You are entitled to your opinion and are also free to express it.
I never EVER said that my personal appearance means NOTHING to me.... hehehheheee What I said was that it was NOT the end all and be all of my existance the way it was when I was LITERALLY KILLING MYESLF OVER IT.... which I did for MANY, MANY years.
Do you bathe? Color your hair perhaps? Make your apparel choices based on what you feel makes you look your best? Do you use deoderant? Do you comb your hair?
Many - MANY women wouldn't even walk to the end of their driveways WITHOUT makeup. I NEVER EVER wear makeup unless it is required - IE FOR WORK. The way I currently support myself and my children REQUIRES me to look a certain way and I am ok w/that. I walk into work the way that I walk out: in loose baggy clothing NO MAKEUP and usually hair pulled back in the warmer weather. See, I don't NEED to impress anyone on MY TIME - work is another story altogether.
I don't see where I brag about ANYTHING. Confidence is ONE THING. I am my own worst critic. But because I do not publicly put myself down that does not mean that I am arrogant. Those who know me even slightly KNOW that I am one the most genuine, sincere and honest and down-to-earth people they know. Am I over the top? Hell yes, and I realize that this a double edged sword... one that I wield gladly.
As I said, you are entitled to your opinion. I am not out to win any popularity contests. But also know that while one may THINK they are in possession of all the facts, they RARELY are....
Have a wonderful day!
