i wonder if certain members...

[stilleto]

the ones that tend to be the recipient of hostility, know why that is.

Do they wonder "why me, and not stilleto (or soklue or sublime or lestat, etc)?"

or do they hold themselves at a higher place, and think they are somehow more mature or better/smarter/whatever than the average joe here, so they naturally don't fit in?

and i wonder if it is the same for them in RL.

 

[silverfish]

the ones that tend to be the recipient of hostility, know why that is.

Do they wonder "why me, and not stilleto (or soklue or sublime or lestat, etc)?"

or do they hold themselves at a higher place, and think they are somehow more mature or better/smarter/whatever than the average joe here, so they naturally don't fit in?

and i wonder if it is the same for them in RL.

I'd guess its the same in real life. EF imitates life.

 

[The Shadow]

Doubt it......

 

[gotmilk]

My RL is more like the OC

 

[hamstershaver]

like who?

 

[dullboy]

dullboy said that this thread blows unless you name names.


:shitstirrer:

 

[dullboy]

dullboy has witnessed lestat get roasted. lol

 

[mkazzbmf]

Kaz agrees with Dullboy......



Kaz

 

[HumorMe]

 

[stilleto]

I wasn't going to name names, but i'm sure they know who they are anyway..
take starfish-someone just asked her in another thread if it bothers her than 90% of the other posters here don't like her. so that got me thinking- does she know (i have no idea who doesn't like her)? Does she wonder why?

when foxxie was more noticeably disliked, did she wonder why?

bikinimom receives a lot of hostility here- we all know that. she used to get some of it from me and we've since had a conversation that made me think differently about her. but i know lots of people are hostile towards her as I used to be... does she wonder why?

but we've all had someone that just chooses you to dislike, follow you around and insult you for what seems like no reason- when it happens, do you wonder why it was you that was chosen to be hated?

 

[hamstershaver]

I wasn't going to name names, but i'm sure they know who they are anyway..
take starfish-someone just asked her in another thread if it bothers her than 90% of the other posters here don't like her. so that got me thinking- does she know (i have no idea who doesn't like her)? Does she wonder why?

when foxxie was more noticeably disliked, did she wonder why?

bikinimom receives a lot of hostility here- we all know that. she used to get some of it from me and we've since had a conversation that made me think differently about her. but i know lots of people are hostile towards her as I used to be... does she wonder why?

but we've all had someone that just chooses you to dislike, follow you around and insult you for what seems like no reason- when it happens, do you wonder why it was you that was chosen to be hated?

all 3 are chicks, i believe there is a lot of hate towards women on this board, i dont know what the reason for it is though

 

[patsfan1379]

 

[seizer]

They might know. Like to them it's everyday, normal, them...so unless they know different, it might be hard for that person to tap into themself. Hard to pick up on what all the fus is about.

 

[stilleto]

all 3 are chicks, i believe there is a lot of hate towards women on this board, i dont know what the reason for it is though

thats true, although there's been a few guys too. that guy j10t10 or something?
coldblue for a long time too.

 

[patsfan1379]

thats true, although there's been a few guys too. that guy j10t10 or something?
coldblue for a long time too.

the internet lets insecure guys feel superior and in control because it's the only place they can feel that -- and it's pretty easy to do when you're not face to face.

 

[H_T_]

hey, when theres blood in the water, i do something about it.....

 

[seizer]

the internet lets insecure guys feel superior and in control because it's the only place they can feel that -- and it's pretty easy to do when you're not face to face.

what's worse is that some OVER-compensate this superiorty I guess because they cant gauge it, because they've never had it.

 

[H_T_]

i take the weak ones out behind the shed, tie them to a tree and bash them repeatedly with a shovel.

 

[pintoca]

can I get some lovin?

 

[reno240]

As an outsider that is new here. One that has not yet been the recipient of any sustained hostility - one of my observations is that the people that always feel the need to defend themselves - or should I say - get the last word in against any form of negative joke or comment receive the worst of it.

 

[eat big]

I'm trying to get that point across to Frisky but she's not an easy lurner.

 

[musclemom]

I wasn't going to name names, but i'm sure they know who they are anyway..
take starfish-someone just asked her in another thread if it bothers her than 90% of the other posters here don't like her. so that got me thinking- does she know (i have no idea who doesn't like her)? Does she wonder why?

when foxxie was more noticeably disliked, did she wonder why?

bikinimom receives a lot of hostility here- we all know that. she used to get some of it from me and we've since had a conversation that made me think differently about her. but i know lots of people are hostile towards her as I used to be... does she wonder why?

but we've all had someone that just chooses you to dislike, follow you around and insult you for what seems like no reason- when it happens, do you wonder why it was you that was chosen to be hated?

Oooo, you missed me

Some people love me, some people (Tiger88 comes to mind immediately) really fucking hate my guts. Some people used to hate me but now consider me a trusted confidante

What's really funny is this is the way in my real life, and it's always been that way ever since kindergarten ... I stopped wondering why and decided people, on the whole, are crazy resolves a lot of conflict and upset on my behalf.

 

[heatherrae]

Okay, I'm pretty disliked by 4 or 5 members that I know of, perhaps more.
I don't think I have been very "in your face" or said anything that would rub too many people the wrong way. Well, at least nothing that would rub people the wrong way in real life. However, I do tend to post lots and I have a very child-like sense of humor that is somewhat goofy/innocent, most of the time. (Until I'm really letting someone have it). An example of the goofiness is the hamstershaver porn stuff. I also tend to answer lots of different people's threads because I like to pay due attention to everyone. It just seems the nice thing to do.

Now some people are looking for a person who may appear to be weak or an easy target to heap some venom upon. (See, "blood in the water" comment above) Why? I think just simply to appear cool and to feel like "one of the boys." I think that they see a woman who is always smiley and goofy and they weigh their chances of piling their bile upon her back without other members thinking it is uncool.

That being said, I will take some of the blame for mentioning some things about my personal life could be taken the wrong way. I don't want to say the things again, for obvious reasons. I think it alienated some people and made them feel as if I were some sort of elitist. I am not, but I may have inadvertently given that impression. I think as people get to know me, they will figure me out, hopefully. I like most everyone, and I'm very much a "water under the bridge" type of person.

Many of the people who initially disliked me like me now that they know me. Many of the people who are mean to me on the boards also send me pm's saying they are only joking and "no hard feelings." I think that is sort of weak to try to be one of the crowd beating someone up in public, but then pat them on the back in a private message. However, c'est la vie.

I don't think I'm better or smarter than anyone else here. I think I tend to BEHAVE better than a handful of people. ;-) In real life, most people tend to like me, and on here, I would still like to think that a majority of people like me. However, in real life and on the net, you can't please 100% of the people, and I guess I'm bound to have some detractors.

Incidentally, I participate in two other forums. One is mainly women. The other is mainly men. I can honestly say that I have never seen the nonsense on those boards that happens on this one. I think the rules are more loose here. I guess I'm undecided whether I think that is a good or bad thing. That is just the way it is.

 

[H_T_]

Okay, I'm pretty disliked by 4 or 5 members that I know of, perhaps more.
I don't think I have been very "in your face" or said anything that would rub too many people the wrong way. Well, at least nothing that would rub people the wrong way in real life. However, I do tend to post lots and I have a very child-like sense of humor that is somewhat goofy/innocent, most of the time. (Until I'm really letting someone have it). An example of the goofiness is the hamstershaver porn stuff. I also tend to answer lots of different people's threads because I like to pay due attention to everyone. It just seems the nice thing to do.

Now some people are looking for a person who may appear to be weak or an easy target to heap some venom upon. (See, "blood in the water" comment above) Why? I think just simply to appear cool and to feel like "one of the boys." I think that they see a woman who is always smiley and goofy and they weigh their chances of piling their bile upon her back without other members thinking it is uncool.

That being said, I will take some of the blame for mentioning some things about my personal life could be taken the wrong way. I don't want to say the things again, for obvious reasons. I think it alienated some people and made them feel as if I were some sort of elitist. I am not, but I may have inadvertently given that impression. I think as people get to know me, they will figure me out, hopefully. I like most everyone, and I'm very much a "water under the bridge" type of person.

Many of the people who initially disliked me like me now that they know me. Many of the people who are mean to me on the boards also send me pm's saying they are only joking and "no hard feelings." I think that is sort of weak to try to be one of the crowd beating someone up in public, but then pat them on the back in a private message. However, c'est la vie.

I don't think I'm better or smarter than anyone else here. I think I tend to BEHAVE better than a handful of people. ;-) In real life, most people tend to like me, and on here, I would still like to think that a majority of people like me. However, in real life and on the net, you can't please 100% of the people, and I guess I'm bound to have some detractors.

Incidentally, I participate in two other forums. One is mainly women. The other is mainly men. I can honestly say that I have never seen the nonsense on those boards that happens on this one. I think the rules are more loose here. I guess I'm undecided whether I think that is a good or bad thing. That is just the way it is.

is there a fucking gas station between here and the end of this post??? fuck. add long-talker to that list.

 

[big4life]

I personally don't give a damn about what people here think of me or my friends. I know who I am, and I know who they are.

I wonder how George feels about a moderator who encourages attacks on members through karma messages, PM's, and IM's?

 

[heatherrae]

is there a fucking gas station between here and the end of this post??? fuck. add long-talker to that list.

Where is stalker on the list?

 

[stilleto]

the internet lets insecure guys feel superior and in control because it's the only place they can feel that -- and it's pretty easy to do when you're not face to face.

yes, but why are certain members the recipient of that and not others?
if you were picked on and disliked here, would you know it? would you wonder why you and not someone else?

 

[pintoca]

I personally don't give a damn about what people here think of me or my friends. I know who I am, and I know who they are.

I wonder how George feels about a moderator who encourages attacks on members through karma messages, PM's, and IM's?

That is a mighty accusation right there, you might be better off naming names, otherwise your credibility is taking a hit

 

[big4life]

That is a mighty accusation right there, you might be better off naming names, otherwise your credibility is taking a hit

Let's see, I think that stilleto probably knows the person I'm thinking of real well.


Another thing for George to consider, how come I get so much karma from female members when I get into it with this same female moderator?

 

[gotmilk]

pics of your nipples will resolve hostility

 

[swole]

Another thing for George to consider, how come I get so much karma from female members when I get into it with this same female moderator?

because females like to have gay men for friends

add cuddle-bunnies they'd never fuck to that list (aka little AAP's)

 

[stilleto]

Oooo, you missed me

Some people love me, some people (Tiger88 comes to mind immediately) really fucking hate my guts. Some people used to hate me but now consider me a trusted confidante

What's really funny is this is the way in my real life, and it's always been that way ever since kindergarten ... I stopped wondering why and decided people, on the whole, are crazy resolves a lot of conflict and upset on my behalf.

i never really noticed anyone not liking you except for tiger88 and he doesn't count.

 

[Lestat]

dullboy is right, i've been roasted on many occasions.

I am not everyone's friend, never will be, and don't try. It is not realistic. In real life I'm not everyone's friend, and my real life doesn't include a population as diverse as that on C&C. I'm easy going, but have some strong opinions on things like religion and other volatile subjects.

 

[pintoca]

Let's see, I think that stilleto probably knows the person I'm thinking of real well.


Another thing for George to consider, how come I get so much karma from female members when I get into it with this same female moderator?

I always ask myself how come you keep coming back over and over again if you hold so much against:

1. Mods, who apparently, know nothing about moderating (according to you)
2. The way the site is run
3. The way some members act

what would be your solution? get rid of all mods and name mods elected by popular demand? you would end up with the same situation, mods, like everybody else, are just people, with flaws.

I personally have nothing against you, but your "mods suck", "you don't know how to mod", "here, let me complain about this, that and that as well" attitude is a little played out and annoying to say the least. It's like Tinnitus you know? always in the background.

BTW; this is my personal position, as a poster

 

[swole]

I always ask myself how come you keep coming back over and over again if you hold so much against:

1. Mods, who apparently, know nothing about moderating (according to you)
2. The way the site is run
3. The way some members act

what would be your solution? get rid of all mods and name mods elected by popular demand? you would end up with the same situation, mods, like everybody else, are just people, with flaws.

I personally have nothing against you, but your "mods suck", "you don't know how to mod", "here, let me complain about this, that and that as well" attitude is a little played out and annoying to say the least. It's like Tinnitus you know? always in the background.

BTW; this is my personal position, as a poster

if he leaves how else is he going to stalk hippie broads by acting as a southern gentlemen?

 

[big4life]

I always ask myself how come you keep coming back over and over again if you hold so much against:

1. Mods, who apparently, know nothing about moderating (according to you)
2. The way the site is run
3. The way some members act

what would be your solution? get rid of all mods and name mods elected by popular demand? you would end up with the same situation, mods, like everybody else, are just people, with flaws.

I personally have nothing against you, but your "mods suck", "you don't know how to mod", "here, let me complain about this, that and that as well" attitude is a little played out and annoying to say the least. It's like Tinnitus you know? always in the background.

BTW; this is my personal position, as a poster

I was a mod once and I saw first hand the action of this moderator throwing a friend under the bus on the mod board. If you think that I will forget her actions you are very mistaken. I also never once tried to get any member to attack another member just because I didn't like that member.

As for why I still come here, it's simple, because I will never give someone of that ilk the satisfaction of thinking they had something to do with me leaving. I also have several people here I am friends with, and I still enjoy talking to them

I didn't know that this board was only for people who fit into a clique. I always thought it was for differing opinions.

 

[heatherrae]

I was a mod once and I saw first hand the action of this moderator throwing a friend under the bus on the mod board. If you think that I will forget her actions you are very mistaken. I also never once tried to get any member to attack another member just because I didn't like that member.

As for why I still come here, it's simple, because I will never give someone of that ilk the satisfaction of thinking they had something to do with me leaving. I also have several people here I am friends with, and I still enjoy talking to them

I didn't know that this board was only for people who fit into a clique. I always thought it was for differing opinions.

I, personally, am glad you are here. You are a good seed. =-)

 

[H_T_]

I was a mod once and I saw first hand the action of this moderator throwing a friend under the bus on the mod board. If you think that I will forget her actions you are very mistaken. I also never once tried to get any member to attack another member just because I didn't like that member.

As for why I still come here, it's simple, because I will never give someone of that ilk the satisfaction of thinking they had something to do with me leaving. I also have several people here I am friends with, and I still enjoy talking to them

I didn't know that this board was only for people who fit into a clique. I always thought it was for differing opinions.

Clique. how appropriate. how right on the fucking button.

 

[swole]

Clique. how appropriate. how right on the fucking button.

can the yanks make it 4/4 tonight?

 

[H_T_]

can the yanks make it 4/4 tonight?

fuck. probably. someone needs to give the city of Detroit and it's sports teams the fucking Heimlich manuever.......

 

[Mr. dB]

the ones that tend to be the recipient of hostility, know why that is.

Do they wonder "why me, and not stilleto (or soklue or sublime or lestat, etc)?"

or do they hold themselves at a higher place, and think they are somehow more mature or better/smarter/whatever than the average joe here, so they naturally don't fit in?

and i wonder if it is the same for them in RL.

Yeah, the haughtiness is part of the formula for sure.

 

[musclemom]

i never really noticed anyone not liking you except for tiger88 and he doesn't count.

Tiger = 0

Well, Omega hates me ... and anybody remember Kaitlin?

Humantarget was more than a little irritated with me once upon a time

I'm sure I can think of others, I'd have to go through my K messages ... I'm just not that neurotic.

 

[mountain muscle]

can I get some lovin?

Not until the hotties are delivered.

 

[hamstershaver]

can I get some lovin?

i just skeeted on you

 

[mountain muscle]

I know you all secretly hate me but love me online.

 

[Frisky]

I'm trying to get that point across to Frisky but she's not an easy lurner.

you want me don't you

 

[big4life]

I wasn't going to name names either, but I wonder if stilleto wonders why so many female members hate her?


It's only fair since you wonder about starfish, foxxie, and bmom.

 

[starfish]

the ones that tend to be the recipient of hostility, know why that is.

Do they wonder "why me, and not stilleto (or soklue or sublime or lestat, etc)?"

or do they hold themselves at a higher place, and think they are somehow more mature or better/smarter/whatever than the average joe here, so they naturally don't fit in?

and i wonder if it is the same for them in RL.

All the hostility on this board is almost worth it for the karma messages, PMs etc I get for not taking it from certain people , kissing ass and being two faced here.

 

[UA_Iron]

the only person I truely hated was jerseyart.

But that fuck face is banned.

Everyone else just irritates me.

 

[seizer]

"arf arf"


did someone hear something? a seal?


no, of course you didnt...

 

[Frisky]

i've plenty of ehaters on my tail as of late... but honestly i see most of these peeps as epeeps, so no I don't wonder why. I don't wake in the morning and wonder how I can please anyone. I live my life for me and my kids. You can't please everyone. I have talked to quite a few peeps from here, I'm a very easy going person despite my failure to communicate it on the boards.

I never even actually cared that 'real' life people didn't like me. Really... what can you do about it? Why worry yourself with that 1 or 10 people out of the thousands that you have potential meeting? If life were perfect and praryville than how boring would that be. Not everyone will like you for who you are, i came to terms with that in grade school and never looked back. I am a very open person and I don't bite my tongue when i have something to say. That in itself tends to make enemy's instantly because most people cant take it.

I once tried to be someone i wasn't... only to please someone else.. and 11 years later realized that i didn't even reconize myself. Therfore now I refuse to change for anyone. Love me Hate me, what a fine line.. but my world doesn't end due to anyones dislike of me. Its natural, not everyone will click.

 

[big4life]

I still don't understand why a mod, of all people, would start a thread like this.

I just happened to be looking around and there were all these rocks that someone else had thrown, and I thought I would try to throw one back into the pile.

 

[UA_Iron]

people play the victim roll all the time.

The best we could do is ignore this type - but why? It is 100x more fun to harass them until they explode and drama rains down on EF C&C.

 

[RottenWillow]

Who cares if Internet peeps dont like you. Piss on 'em.


The only thing I find more lame than smoozing peeps to get them to like you, is purposely cultivating animosity so they wont like you.

 

[mountain muscle]

people play the victim roll all the time.

The best we could do is ignore this type - but why? It is 100x more fun to harass them until they explode and drama rains down on EF C&C.

Stop picking on me.

 

[UA_Iron]

Stop picking on me.

I heard you mountain people were X 40.

 

[Frisky]

people play the victim roll all the time.

The best we could do is ignore this type - but why? It is 100x more fun to harass them until they explode and drama rains down on EF C&C.

lol

I play the game all the time.... seriously. Some people are so easy to tick off that its hilarious.

I remember my first few posts on ef and one very very respected person here said to me that I was an easy target. That stuck with me, and shortly thereafter realized that this was eworld. Now this person and I chat here and there and the message this person sends makes so much sense. Then I was C&C virgin, didn't know how to respond to assnozzles and such... let peeps get under my skin like fungus.

It's really been an adventure to watch peeps come and go, the weak fade off the strong stand strong. Its kind of like an e-college of sorts and being in a frat, getting hazed. Can you take it? I have to hand it to quite a few peeps... foxxie for one cause she's taken some serious shit here but still sticks around.

This place is for me is a place of solitude, I sit here alone... i post my thoughts and random shit that just comes to mind. I am the same here and in my real life in the sense that I will always say what I have to say at the drop of a dime. I tend to come across sometimes as hard to communicate with which isn't me... at all! I'm a great listener and I would give my shirt off my back to help anyone.

I got a bad rap here i guess becuase I posted random crap, and testy ava's... oh well. So is life ya know. I have bonded with a few people here, and I'm greatful for that. I've friends that I know I could turn to in one sec and they would be there for me. I have family I can't even say that about. EF has been a positive thing in my life, with training and learning and experiencing the different people around the world.. how people react to differnt things.. etc.

Still at the end of the day, when my fingers are tired I can turn it all off, and know that those that hate on me don't even know ME... but what does it matter.

 

[Dial_tone]

the ones that tend to be the recipient of hostility, know why that is.

Do they wonder "why me, and not stilleto (or soklue or sublime or lestat, etc)?"

you have huge tits, klu has huge k hits, lestat has a tremendous wang...sublime is a mystery.

 

[heatherrae]

you have huge tits, klu has huge k hits, lestat has a tremendous wang...sublime is a mystery.

I'm not even sure what all that meant, but it made me chuckle. ;-)

 

[Sub-Zero]

the ones that tend to be the recipient of hostility, know why that is.

Do they wonder "why me, and not stilleto (or soklue or sublime or lestat, etc)?"

or do they hold themselves at a higher place, and think they are somehow more mature or better/smarter/whatever than the average joe here, so they naturally don't fit in?

and i wonder if it is the same for them in RL.

people dont do it to me anymore because they realize i dont givea f uck and th eresponse i make im smiling behidn and purposefully own myself and say dumb shit that doesnt make sense just to keep the flame going

some people just take it so personally and get so emotioanlly about it it becomes funny. those are the people its worth doing it to so they are targets

people who dont give a fuck are no fun

 

[Sub-Zero]

As an outsider that is new here. One that has not yet been the recipient of any sustained hostility - one of my observations is that the people that always feel the need to defend themselves - or should I say - get the last word in against any form of negative joke or comment receive the worst of it.

stfu loser

 

[Mr. dB]

Interesting how these "certain members" never participate in normal discussions here, they only pop up to talk about "me me me" or to do battle with their detractors.

 

[tiger88]

there aint enough of what ef was in 2003-2004

1. juiced up meat heads
2. coke heads
3. good looking girls (good looking)
4. peeps with unique style

 

[heatherrae]

Interesting how these "certain members" never participate in normal discussions here, they only pop up to talk about "me me me" or to do battle with their detractors.

I participate in normal discussions. Have had several enjoyable ones with you, as a matter of fact. =-)

 

[UA_Iron]

there aint enough of what ef was in 2003-2004

1. juiced up meat heads
2. coke heads
3. good looking girls (good looking)
4. peeps with unique style

agreed.

 

[Mr. dB]

I participate in normal discussions. Have had several enjoyable ones with you, as a matter of fact. =-)

I didn't know you were one of the "certain members". I was thinking of the hippie and the stripper.

 

[heatherrae]

Oh, okay. I don't know who is the stripper and who is the hippie. I like strippers and hippies. ;-)

 

[2dagym]

I think it's all about getting attention. Some people thrive on getting attention to the point that they don't care how they have to get it. If they can't get it from being positive about life and to other people, then they are sure to get it from being negative (disrespectul, pompus, ignorant, and this list goes on).

 

[SoKlueles]

you have huge tits, klu has huge k hits, lestat has a tremendous wang...sublime is a mystery.

you could say i have big tits too
you just want me for my k

 

[blueta2]

all 3 are chicks, i believe there is a lot of hate towards women on this board, i dont know what the reason for it is though

I agree with this statement. I get trashed when I state an adult mature opinion to men who believe treating women like shit is cool...mind you, these guys are probably all young snot nosed punks!
Some jerk-off name SublimeZm (I think he's probably 12 yrs old in his defense) spoke to me like I was a trash bag!
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?p=6273005#post6273005

A member names BRUCE 410 bombed me (is that what it's called) for this reason...
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?p=6267886#post6267886

I also think some men on this board are intimidated by strong independent women. They assume we are all "bitches"!
So wrong!
I got some "love" yesterday from some cool dudes, so it's not all bad! You got some serious bad apples though!

 

[blueta2]

Okay, I'm pretty disliked by 4 or 5 members that I know of, perhaps more.
I don't think I have been very "in your face" or said anything that would rub too many people the wrong way. Well, at least nothing that would rub people the wrong way in real life. However, I do tend to post lots and I have a very child-like sense of humor that is somewhat goofy/innocent, most of the time. (Until I'm really letting someone have it). An example of the goofiness is the hamstershaver porn stuff. I also tend to answer lots of different people's threads because I like to pay due attention to everyone. It just seems the nice thing to do.

Now some people are looking for a person who may appear to be weak or an easy target to heap some venom upon. (See, "blood in the water" comment above) Why? I think just simply to appear cool and to feel like "one of the boys." I think that they see a woman who is always smiley and goofy and they weigh their chances of piling their bile upon her back without other members thinking it is uncool.

That being said, I will take some of the blame for mentioning some things about my personal life could be taken the wrong way. I don't want to say the things again, for obvious reasons. I think it alienated some people and made them feel as if I were some sort of elitist. I am not, but I may have inadvertently given that impression. I think as people get to know me, they will figure me out, hopefully. I like most everyone, and I'm very much a "water under the bridge" type of person.

Many of the people who initially disliked me like me now that they know me. Many of the people who are mean to me on the boards also send me pm's saying they are only joking and "no hard feelings." I think that is sort of weak to try to be one of the crowd beating someone up in public, but then pat them on the back in a private message. However, c'est la vie.

I don't think I'm better or smarter than anyone else here. I think I tend to BEHAVE better than a handful of people. ;-) In real life, most people tend to like me, and on here, I would still like to think that a majority of people like me. However, in real life and on the net, you can't please 100% of the people, and I guess I'm bound to have some detractors.

Incidentally, I participate in two other forums. One is mainly women. The other is mainly men. I can honestly say that I have never seen the nonsense on those boards that happens on this one. I think the rules are more loose here. I guess I'm undecided whether I think that is a good or bad thing. That is just the way it is.

Again, I have to agree with Heather. Since I've been on this board, I've seen her trashed out all the time. She is so funny and is really a kind heart!
I am also on two other fitness boards and agreed, the shit that goes on here would never be tolerated on these other boards.
The punk ass'es make this board less respectable!

 

[blueta2]

people dont do it to me anymore because they realize i dont givea f uck and th eresponse i make im smiling behidn and purposefully own myself and say dumb shit that doesnt make sense just to keep the flame going

some people just take it so personally and get so emotioanlly about it it becomes funny. those are the people its worth doing it to so they are targets

people who dont give a fuck are no fun

a good example of an UNEDUCATED ahole!
Hey dude, get some schooling in spellin'!

 

[SoKlueles]

Again, I have to agree with Heather. Since I've been on this board, I've seen her trashed out all the time. She is so funny and is really a kind heart!
I am also on two other fitness boards and agreed, the shit that goes on here would never be tolerated on these other boards.
The punk ass'es make this board less respectable!

I dont know if they trash her or if they are joking with her.(well besides her and human target) i have been here for a while and they always joke about me (at least i hope its joking). On this board you have to have a thick skin and roll with the blows.
It doesnt bother me as much as it used to about them saying fat jokes and "this site is slower than soklueles at a buffet" remarks, i just red them and go on
So instead of getting mad and stuff, i just put overweight people in my avatars etc and joke around
oh and take lots of phentermine

 

[blueta2]

I dont know if they trash her or if they are joking with her.(well besides her and human target) i have been here for a while and they always joke about me (at least i hope its joking). On this board you have to have a thick skin and roll with the blows.
It doesnt bother me as much as it used to about them saying fat jokes and "this site is slower than soklueles at a buffet" remarks, i just red them and go on
So instead of getting mad and stuff, i just put overweight people in my avatars etc and joke around
oh and take lots of phentermine

nah, there is evil spewing in their posts...it's not a joke. I can take HITS with the best of them, but when it comes down to insults, it's just "women hating"!
I do take it with a grain of salt and could give a rats ass about the "haters" I just wish they would take their hatred elsewhere!

 

[SoKlueles]

men and women suck
especially the hairy rodent ones

 

[stilleto]

I wasn't going to name names either, but I wonder if stilleto wonders why so many female members hate her?


It's only fair since you wonder about starfish, foxxie, and bmom.

i didn't know of many females hating me, so no, i never wondered.

 

[stilleto]

people who dont give a fuck are no fun

I think thats definately a big factor.

 

[pintoca]

everybody loves a pimp

 

[mrdeeznuts]

i don't dislike anyone on ef

everyone on here has a good post to read every once and awhile

 

[stilleto]

lol@pintoca's avatar.

I really don't hate anyone here. there are a few that i find annoying, but I'm sure I'm annoying to some (most) here too.

 

[heatherrae]

Again, I have to agree with Heather. Since I've been on this board, I've seen her trashed out all the time. She is so funny and is really a kind heart!
I am also on two other fitness boards and agreed, the shit that goes on here would never be tolerated on these other boards.
The punk ass'es make this board less respectable!

Thanks, sweetie. I feel the same about you.

I generally can tell the difference between good natured ribbing and pure hatred. When people poke fun at me, I'm pretty good at making fun of myself. Ask Wootool. lol.

However, I think that to the casual observer, some may not realize the extent of things that have been said to me. I'm not going to go into it, but it was some pretty evil shit.

Last night, I intentionally pushed the envelope and said things that I would not normally say because I wanted to push someone's buttons that I knew were there to find out why I was being followed around and harassed. Boy, did I get my answer. I had no idea this person's issues were so...well, you know. Basically, I think the person has some mental illness that needs to be addressed. The fascnating thing is that he has followers who act like I was picking on this helpless person, when they KNOW he has been following me around and saying the nastiest and most caustic crap ever. Makes you question someone's mindset that they would follow someone who is obviously suffering from some mental defect. Regardless, I feel sorry for him, put them all on ignore, and hope the whole lot of them find a way out of their misery.

 

[pintoca]

I like it when you push my button

 

[hamstershaver]

I like it when you push my button

e pimp flirt alert!!@!!!

 

[heatherrae]

I like it when you push my button

rofl...and a lovely button you have, pinto bean!

 

[SoKlueles]

I like it when you push my button

put your penis back in your pants please

 

[mrdeeznuts]

put your penis back in your pants please

did klu just say that?

 

[blueta2]

Last night, I intentionally pushed the envelope and said things that I would not normally say because I wanted to push someone's buttons that I knew were there to find out why I was being followed around and harassed. Boy, did I get my answer. I had no idea this person's issues were so...well, you know. Basically, I think the person has some mental illness that needs to be addressed. The fascnating thing is that he has followers who act like I was picking on this helpless person, when they KNOW he has been following me around and saying the nastiest and most caustic crap ever. Makes you question someone's mindset that they would follow someone who is obviously suffering from some mental defect. Regardless, I feel sorry for him, put them all on ignore, and hope the whole lot of them find a way out of their misery.

Ya just know some of the dudes on here that trash-talk are more than likely very couragious on line, when in "real life" if confronted then would run home crying to momma!
It's easy to be "tough" on line....wimps behave this way!
This dude you're talking about (I saw his post to you) is a coward and probably is so lonely in his "real" life!

 

[heatherrae]

It goes beyond loneliness, but I don't want to talk about that anymore.

TGIF! Right, everyone! All positive today!

 

[blueta2]

It goes beyond loneliness, but I don't want to talk about that anymore.

TGIF! Right, everyone! All positive today!

Friday's are wonderful...get to sleep in tomorrow!
It's all about the positive vibes

 

[SoKlueles]

did klu just say that?

of course klu said it

 

[mrdeeznuts]

Friday's are wonderful...get to sleep in tomorrow!
It's all about the positive vibes

not me i'll be demo'in

but it is friday everybody be happy

 

[blueta2]

not me i'll be demo'in

but it is friday everybody be happy

Beer is good, better than Friday's...hehe !

 

[Sub-Zero]

I agree with this statement. I get trashed when I state an adult mature opinion to men who believe treating women like shit is cool...mind you, these guys are probably all young snot nosed punks!
Some jerk-off name SublimeZm (I think he's probably 12 yrs old in his defense) spoke to me like I was a trash bag!
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?p=6273005#post6273005

A member names BRUCE 410 bombed me (is that what it's called) for this reason...
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?p=6267886#post6267886

I also think some men on this board are intimidated by strong independent women. They assume we are all "bitches"!
So wrong!
I got some "love" yesterday from some cool dudes, so it's not all bad! You got some serious bad apples though!

im 18, and im already treating women far better than anyone has ever treated me. (male or female) i hold the ones i care about above anything else and treat them accordingly.

i just liked to harrass you because your a pathetic crybaby loser who gets super emotional over the dumbest e-shit, and its entertaining.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Again, I have to agree with Heather. Since I've been on this board, I've seen her trashed out all the time. She is so funny and is really a kind heart!
I am also on two other fitness boards and agreed, the shit that goes on here would never be tolerated on these other boards.
The punk ass'es make this board less respectable!

then leave. nobody likes you/wants you. your a trashbag.

for real, the reason people like me are here at EF is because you can speak your mind and learn abotu fitness without getting (too) censored.

the only forum that the crap goes on in is C&C. the other forums are for information, this is like any conversation or party, or social event, or business, or school. there are assholes, if you need someone to constantly have your back and you cant handle criticizm then kill yourself ASAP

 

[Sub-Zero]

a good example of an UNEDUCATED ahole!
Hey dude, get some schooling in spellin'!

you should be ashamed, i spell bad because i was in a military accident

 

[Sub-Zero]

nah, there is evil spewing in their posts...it's not a joke. I can take HITS with the best of them, but when it comes down to insults, it's just "women hating"!
I do take it with a grain of salt and could give a rats ass about the "haters" I just wish they would take their hatred elsewhere!

your the biggest man hater out there. you cant take shit except for your own selfish estrogenic cyrbaby bipolar meds

 

[Sub-Zero]

Ya just know some of the dudes on here that trash-talk are more than likely very couragious on line, when in "real life" if confronted then would run home crying to momma!
It's easy to be "tough" on line....wimps behave this way!
This dude you're talking about (I saw his post to you) is a coward and probably is so lonely in his "real" life!

and then there are some people who get no respect and are wimps in life, AND online

 

[swole]

lol sublime kills me

 

[Spartacus]

dullboy has witnessed lestat get roasted. lol

heh

 

[H_T_]

Friday's are wonderful...get to sleep in tomorrow!
It's all about the positive vibes

another mouthy soombka....