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I think im insecure

B0ARDIN087

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i really think im an insecure person and would greatly liketo remedy this. Whats the deal here i dont know why i ahve this problem. Everyone tells me im good looking i KNOW im certainly better then average looking. my body is better then average and im very intelligent. I have been accepted into my school of choice and will be attending there next year. I have good friends that care about me and are there for me. I have an awesome girlfriend who goes out of her way to tell me how much she cares. Nevertheless im insecure about my girl. i always wworry about shit with her. Shes never even been mad at me for christ's sake. I dont understand why I would worry. I just cant get her out of my head. Deep down i know everything is ok with us at all times but I still worry about this shit all the time. I hate it, alot. Anyone else ever gone through this i know its from my fucked up past relationships and i dont even get jealous with my girl. i just worry. maybe i just miss her and cnofused my feelings? wahtever just thought i would post about it i cant make sense of it and dnot need to think about it 24/7
 
What exactly are you worried about with her? All I see is

"I worry about shit"

"I worry about this shit all the time"

Worry about what shit?
 
Boardin087 said:
i really think im an insecure person and would greatly liketo remedy this. Whats the deal here i dont know why i ahve this problem. Everyone tells me im good looking i KNOW im certainly better then average looking. my body is better then average and im very intelligent. I have been accepted into my school of choice and will be attending there next year. I have good friends that care about me and are there for me. I have an awesome girlfriend who goes out of her way to tell me how much she cares. Nevertheless im insecure about my girl. i always wworry about shit with her. Shes never even been mad at me for christ's sake. I dont understand why I would worry. I just cant get her out of my head. Deep down i know everything is ok with us at all times but I still worry about this shit all the time. I hate it, alot. Anyone else ever gone through this i know its from my fucked up past relationships and i dont even get jealous with my girl. i just worry. maybe i just miss her and cnofused my feelings? wahtever just thought i would post about it i cant make sense of it and dnot need to think about it 24/7
Fishing for compliments?

Or, have your tried medication?

Or, maybe you should stop with WoW and try more real life?

Or, maybe hookers will solve the problem?

Or, maybe you could realize that no one is ever truely secure. Anything can be broken (marriages) or stolen (GFs). All you can do is just ride it out and see what you can do, Grasshopper.

Besides, I think your elf buddies miss you. :)
 
Tad more perspicuous please...You worried about your little Hindi girl, out suckin' dick? :confused:
 
lol. i haven't been playing much WoW I been busy. I dont know what i worry about exactly, maybe i just have anxiety problems? This might be it but i dont really wanna go on meds. What are traits of people with anxiety problems? Maybe im fine and just in a confused part of my life.I think a big part of it is i was never very confident as a kid but my confidence has grown a bit, at least in my demeanor. my insecurity is still probably lingering from when i wasn't confident at all. hopefully i grow out of it. when i really think about it I know that i have a ton going for me. maybe i just have too much free time so i spend it worrying. who knows, ill keep you all posted.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
I heard that fat bitch took my advice and hung herself....best thing she ever did :lmao:
hehe...you're mean...all she wanted to do was just talk about something else in your thread...what set it off?
 
Boardin087 said:
lol. i haven't been playing much WoW I been busy. I dont know what i worry about exactly, maybe i just have anxiety problems? This might be it but i dont really wanna go on meds. What are traits of people with anxiety problems? Maybe im fine and just in a confused part of my life.I think a big part of it is i was never very confident as a kid but my confidence has grown a bit, at least in my demeanor. my insecurity is still probably lingering from when i wasn't confident at all. hopefully i grow out of it. when i really think about it I know that i have a ton going for me. maybe i just have too much free time so i spend it worrying. who knows, ill keep you all posted.

bro I suffer from social anxiety,sometimes I worry about things till I almost freak about them,when I am around people im not comfortable with I get dry mouth,sweat shake,and feel a need to get away quickly ,my heart races,its bad man. I hope you dont have it
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
I heard that fat bitch took my advice and hung herself....best thing she ever did :lmao:

She was probably smoking hot and you scared her away.

I hope she comes back. If she see's this..I miss you, send pics. Preferably naked.
 
Boardin, it seems like you know what your problem is (youre insecure). Also, I might add, youre a teenager. Being a teenager is fucked up. Its just that simple. Teenagers dont do things right (adults dont either but for different reasons) because they are hormonally messed up. You should outgrow whatever youre going thru at the moment. Just be aware of whats going on within yourself and the world around you and youll be better off than 99% of the teenage population. God bless you.
 
TheOak01 said:
bro I suffer from social anxiety,sometimes I worry about things till I almost freak about them,when I am around people im not comfortable with I get dry mouth,sweat shake,and feel a need to get away quickly ,my heart races,its bad man. I hope you dont have it
dude ....the last thing you want to be doing is x then...thats alls im sayin
 
TheOak01 said:
bro I suffer from social anxiety,sometimes I worry about things till I almost freak about them,when I am around people im not comfortable with I get dry mouth,sweat shake,and feel a need to get away quickly ,my heart races,its bad man. I hope you dont have it
Damn, must suck to be your wingman when you try to pickup. :D
 
thanks smurfy. Ya at least i do know whats wrong with me. My girl knows i can be insecure but she doesnt mind as long as im not bitching about being jealous, which is something i dont do. So hopuefly my hormones get fixed up but not before they add a good 40 lbs of LBM :)
 
Boardin087 said:
no i dont think im quite that bad :)
Bro, you got alot on your plate with school coming up.
Every person here is sensitive at some level. You're still growing as a person.
You'll grow another inch or 2, your girlfriend will be #X out X+Y, school will come and go...Don't get to serious just yet :)
 
lol guys, the thing is i dont have social problems, i love meeting new people and am not shy. i just think i dont really trust people becuz 2 of the first girls i ever dated cheated on me (they were known to be sluts but i was a desperate fool back then) and my past 3 best friends have upped and moved. 2 out of state one out of the country. So i guess im just used to peolpe leaving me and its probably the source of all this.
 
ender,nah man it isnt always bad,for me it comes in cycles,when its bad I have a few drinks and im good to go

perfectworld,I know I shouldnt do it period but its fun every now and then,im not a habitual roller
 
Boardin087 said:
lol guys, the thing is i dont have social problems, i love meeting new people and am not shy. i just think i dont really trust people becuz 2 of the first girls i ever dated cheated on me (they were known to be sluts but i was a desperate fool back then) and my past 3 best friends have upped and moved. 2 out of state one out of the country. So i guess im just used to peolpe leaving me and its probably the source of all this.
normal....do your best....look for good people....they are out there...if they aint....fuck'em
 
Boardin087 said:
lol guys, the thing is i dont have social problems, i love meeting new people and am not shy. i just think i dont really trust people becuz 2 of the first girls i ever dated cheated on me (they were known to be sluts but i was a desperate fool back then) and my past 3 best friends have upped and moved. 2 out of state one out of the country. So i guess im just used to peolpe leaving me and its probably the source of all this.


Bro, you are going to have the majority of the people in your life right now leave sometime in the future. (some will move some will let you down) However, you will end up with a few people that are true friends. Also, your hot little Indian chick your not banging will be gone. So, just relax and enjoy yourself. I just went to my class reunion and all my friends that got married to a chick from HS or college is divorce and they are now making up time by doing shit they should have done when they were younger.

You are young, smart, good looking, got into a good college, etc. We are all jelous of you. So, everyday when you get up remind yourself that you are the MAN!!!.
 
a woman in a relationship isnt a fish to be landed and weighed, she is there to be enjoyed, as are you from her perspective. so relax

and the real reason that youre insecure about her is because, as per other posts, she hasnt slept with you.

chill out, enjoy yourself, youll never realise how fun the years youre in right now are until theyre a decade past
 
Boardin087 said:
who might be sb?
User named Sweet Bitch...I sent her ass away crying for hijacking my thread. She hung herself per my advice so it's all good :supercool
EnderJE said:
hehe...you're mean...all she wanted to do was just talk about something else in your thread...what set it off?
I got negatory patience for a bitch....and I hate people. That goes double for Canadians ;)
BileStwe said:
She was probably smoking hot and you scared her away.
I hope she comes back. If she see's this..I miss you, send pics. Preferably naked.
Then it would be Ulcaster self pwn3ge 2317/Qwerty-Victor[ else CONST i<=x+ count]
I'm not good with women, even hypertext effigies :whatever:
 
Boardin087 said:
lol. i haven't been playing much WoW I been busy. I dont know what i worry about exactly, maybe i just have anxiety problems? This might be it but i dont really wanna go on meds. What are traits of people with anxiety problems? Maybe im fine and just in a confused part of my life.I think a big part of it is i was never very confident as a kid but my confidence has grown a bit, at least in my demeanor. my insecurity is still probably lingering from when i wasn't confident at all. hopefully i grow out of it. when i really think about it I know that i have a ton going for me. maybe i just have too much free time so i spend it worrying. who knows, ill keep you all posted.

Maybe you think too much, overanalyze. They say dumber people are happier.
 
Boardin087 said:
so the solution would be to smoke and drink till my brain rots??? lol
dont laugh, i know a guy who was a right prick until he had a car crash and suffered a brain injury. then he was quite pleasant :)

then he had a relapse, and ended up bing a dumb prick instead of a smart arsed prick.

sucks to be him.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
User named Sweet Bitch...I sent her ass away crying for hijacking my thread. She hung herself per my advice so it's all good :supercool

I got negatory patience for a bitch....and I hate people. That goes double for Canadians ;)

Then it would be Ulcaster self pwn3ge 2317/Qwerty-Victor[ else CONST i<=x+ count]
I'm not good with women, even hypertext effigies :whatever:

lol.
so thats why she disappeared? you scared her away.
remind me not to get on your bad side.
 
Robert Jan said:
I sympathise. I must suck myself now.

good thing you're tall.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
I got negatory patience for a bitch....and I hate people. That goes double for Canadians ;)
Careful or I'll have to do the Canadian thing and write a very stern letter your way. I'd send our army after you, but they're too busy with the street sweeper right now.

:doublefi:
 
GoldenDelicious said:
and the real reason that youre insecure about her is because, as per other posts, she hasnt slept with you.
Absolutely. I think you should sleep with her best friend. Trust me, she wants you.
 
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