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if I stay in Kentucky. Here is the typical man around here. God, I wish I was kidding. I don't mean to be a bitch, but this is an actual guy hitting me up. Nice fanny pack, don't you think?
 
Why, oh why, did he feel the need to spread himself on the ground in that comehither way? LOL.
 
What does he do for a living and can he string two words together intelligently and in an engaging and entertaining fashion?
 
:lmao: @ the responses. I feel like I'm being a bitch though by posting his pic. He means well. I will probably delete it in a few. I'm just trying to show the types of guys here, and a picture is worth 1000 words in this case.
 
lololol he's layin some game on you HR, u know he will be sayin git er done all the time too. no doubt. i like the earplugs on his hip for the nascar racin. we dont act like that in my state, geigh i mean, k to you for posting that pic, we knows hows to treats our ladies's
 
BIKINIMOM said:
What does he do for a living and can he string two words together intelligently and in an engaging and entertaining fashion?
I have no idea what he does, and his grammar isn't the issue, but he has nothing exciting or interesting to talk about.
 
heatherrae said:
if I stay in Kentucky. Here is the typical man around here. God, I wish I was kidding. I don't mean to be a bitch, but this is an actual guy hitting me up. Nice fanny pack, don't you think?

nicefannypack.jpg

So, when are you due?
 
just keep surfing EF, you'll find your next jack_schitt
 
Lestat said:
just keep surfing EF, you'll find your next jack_schitt
:lmao:

I almost always end up dating men from outside of Kentucky, but I can't keep moving from state to state...lol. I'm a mess.
 
I know this probably sounds mean, but if he's desperate enough to be talking to a pregnant chick, he may not be what you'd want.
 
jnevin said:
I know this probably sounds mean, but if he's desperate enough to be talking to a pregnant chick, he may not be what you'd want.
:worried:

ummmmm....thanks?
 
heatherrae said:
I have no idea what he does, and his grammar isn't the issue, but he has nothing exciting or interesting to talk about.

IMHO Boring or Dull is as bad as having a poor command of the English language, which for me (If you are born in this country) = not very smart so that would remove him from what I would deem a dating prospect of interest regardless of any other quality that I would be interested in.

So this is an online dating thing I take it?

I will be honest, just from the pic alone, I didn't really see too much that was all that awful. You can guide the man towards better warddrobe choices (if it is THAt important). He wasn't a bad looking guy...
 
Cal_21 said:
I saw a NASCAR forum where he posted your picture with the same comment about girls in Kentucky...crazy how the world works...
:lmao:

I better delete his pic. I feel like a bitch.
 
heatherrae said:
if I stay in Kentucky. Here is the typical man around here. God, I wish I was kidding. I don't mean to be a bitch, but this is an actual guy hitting me up. Nice fanny pack, don't you think?

nicefannypack.jpg

maybe if you hadn't been such a bitch to jack_schitt, you'd still be together, ever think of that, missy?
 
jnevin said:
I know this probably sounds mean, but if he's desperate enough to be talking to a pregnant chick, he may not be what you'd want.

That's why I asked when she was due.

How about giving birth to your alcholic abuisive baby daddy before you start ripping on the quality of guys that would hit it now.
 
stilleto said:
maybe if you hadn't been such a bitch to jack_schitt, you'd still be together, ever think of that, missy?
Yeah, maybe I can win him back. :bawling: I miss him!
 
heatherrae said:
:worried:

ummmmm....thanks?


Not the way I meant it. For me, the woman would have to be really knocking my socks off if I'd think about getting into something with her when she's pregnant. From the way it sounds, you've gotten over the ex, but there's a shitload of issues that are coming up for you where whoever might be with you could be taking on a shitload of responsibilities. From the drive to the hospital to understanding that you'll be a little crazy while your hormones get back to where they should be, to everything kiddo. That's a lot of shit. I don't know. Maybe I just think about that stuff.
 
stilleto said:
maybe if you hadn't been such a bitch to jack_schitt, you'd still be together, ever think of that, missy?

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blueta2 said:
Here's a tip, don't look, it will find you!
Really? You mean Mr right will just come knock on my door and ask me out? COOL!

:lmao:
 
Faizakafez said:
according to yahoo

Louisville Slugger Museum Rated #1 things to do in kentucky
That is a weird #1. I can think of a dozen better things to do in Ky than the Louisville Slugger Museum.
 
blueta2 said:
Here's a tip, don't look, it will find you!
True. You're a very attractive woman(if that's you in your picture), and you seem to have a sense of humor. But nothing is less appealing than a woman that tries to hard or feels a sense of urgency with everything. You'll be fine.
 
blueta2 said:
Here's a tip, don't look, it will find you!

Really? I figured you set a trap to get your handsome man.

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jnevin said:
Not the way I meant it. For me, the woman would have to be really knocking my socks off if I'd think about getting into something with her when she's pregnant. From the way it sounds, you've gotten over the ex, but there's a shitload of issues that are coming up for you where whoever might be with you could be taking on a shitload of responsibilities. From the drive to the hospital to understanding that you'll be a little crazy while your hormones get back to where they should be, to everything kiddo. That's a lot of shit. I don't know. Maybe I just think about that stuff.

I understand where Jnevin is coming from and to some extent, he is sorta right.

My circumstances were not *happy resposiblity* (like yours) but it was A LOT to ask any man to take on, just as it would be for any man that agreed t enter your life right now so you can't be upset, actually you should be happy that a guy is respectfull of your present situation if he says, "this is a bit much for me right now".... A had a lot of guys all into tapping my ass and not so many who really cared about ME or MY SITUATION....

But my husband and I found one another in spite of BOTH of our crazy circumstances (We keep his half of it off elite).

It will take an amazing man to want to take on such responsibility but that isn't a bad thing. Just means that you will INSTANTLY weed out all the men that are not worthy for you and your son.

You seem like a very sweet, generous lady. We can see that you are bright and very beautiful. You and your son will have ample opportunity to have a great man in your lives. Because you and he are so rare, recognize that so will this man be. :)
 
Lestat said:
why did you dump jack?
hmmmmm...

We just had a talk and came to a mutual agreement. I was doing different things than him. I've got a baby on the way and am focused on that. He has no baggage and is still wanting to go out, and I don't usually feel up for it. He's back and forth with work lots. We just were working out better being friends.
 
heatherrae said:
hmmmmm...

We just had a talk and came to a mutual agreement. I was doing different things than him. I've got a baby on the way and am focused on that. He has no baggage and is still wanting to go out, and I don't usually feel up for it. He's back and forth with work lots. We just were working out better being friends.

I think he took it pretty hard.





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BIKINIMOM said:
I understand where Jnevin is coming from and to some extent, he is sorta right.

My circumstances were not *happy resposiblity* (like yours) but it was A LOT to ask any man to take on, just as it would be for any man that agreed t enter your life right now so you can't be upset, actually you should be happy that a guy is respectfull of your present situation if he says, "this is a bit much for me right now".... A had a lot of guys all into tapping my ass and not so many who really cared about ME or MY SITUATION....

But my husband and I found one another in spite of BOTH of our crazy circumstances (We keep his half of it off elite).

It will take an amazing man to want to take on such responsibility but that isn't a bad thing. Just means that you will INSTANTLY weed out all the men that are not worthy for you and your son.

You seem like a very sweet, generous lady. We can see that you are bright and very beautiful. You and your son will have ample opportunity to have a great man in your lives. Because you and he are so rare, recognize that so will this man be. :)
Yeah, I'm actually not in a hurry. Sometimes I get really lonely, because it is just my nature to love having a steady bf. Most of the time, though, I'm busy trying to get things in order.

I have had a few nice dates while I've been prego. Nice guys, but of course they are cautious. No big deal.

I just am one of those gals who thrives on having someone to dote on.
 
all the whey said:
I think he took it pretty hard.





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Well, yeah, see there was the prime example of the lifestyle difference. I was at home watching movies that night...lol.
 
I wasn't saying there's anything wrong with single mammies. I just don't think much of guys that'll shoot for sexuals with a woman with a kid and not know what it could do to the wimmens or kids. I've had guy friends do it and seen wimmens friends deal with it.
 
jnevin said:
I wasn't saying there's anything wrong with single mammies. I just don't think much of guys that'll shoot for sexuals with a woman with a kid and not know what it could do to the wimmens or kids. I've had guy friends do it and seen wimmens friends deal with it.
Oh, he hasn't been "shooting for the sexuals" with me, in his defense. He was just flirting.
 
jnevin said:
I wasn't saying there's anything wrong with single mammies. I just don't think much of guys that'll shoot for sexuals with a woman with a kid and not know what it could do to the wimmens or kids. I've had guy friends do it and seen wimmens friends deal with it.

Quit being so nice!!

Tell her to spit the kid out before she starts trolling online for a daddy.
 
all the whey said:
Quit being so nice!!

Tell her to spit the kid out before she starts trolling online for a daddy.


Either way it's the same situation. The kid's just outside instead of in. And I'm not nice. Take that back.
 
rubberneck said:
alright........All the whey saves the day!!!!

thanks!!


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heatherrae said:

Sorry, I was out of line. I guess I am just old fashioned.

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heatherrae said:
Yeah, I'm actually not in a hurry. Sometimes I get really lonely, because it is just my nature to love having a steady bf. Most of the time, though, I'm busy trying to get things in order.

I have had a few nice dates while I've been prego. Nice guys, but of course they are cautious. No big deal.

I just am one of those gals who thrives on having someone to dote on.


I wonder how much MORE you would thrive if you had someone to actually dote on YOU for a change...

Just something to tuck away in the back of your mind, perhaps...
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I wonder how much MORE you would thrive if you had someone to actually dote on YOU for a change...

Just something to tuck away in the back of your mind, perhaps...
Yeah, I do tend to give more than I get. It is one of my faults.
 
HR, being lonely guides us into making bad choices. It's when you love being alone and the "icing" comes along, that is usually when you find a good guy.
Being lonely is not horrible once you get used to it :-)
Hold out for what you deserve
 
blueta2 said:
HR, being lonely using makes for bad choices. It's when you love being alone and the "icing" comes along, that is usually when you find a good guy.
Being lonely is not horrible once you get used to it :-)
Hold out for what you deserve
It's much easier to be alone than in a relationship. Some people can't be alone without being lonely...there's a difference. :)
 
blueta2 said:
HR, being lonely guides us into making bad choices. It's when you love being alone and the "icing" comes along, that is usually when you find a good guy.
Being lonely is not horrible once you get used to it :-)
Hold out for what you deserve
lol men love these bad choices
lonely=easy all to often
 
Did I miss something? Is the Jack HR romance over? Why do I never get the memos? Why is my whole post a series of questions?
 
Gambino said:
lol i've never lol'ed so hard at a thread before
did you see the picture of the guy? GOD, HUGE earphones clipped on his belt loop, the pornostache, the nascar shirt and badge, and a fanny pack. Then, the porno pose in the parking lot outside of some nascar event.

:bawling:

You think we would have anything to talk about?
 
Cal_21 said:
True. You're a very attractive woman(if that's you in your picture), and you seem to have a sense of humor. But nothing is less appealing than a woman that tries to hard or feels a sense of urgency with everything. You'll be fine.


why yes, that is me in my pic, sprinkles and all. Donuts are only funny when they are fat-free :-)
 
heatherrae said:
Yeah, I do tend to give more than I get. It is one of my faults.

Stop and listen for a minute...

Wanting someone to love and cherish YOU the way that you are capable of loving and cherishing is not selfish or destructive... and neither is holding out till you meet someone who will treat you this way and do it GLADLY!

I was the same as you, grew up similarly and so I chose partners that would treat me the only way that I knew how to be treated: abusively. I remember the first time a man doted on me. I sat there, uncomfortably not knowing WHAT to do as my entire life I had served others. And you know what? I GOT USED TO IT so much so that I would only date a man that reveled in the fact that he was selfless and WANTED to dote on me.

Just a little tidbit:

When you are gettting to know a man ask him this simple question:

"Are you a giver or a taker?"

Unless the IMMEDIATE response is: "YES"

the answer is "NO." and move on.

There are only two types of people in the world in this respect: givers and takers. When two givers align, it is a beautiful thing... think about that, a never-ending circle of giving. :)
 
heatherrae said:
did you see the picture of the guy? GOD, HUGE earphones clipped on his belt loop, the pornostache, the nascar shirt and badge, and a fanny pack. Then, the porno pose in the parking lot outside of some nascar event.

:bawling:

You think we would have anything to talk about?

Only if he LOOOOVVEESSS Cheeseburgers.

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heatherrae said:
did you see the picture of the guy? GOD, HUGE earphones clipped on his belt loop, the pornostache, the nascar shirt and badge, and a fanny pack. Then, the porno pose in the parking lot outside of some nascar event.

:bawling:

You think we would have anything to talk about?
lol yeah i did see the pic
and unfortunatly i know the look all to well, backwoods mi is proly similiar to back woods ky
but, in his defense, maybe he's happy and a good bro
but judging from your history/profession his interests are prly different
 
heatherrae said:
did you see the picture of the guy? GOD, HUGE earphones clipped on his belt loop, the pornostache, the nascar shirt and badge, and a fanny pack. Then, the porno pose in the parking lot outside of some nascar event.

:bawling:

You think we would have anything to talk about?


Yes!!

there is this techno song

Hell Bent- I like fast cars http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQn3FCIHLAQ



i like fast cars
i like the cars that go boom
i like to ---- in fast cars
i like the cars that go boom
do you have a fast car?
you know a car that goes boom
i wanna drive your fast car
i like you car that goes boom
 
Two words....black men.

1. We won't mind the extra junk in the trunk.
2. We know you'll be home with the rug rat while we're out cheating on you with the bitch you can't stand.
3. Your law degree will keep us in shiny new grills for the duration.
 
Gambino said:
lol yeah i did see the pic
and unfortunatly i know the look all to well, backwoods mi is proly similiar to back woods ky
but, in his defense, maybe he's happy and a good bro
but judging from your history/profession his interests are prly different
I'm sure he is a good person, just sooooo different. That is the thing. I have never fit in in Kentucky.
 
Dial_tone said:
Two words....black men.

1. We won't mind the extra junk in the trunk.
2. We know you'll be home with the rug rat while we're out cheating on you with the bitch you can't stand.
3. Your law degree will keep us in shiny new grills for the duration.



LOL...
 
I dont care how much of a giver a woman is, if shes a single mom its a no-go on all counts just on principle.
 
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