If a girl...

[mcr]

...tells you that her boyfriend lives 500 miles away, is that:

(a) a bad sign - she's saying she has a boyfriend, so isn't interested.
(b) a good sign - she's saying her boyfriend is away, and wants you for "pleasure" purposes.
(c) neither good or bad - it means nothing.
(d) something else (please specify).

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[jerseyart]

If she volunteered it, probably a good sign.

But what does it matter, bf or no bf.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Depends on the situation and how she said it.

Example: "My boyfriend lives 500 miles away, but would still fly in to kick your ass if you don't stop stalking me!"

^That would be a bad sign.

 

[KillahBee]

Probably good. But, either way, thank God men don't overanalyze things like girls do. Cause that would just be a recipe for disaster.

 

[jay1]

I would say (b)

 

[awittyusername]

She is telling you she has a bf to show how desirable she is. And, by telling you he lives 500 miles, she is giving you an in. She will keep talking to you until she finds out if she thinks you are better than him. If you are, then all of a sudden you will be hearing how big of a jerk he is and tha they broke up. If she thinks he's better, then she will say "I have a boyfriend, jackass"

However, you shouldn't be fucking w/bf. They may be using you as a batar for their bf

My advice. Politely tell her that you did like her, but it wouldn't be right to keep talking even as friends. If she liked you, then she will be back telling you she broke up etc. Or, if she didn't like you, then you will know bc she won't be back

 

[onebigab]

She is telling you she has a bf to show how desirable she is. And, by telling you he lives 500 miles, she is giving you an in. She will keep talking to you until she finds out if she thinks you are better than him. If you are, then all of a sudden you will be hearing how big of a jerk he is and tha they broke up. If she thinks he's better, then she will say "I have a boyfriend, jackass"

However, you shouldn't be fucking w/bf. They may be using you as a batar for their bf

My advice. Politely tell her that you did like her, but it wouldn't be right to keep talking even as friends. If she liked you, then she will be back telling you she broke up etc. Or, if she didn't like you, then you will know bc she won't be back

^^^^What he said.

 

[Gymgurl]

I would say that she is feeling out the situation to see what you will do...that way if you leave her alone she still looks good since she has a boyfriend....but I would say she sounds interested in you.

 

[Mr. Black]

Maybe it's a trick question in order to question your morals.

 

[string_bean00]

She obviously wants you to hit it.

 

[The Red Dragon]

Is that you in the av Mr. Black?

 

[Mr. Black]

Is that you in the av Mr. Black?

nah, my dick is much thicker

 

[annabelletx]

She is telling you she has a bf to show how desirable she is. And, by telling you he lives 500 miles, she is giving you an in. She will keep talking to you until she finds out if she thinks you are better than him. If you are, then all of a sudden you will be hearing how big of a jerk he is and tha they broke up. If she thinks he's better, then she will say "I have a boyfriend, jackass"

However, you shouldn't be fucking w/bf. They may be using you as a batar for their bf

My advice. Politely tell her that you did like her, but it wouldn't be right to keep talking even as friends. If she liked you, then she will be back telling you she broke up etc. Or, if she didn't like you, then you will know bc she won't be back

couldn't of said it better myself!

 

[MasterBates]

hit me

 

[hamstershaver]

b, hit me

 

[MasterBates]

oh and she;s cheating on you

 

[GoldenDelicious]

a or b, but youll have to hit on her to find out

 

[EnderJE]

b, hit me too

 

[Lowest]

Mostly have to agree with wittyusername... I had this happen to me a few weeks ago. A girl I sing with and I had been talking after choir for a few days. On friday as we walk out to our cars, we start talking, and low and behold, she asks if I want to go see a movie with her sunday. She gives me her number. Then, before we go, she slips in the fact that she has a boyfriend a state away. I'm pretty sure she wants to see if I'm better than him before she does anything, she's a cautious girl that way. For me though, I'm just going to stay away. Every time I've been the reason a girl dumped her boyfriend it's turned out pretty bad. Girls that are too afraid to be single or use "I have a long-distance BF" as an excuse to feel you out are too insecure IMO. I'd just rather be lonely than deal with crazy women like that. Now, if she just wanted sex, that'd be totally different and I'd be all over that ass

 

[Moderate_THIS]

Just remember, in forceful situations "no" means "yes"

 

[dirty~d~]

Probably good. But, either way, thank God men don't overanalyze things like girls do. Cause that would just be a recipe for disaster.

 

[wutangnomo]

She is telling you she has a bf to show how desirable she is. And, by telling you he lives 500 miles, she is giving you an in. She will keep talking to you until she finds out if she thinks you are better than him. If you are, then all of a sudden you will be hearing how big of a jerk he is and tha they broke up. If she thinks he's better, then she will say "I have a boyfriend, jackass"

However, you shouldn't be fucking w/bf. They may be using you as a batar for their bf

My advice. Politely tell her that you did like her, but it wouldn't be right to keep talking even as friends. If she liked you, then she will be back telling you she broke up etc. Or, if she didn't like you, then you will know bc she won't be back

Right on Witty! To steal a term from you, FOOD CHAIN!!