In a perdicament, need some advice

[Bobber]

Ok...My ex and I have this thing where I take her to a play(A Christmas Carol) over Xmas. I have taken her the past two years and I go all out out every year....awesome dinner reservations, tux, drinks...kinda like high school prom every Christmas. The thing is this year things are a lot different than the others and I am talking to this girl that I am pretty sure would love to go. The ex is expecting me to take her and she looks absolutely drop dead gorgeous all done up and in a dress but why should I take her when she thinks I am a completley different pesron now? Should I just ask the new chick and go all out for her? I would feel weird going there or doing some of the things I do for this new girl. I am in no rush to be in a committed relationship right now eventhough I am ready to calm the fuck down for a while. What do yall think? What would you do?

 

[prophet]

why not do it for both of them?

 

[jesus 2]

2 times does not make it a tradition. take the new girl if you want to hook up with her at all.


j2da2

 

[HumorMe]

What would you do?

Take both of them with you. Your friends will be impressed with a chick on each arm.

 

[Bobber]

why not do it for both of them?

I am still in school, I couldn't afford to do this for both of them.


J2 - So you think I could get away with telling her that with out her getting all pissy and with holding the Xmas break poontang from me? I doubt it. I guess I do agree with you though that twice is not really a tradition. Should I just ask the new one and tell the ex that I sold the tickets to my friend since he wants to take his new girl and the tickets were sold out?

 

[jesus 2]

oh, i didn't realize you were still getting a little pie from your ex. if that's the case, if you were to take the new girl, would she give you a bite? which one do you think would taste better? if the new girl will give you some pie, too, maybe the experience of someone elses recipe will be good for you.

but here is the best case scenario. if you can get some pie from the new girl without taking her out for an extravagant night, do it (maybe take her on a couple of other dates). and also take your ex out for the extravagant night and get some pie from her, too. it's the holidays; everybody eats more pie than normal on the holidays.


j2da2