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I would like another baby...

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calveless wonder said:
thanks for spoiling the ending to a crappy movie i'll probably never see to begin with

lol, I didn't spoil anything...that's the basic plot, not the ending. :p
 
My kids were 16, 18 and 20 months apart and knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have changed a thing. With the exception of my oldest who is isolated from her sisters, the younger three have had each other from the word jump. There was a time when they all had each other and who knows, maybe will again.

Having small children close in age is no cake-walk (having needto and angel's little ones here for a week reminded me how hard it was LOL) but I do firmly believe that the pros outweigh the cons. You have to teach them to get along from a very early age. Yes, it won't always be paradise but I do remember that once I got rid of my ex my girls and I were JUST FINE....

I am thinkin one of the benefits of not having another parent in the house is that you won't have anyone undermining all the good stuff you are instilling in the kids.

Either way, I hope it works out for you and you get the family that you have always dreamed of. Not a lot of conventional families left out there but that doesn't mean that your family will be any less happy. :)
 
Bino said:
i think i;d worry about yourself before dragging another baby into your mix.
running out of gas, not having enough money in the bank, attempting desperatley to land a jooser online, all awesome motherly traits
LOL...I make a good living now; my bank account is fine; I ran out of gas b/c I didn't notice some fool had siphoned my gas; and which one of you asshats am I trying to date? I didn't get the memo.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
My kids were 16, 18 and 20 months apart and knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have changed a thing. With the exception of my oldest who is isolated from her sisters, the younger three have had each other from the word jump. There was a time when they all had each other and who knows, maybe will again.

Having small children close in age is no cake-walk (having needto and angel's little ones here for a week reminded me how hard it was LOL) but I do firmly believe that the pros outweigh the cons. You have to teach them to get along from a very early age. Yes, it won't always be paradise but I do remember that once I got rid of my ex my girls and I were JUST FINE....

I am thinkin one of the benefits of not having another parent in the house is that you won't have anyone undermining all the good stuff you are instilling in the kids.

Either way, I hope it works out for you and you get the family that you have always dreamed of. Not a lot of conventional families left out there but that doesn't mean that your family will be any less happy. :)
I think we would be.

As much as I joke around here about dating and such, the real truth is that this is the happiest I have EVER been in my whole life. Devin has really made me realize that being a mommy is what I was put on this earth to do. (that isn't for everyone, it just happens to be my purpose). I have never felt so complete, needed, loved, joyful. I just feel like everything is right with the world. I don't know how to describe it. I also have in my mind though that I have enough love and space for one more child to share our lives.

If it doesn't happen, I will still feel happy and complete, but one more would still be a blessing.
 
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