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SUNNY

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I need some advice. OK. Well on saturday I went out with my sister and I ended up hooking up with one of my friends at a bar. Then I left after about an hour of staying there and went to another bar and hooking up with another one of my friends. The problem is I am with someone at this moment. I feel guilty but I don't know if I should tell him or not. A lot of the time that I am with my boyfriend I have fun but it seems like that I want to go back to my old ways when I wasn't with anyone. I don't know what to do. Anyone have any advice for me?
 
You must not really like your BF much then. If he isnt making you happy leave him and do what you want. You dont really owe him anything.
 
But I do like him a lot. This is a guy that I want to spend the rest of my life with. But now that I see my sister doing what I used to do it makes me want to do it again. He tells me to go out with her but i can't because i will want to do this.
 
If I was cheated on, Id do my best to make her life hell. A lot of people think in the same terms. Think of the golden rule. Just brake up with him if your sure you can't be 100% faithful, getting dumped is better then being cheated on
 
SUNNY said:
But I do like him a lot. This is a guy that I want to spend the rest of my life with. But now that I see my sister doing what I used to do it makes me want to do it again. He tells me to go out with her but i can't because i will want to do this.

you obviously cant be faithful and would rather be a slut. break up with him instead of fucking with his head.
 
It can be hard to behave yourself when tempted, sure, but you have to decide what you want more. You can't have a decent relationship if you act this way, even if your bf never finds out the trust between you is fraudulent. Either decide you want to be a monogamous partner and be true to your bf, or tell him you want to be free to date other people and see how he feels about that. Some couples don't mind sharing. I'd never be able to handle it, but some people can. I actually know of a couple who have been married for ten years, both of them f*ck other people all the time, with the consent and even participation of their spouse. Maybe this kind of relationship would work for you... I dunno. If monogamy doesn't work for you, find a man who doesn't expect it from you.
if you really love your bf, you can be strong enough to resist the urge to hook up with other people. Try and remember how much you respect him whenever you're in a tempting situation. Before you sneak off to the parking lot with someone, think of how humiliated and horrible you'd feel if you got caught.
 
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