If you knew someone had an abortion....

[Falklands]

Would it affect your opinion of that person and would you probably judge them?

I'm not trying to spark a Pro-Life debate here, I'm just curious what your opinion towards someone who had an abortion would be?

 

[gotmilk]

mistakes happen. I've bounced a few pucks off the crossbars but never slipped one by the goalie.

My ex had an abortion. She's a cock sucking whore bag though.

 

[KillahBee]

She's a cock sucking whore bag though.

lmao - you dated her too?!

it would probably alter my opinion of them, cause hey, it should. all choices people make should affect people's views on them. but it would ultimately depend on the story behind it and what my relationship was with them.

 

[chefbone]

Why doesn't the sperm donor get to take part in the decision making process when it comes to abortion?

 

[jenscats5]

Would it affect your opinion of that person and would you probably judge them?

I'm not trying to spark a Pro-Life debate here, I'm just curious what your opinion towards someone who had an abortion would be?

Who am I to judge anyone for what they do or have done?? Am I so much better than them??

Hell no it wouldn't affect my opinion of them! It's a very tough decision to make........

 

[Falklands]

I lost my little baby to an abortion last year and thats why I put up the thread. Not a day goes by I don't think about how much I wanted that child and had her (parental intuition it was a girl) taken away from me. I had no say whatsoever in the process. As far as anyone was concerned, I didn't even exist. Doctors, nobody cared. noone asked me what i thought, did I want to go through with it, was I okay, did I need councelling...anything. I got the "My Body, My choice" bullshit off my partner and it hurt like hell knowing I could do nothing about it.

 

[gotmilk]

lmao - you dated her too?!

Yeah..but I dropped her off at Satanic Goatslayer's house when I was done.

The pill fails, condoms fail, shit happens. Girls can date one-pump chumps and end up knocked up. I've had surgery before to remove my appendix...Am I tainted? My goo is still top notch and aborted cooter still functions

 

[jenscats5]

I lost my little baby to an abortion last year and thats why I put up the thread. Not a day goes by I don't think about how much I wanted that child and had her (parental intuition it was a girl) taken away from me. I had no say whatsoever in the process. As far as anyone was concerned, I didn't even exist. Doctors, nobody cared. noone asked me what i thought, did I want to go through with it, was I okay, did I need councelling...anything. I got the "My Body, My choice" bullshit off my partner and it hurt like hell knowing I could do nothing about it.

I'm sorry for your loss.....

Did you get counseling?? If not - might want to think about it.....

 

[Falklands]

I'm sorry for your loss.....

Did you get counseling?? If not - might want to think about it.....

I sometimes sit down and write letters to her telling her how sorry I am she's gone, how she's in a far better place away from this fucked-up world, and often tell her what was going in my life etc and how some day we'll meet. I'm not spiritual, but I feel alot stronger now in life, almost as if she's with me everyday

 

[gotmilk]

FALKLANDS..I take it was not planned by both of you to have a baby? Either you want a baby together or not.

If the girl's not ready..tough decisions have to be made.