I need advice, please help, everybody!!!

[chesty]

Yes, it is nothing but trouble. So many women, so little time.

 

[beastboy]

She will recognize this and have more respect for you in the end. Be her friend and keep in contact with her, but don't push it past the friendship level. I know this is easier said than done, but it will work almost every time.

I was going to say the exact same thing...

 

[Peyote Killa]

I realize that I need to just lay off and be her friend, but like you said that is easier said than done.

I will try, because I know the rewards will be greater that way, and I need to do what is best for me. You guys have really enlightened me with some great advice, and I will need more so stay tuned.

Keep this advice coming, I will use all of it.

 

[Prometheus]

I've had this happen to me more than once - you are the spare guy - kept around "just in case," and because it's fun and makes her feel powerful. Wouldn't it be great to have spare women that you could pick and choose from and call on whenever you want? I think most guys wouldn't mind that, and wouldn't discourage the women unless there was a good reason. She's already made it clear that after sampling both, she prefers another guy over you, and every time you play her game you're setting yourself up for more disappointment in the long run. I say cut your losses and find another girl.

JMHO - good luck.

 

[AziaReign]

Peyote

Check your box

 

[Peyote Killa]

Peyote

Check your box

done,

alright great advice from the guys, any girls want to input their advice, or does it all rein true. I think it does, but if you can add anything else to this already sticky situation please do.
Thanx again

 

[p0ink]

why do you want a relationship with a girl that cheats on her boyfriend? do you think you are someone special and she wont do it to you? i think not. i've been there man, it is nothing but fucking trouble. seriously

 

[WODIN]

done,

alright great advice from the guys, any girls want to input their advice, or does it all rein true. I think it does, but if you can add anything else to this already sticky situation please do.
Thanx again

Use baby wipes, they can unstick anything.


Everyone is telling you to cut bait and leave it alone.

Yet you keep digging...

You my friend are looking for a line to back up what you want to do which is hump her silly and make her yours.

Don't look to any group for any justifications for what you want in life PK. It's a waste of time.

That's my take on it.

 

[Peyote Killa]

why do you want a relationship with a girl that cheats on her boyfriend? do you think you are someone special and she wont do it to you? i think not. i've been there man, it is nothing but fucking trouble. seriously

She never cheated on her boyfriend, we just hung out. When we were dating or whatever they were not together. That is why I did not try to do anything with her yesterday, cuz she has a bf, I would not want her to cheat on him with me, for the exact reason you just stated. I just want to know what I should do or say to get the information from her that I want.

Which is basically what it is that she really wants and where I stand in her life. That's really all I want to know. I'll be happy if she wants more, but it wont kill me if she says she just wants my friendship.

 

[Peyote Killa]

You my friend are looking for a line to back up what you want to do which is hump her silly and make her yours.

Don't look to any group for any justifications for what you want in life PK. It's a waste of time.

That's my take on it.

I know, I'm an idiot with a penis, what can I say. I know you are right, as is everybody else who inputted on this thread. I will do what is best, but it will hurt temporarily, but I'll be fine.

Thanx for the harsh honesty, I needed it. Much appreciated