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Warik
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RyanH said:
Well, from my recollection, you did not ask that specifically. Your question was if I would foreclose on dating an African-American man, to which I responded "yes." The reason? I wouldn't date any man, therefore, I wouldn't date an African-American man.
Nyah nyah - I win.
-Warik
RyanH said:
I wouldn't date one. I would not date a Spanish, Mexican, Italian, Latin, Asian, Oriental, Eskimo, Hawiian Native, etc.. etc.. either.
Not that I am prejudice, but I just do not find them attractive to me. Not to say some are not beautiful, it is just I do not have any attraction generated for me by these people.
Just White, Brits and Canadians (only on Thursdays) for me.
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kingjohn said:
it probably smells like the room when a man finishes plugging his girl in the ass. Seriously, you must walk around with a dirty ass, a lot of us don't. See www.douching.com for more information.
RyanH said:
Non English speaking? Maybe... if they were cute. Then again, probably NO! Now that I second thought this, I would definately say NO! The reason being is that first of all, I would not let their language be an indication of attraction. Because uhhhh, uhh,,, ahhhhhh... ah.... ahhhhhhhh..... ohhhhhhhh.... is the universal language of love. But the reason that I said no is because chances are a non English speaking person does not exist in Whites, Brits or Canadians.
Besides, Frenchmen never wear deodorant.
musclebrains
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RyanH said:
Recalling that Mr. AA dated an Asian for a while, if I'm not mistaken.
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RyanH said:
I would not. I would only have sex with a person who spoke English and/or Spanish.
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musclebrains
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Warik said:
Er...why?
musclebrains said:
Dude that was just a star fuck in each case. Just because they were movie stars was the only reason sex with them happened. And make no mistake, they either got fucked or they sucked me off, I did not recipocate. I never dated either of them "for a while" it was two dates with one and three dates with the other. If you can call them dates. Rather they jumped me in the time that it took our mutual friend (same guy who introduced me to both) popped out to get some food.
It was a weird ass situation. I had the hots for this man who was in love with these two, because he only does Orientals, and he had NO interest in me. These two on the other hand couldn't get enough of me though I had not a passing interest in either. The only reason I got a blow job from them was because this other guy had my rocks on fire over him.
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Anal AssPlorer said:
LOL
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Warik
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musclebrains said:
Because I would only have sex with a person I loved romantically. I can only speak English and Spanish, and I do not believe it is possible for love to exist without a mutual form of communication; therefore, it would be impossible for me to fall in love with someone who did not speak my languages. As such, I would not have sex with anyone who did not speak English and/or Spanish.
Finally... someone responded to one of my posts and at least pretended to care what my response would be.
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RyanH said:
I don't speak Arabic.
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RyanH said:
God fucking damnit. I typed out a long ass response to this and this damn board whined and gave me errors, then my post disappeared when I went back to edit it. Sigh. I guess I'll give you the jist of my response and answer further if you have other questions.
Answer: If she were mature enough to make that decision, then I would prefer and strongly wish that she did not make it, but I would not forbid her, would I make the experience painful for her, nor would I condemn her marriage. Why would I prefer that she didn't? I can't offer any logical reasons at this time.
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kingjohn said:
I HATE TEACHERS.
-Warik
RyanH said:
I think that mere companionship is enough. I'm engaged right now and have a very healthy sex life. Do I think it would be fun to engage in partner swapping or sex outside of marriage? Hell yes.
Now, here's the real question. Would I be happy for the rest of my life if my partner were unable to engage in any sexual activity ever again? Hell yes.
There would definitely some angst and frustration involved, but when you establish true love, and a true sense of companionship, the sex only makes up about 5-10% of the relationship.
Do relationships provide us with a sense of security and constant validation? Again, hell yes. But at the root of it all, when we examine what is important, won't security and validation make the top ten? Alas, hell yes.
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