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flexygrl

flexygrl

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I don't want to divulge all of my personal info, but I think i have a MAJOR problem on my hands.


I think someone is lying to me. I confronted this person about something. They denied the alligation. Not once did the person make eye contact. Infact the person just layed down facing the TV. The conversation was very calm. The person just kept on denying it in a very calm collective manner.

Now if I was acused of something this serious, i'd be all over the acuser. I would get upset and defend my innocence at all costs.

I don't want to get into the whole thing. But what do you all think?
 
If this is a situation in which is extremely important for the future of your relationship with this person I would definitely try to emphasize the importance of getting to the truth.

If you can, calmy talk to this person about the problem telling the person why you suspect they are "guilty" and try to let them voice their opinions/feelings. Stress that you care about the person and no matter what (hoping this is true) you will still care and love the person.

If the problem is BIG and they know they will hurt you if they admit to it its going to be harder for the person to be truthful.

If this is a problem with your spouse and there is no way he will come to terms and talk about it then I would definitely be worried if this is a BIG problem as it appears to be. It may even put a strain on your relationship and lead to worse things.

Good luck!
 
Nvr,

I was hoping you would reply. Just from the body language, does it sound like the person is lying? I am feeling so sick about this.
 
flexygrl said:
Infact the person just layed down facing the TV.
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May I play devils advocate? Maybe your accusation is completely off base, and he's trying to deal with you and hes just trying to watch some sports on the TV that he appens to be facing. Do you have any substantial proof of your accusation? Why are you trying to judge his guilt or innocence based on his body language? Im really feeling this guys pain right now, Lisa.
 
MaGilicuti said:
is the way the person is acting seem out of the ordinary?
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Of course I dont know but trying to catch some tube on a summer Sunday afternoon seems perfectly ordinairy to me.
 
anabollic,

I don't think so. This was a serious question. If I was this person I would get up, and if I was innocent I would get pretty damn angry.



Thanks IMB. I may consider it.
 
Cass,

No! And like I said, I can't really get into it. I know this is dumb, it's like telling someone, "oh something happened, but I can't tell you."

It's way too embarrasing, and I don't want to talk about it yet. Right now, it's still settling in my stomach.
 
flexy,

It sounds to me that your situation is personal in nature. From your description it sounds like someone you really care about. I don't know how long you have known the person or if they always have been truthful to you. In my experience, when a person does not make eye contact with you, and their body language is such that they look uncomfortable from the usual, they are most likely lying to you. I personally never deal with anyone who cannot make eye contact, it usually means they are trying to pull a fast one on you. You said you are still in school, so I would assume they individual you are talking about is in their very early 20's. I would have serious questions for this person. However if I knew the situation better, I'd say more.

good luck.
 
flexygrl, if this has to do with deception in a relationship, you may pm me. I have a fair amount of experience in this area, and ideas for what you may and may not want to do to make matters worse.
 
Flexygrl,

I hope this problem turns out ok for you. Like Cass ,I figured you were thinking your husband might be cheating. I'm glad its not that at least. But whatever it is has obviously upset you very much. I'm around if you ever need someone to chat with : )


Take care,

Scarlett
 
thanks everyone. Well the emotions seem to be settling down and ofcourse the rational brain is now taking over. I am so glad I posted on here, before I did anything stupid!!!!

It's still an issue. But like most things in life, I can't freak out about what I can't control. I just need to sit tight and let everything work itself out. I will keep you all posted.

Thank you so much to all the wonderful and caring people on this board. I trully consider each and everyone of you as my family and I am so glad that you were all there for me. Just posting gave me a couple minutes to let the adrenoline come down-or the estrogen....I am feeling much more calm now. What will be will be, I guess.

If anyone ever needs me for anything, please do not hesitate to contact me! I trully mean that, in every sense of the word!
 
flexygrl said:
Code,

No. It;s not!! Thanks for your concern though! It's very sweet!!
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Ok, because you know that's a felony he's trying to pull on you if he lies.....
 
has your husband been doing this since june????

i missed what he had to say for himself today, i had to take my auditing test. can someone fill me in please
 
IrishMobBoss said:
keep your head up,maybe sleep on it
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I don't know about anyone else, but I find this advice highly inappropriate. You expect her to sleep on her own head? Is that even possible? It sounds very uncomfortable!!!
 
LOL! Jack you are hysterical!!!!


This was a totally seperate issue. As of yet, I am soooo confused. I don't know what to do. I just can't believe this is real.
 
flexygrl said:

This was a totally seperate issue. As of yet, I am soooo confused. I don't know what to do. I just can't believe this is real.
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So then homeboy has TWO serious fuckups since June......hmmph. I'm even less impressed now.
Oh well.....you like black guys? LOL

(kidding)
 
LOL, I hate black coffee...tastes like battery acid.
 
Dial_tone said:


So then homeboy has TWO serious fuckups since June......hmmph. I'm even less impressed now.
Oh well.....you like black guys? LOL

(kidding)
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LMFAO

Oh man, I feel like such a dipshit.

I have looked at your avatar and thought "Why the fuck do those guys use THAT much tanner stuff in shows??!"

But if you are black, that is a whole 'nother thing.

Don't get me wrong - you should still lay off the tanner lotion bro.

I don't know why, but I thought you were a fat white guy... although to be fair, that is how I picture everyone on this board. Even flexygrl.
 
flexygrl said:
I like all people!!! Especially you. The incident in June wasn't him. BTW!
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Was it a guy that you were cheating on him with?

If so, then this would get THAT much better.
 
NoDaddyNo said:


Was it a guy that you were cheating on him with?

If so, then this would get THAT much better.
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Flexy and I didn't start sleeping together until mid-July.
 
Code said:


Flexy and I didn't start sleeping together until mid-July.
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Wow. Its fun to pretend, isnt it? A bit pathetic and sad, but fun in a retarded kind of way. Keep it up. It never gets old.
 
anabolicmd said:


Wow. Its fun to pretend, isnt it? A bit pathetic and sad, but fun in a retarded kind of way. Keep it up. It never gets old.
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I'm sorry, was that you as a cross-dresser or your female alt talking?
 
Code said:


I'm sorry, was that you as a cross-dresser or your female alt talking?
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Whatever man. Your whole "pretending like you are hooking up" routine was tired from the get go and you keep ragging it out...but hey, if it amuses you, go ahead knock yourself out.
 
flexygrl said:
I don't want to divulge all of my personal info, but I think i have a MAJOR problem on my hands.


I think someone is lying to me. I confronted this person about something. They denied the alligation. Not once did the person make eye contact. Infact the person just layed down facing the TV. The conversation was very calm. The person just kept on denying it in a very calm collective manner.

Now if I was acused of something this serious, i'd be all over the acuser. I would get upset and defend my innocence at all costs.

I don't want to get into the whole thing. But what do you all think?
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Darlin - go with your gut instinct....its always right
 
anabolicmd said:


Whatever man. Your whole "pretending like you are hooking up" routine was tired from the get go and you keep ragging it out...but hey, if it amuses you, go ahead knock yourself out.
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Actually I do it to amuse you. And I'm crushed you don't dig my style, whatever can I do to finally make an online friend as genuine as you?? :(
 
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