I need to know why I can not get a date

[Spartacus]

and honestly i think you have answered your own question
you have a hard time getting a date because you are 25 with a 9 yr old.
that's a red flag in a lotta dudes eyes, IMO

yeah it means they can't use "plan R" if there's a problem

 

[Jon79]

i think the problem is the whole single mom thing.

most guys do not want any of the drama that comes along with that.

sorry to say, but having a kid is up there with missing a limb or having an extra one.

in fact, most men would prefer a meth fiend, because at least they know they put out quite willingly.

thats bullshit bro

 

[Spartacus]

 

[p0ink]

thats bullshit bro

it's true. i can't think of a single guy i know that is willing to fuck around with some chick who has a kid.

i take that back. one of my good friend's has his own personal MILF to use and abuse as he pleases....and i don't think that is the kind of thing she is looking for.

plus, you have to factor in the kid's age when determining the amount of drama. the older the kid is, the more drama there is going to be.

and finally, keep in mind she is 26. do you know of a single guy in that age group that is looking for that kind of responsibility? hell, i am 25, and there is no way i could handle such a thing...and i doubt i am in the minority here.

 

[Jon79]

it's true. i can't think of a single guy i know that is willing to fuck around with some chick who has a kid.

i take that back. one of my good friend's has his own personal MILF to use and abuse as he pleases....and i don't think that is the kind of thing she is looking for.

plus, you have to factor in the kid's age when determining the amount of drama. the older the kid is, the more drama there is going to be.

and finally, keep in mind she is 26. do you know of a single guy in that age group that is looking for that kind of responsibility? hell, i am 25, and there is no way i could handle such a thing...and i doubt i am in the minority here.

yea i hear u bro

but i am just saying i am done with dealing with dumb party sluts

thats all im sayin.... but im 29 now

i don't know

 

[puddlemonkey]

i can't think of a single guy i know that is willing to fuck around with some chick who has a kid.

Not just willing but prefer it.

 

[Jon79]

Not just willing but prefer it.

thank you bro

better than dating some coke whore and then you hear about her gettin a train ran on her ass and snortin coke off her tits

 

[p0ink]

oh, i agree. the whole party slut thing has already come and gone for me. in fact, just seeing them and/or listening to the words that come spewing out their collective mouth makes me want to jump off of a bridge.

however, i think this is where i may be in the minority. most of my friends are still about random hook-ups and double teaming some quasi-decent looking girl with daddy issues.

i'm sure covergirl is a very nice and overall quite pleasant of a person. however, i think she may be looking in the wrong places to find herself some sort of companionship. it will either not happen, or she will be picking up the bottom-feeding assholes.

 

[zsp2133]

id gladly date her..........until she turns psycho

 

[blueta2]

When I was single, it was tough for me to find men also. I was never approached in a club, well except for geeks and kids. My friends told me men would not went to get rejected.
So I did the on line dating thing, but again all the men were in their early 20's. No guy my age was even remotely interested in me.
But I didn't give up and found the guy I'm with now.

Also some ppl here are right, most single ppl w/out kids have a tough time dating ppl with kids.
You're a beautiful girl.....someone will realize how great you are