if your partner lies....

[Sigmund Roid]

If your partner lies about something very insignificant and with persistence, does it mean that she will lie without blinking her/his eyes about things that really matter?

 

[EnderJE]

It depends on what she / he lies on. For example, my friend's fiance always lies and says that she's a size 4. One time I said, "Sure, maybe 20 fucking years ago!"

Funny, I don't get invited to their place much anymore since that comment.

 

[PatsFan34]

If someone tells small lies, imagine how big the real lies are!!!

 

[alien amp pharm]

Lies are lies....If they are in fact capable of it should tell you a lot.

I'd be more worried that they were able to PERSISTENTLY lie to you.

 

[jh1]

I personally have found it real hard to beleive someone once they have lied to me...

Even when it is the small things they have lied about, I find my self questioning the big things...

I have gotten over that to a degree... I guess.

Lying is convienent for alot of people. I guess I just have to accept that... and find other ways of building trust. LOL...

 

[*MissFit*]

Ya u gotta wonder their reasoning behind a small lie.. and if its trivial.. exactly how much do they value your relationship

 

[alien amp pharm]

I personally have found it real hard to beleive someone once they have lied to me...

Even when it is the small things they have lied about, I find my self questioning the big things...

I have gotten over that to a degree... I guess.

Lying is convienent for alot of people. I guess I just have to accept that... and find other ways of building trust. LOL...

You are a good bro.






^^Now was that a big lie or a small lie? You'll never know.

 

[jerseyart]

I personally have found it real hard to beleive someone once they have lied to me...

Even when it is the small things they have lied about, I find my self questioning the big things...

I have gotten over that to a degree... I guess.

Lying is convienent for alot of people. I guess I just have to accept that... and find other ways of building trust. LOL...

True, sad but true.

The lies of omission are just as bad.

 

[Dakotah]

sadly i am a pathetic liar about a few screwy things but i admit that it is hard to trust if someone is not honest 100 percent.

i have learned over time that it is always better to tell the truth up front even if you are scared of the consequences.
i would never want to lose devastation over something that i could have just come out and told him- i was repeating a pattern i had with my ex husband.
i have done some of the ommiting when dev.and i first got together thinking negativly about us relationship wise and never figured on us staying together for as long as we have. finally i just took my guard down and let my heart take control- knowing i dont have to omit anything ever.