he wouldn't consider it cheating. But I am pretty sure that's because he assumed he would get to join in. Boy will he be let down when he reads this. lol

Well now, that's a twist. In this case you are both cheating. You're not liking him joining in and he's not liking you leaving him out. LOL!

 

[BNG]

If he knows and consents your swinging, leaving him out your selfish.

Cheating is behind their back.

 

[nickybear]

If your being deceptive, of course its cheating. My fiancee is bi, and we've discussed the issue. I don't have a problem if she wants to fuck around with another girl for fun as long as A. she is respectful to me in the process ex: doesn't lie to me, and doesn't deny my existance by telling the girl shes single. And B. her relationship with her girl toy does not negatively impact our relationship with each other. Other than that, it really has nothing to do with me. She frequently brings a girl home for both of us. As long as theres an understanding and no one is being misled or hurt, its all good.

 

[wootoom]

is it cheating if you have 5 kids to feed?

 

[grubd]

if you are involved with another person while you are in a relationship with someone else then you are cheating.

discussion over

 

[jaimejame78]

is it cheating if you have 5 kids to feed?

Is it cheating if you sell your body to feed 5 kids???? lol

 

[wootoom]

Is it cheating if you sell your body to feed 5 kids???? lol

Heheheheeh

 

[bigdug]

Absolutely true

 

[jaybois]

You guys are some of the first that I have ever heard respond this way. I agree with you, however I think that a lot of people say it wouldn't be cheating because they think of it in a fantasy type way and assume they would be invited to join in. I have argued many times that it would be cheating mostly because I would never invite my husband to join in because I couldn't handle "seeing" him bang another woman. I jokingly brought up a "what if" scenario and he said he wouldn't consider it cheating. But I am pretty sure that's because he assumed he would get to join in. Boy will he be let down when he reads this. lol

Yup it does suck! especially when you told me you cheated with another woman some years ago in front of a bunch of dudes. And it was couple of times if I recall.

 

[jaybois]

Now I'm mad!

 

[nangiggles]

Clearly the only way for you to get back at her is making out with another bro in front of other peeps.... please take pics, kthxbye.

 

[thelocal]

jay bois i say u leave her,shiit there more girls out there