I might need to take a break...

[healother]

I realize that a lot of people here I'm empty, have no personality, not enough friends, etc, and its true, i need to get myself a life.

EF isnt very conducive to me having a life, is it,



I know many of you wont miss me. hopefully while im gone, ill develop a personality so if i do come back you all will like me better.

 

[HollywoodSwole]

geez dude dont be so hard on yourself

 

[jh1]

Bro.. wtf?

You were hanging out with some peeps in a hot tub a few weeks ago.

You were out at some bar dancing with some chics you didn't know prior to that..

I know Samoth wants you to off yourself... and jackangel can't stand you.. but eh...

who cares...










































































































(Neither of them have ever kissed a girl bro...)

 

[ole farte']

I realize that a lot of people here I'm empty, have no personality, not enough friends, etc, and its true, i need to get myself a life.

EF isnt very conducive to me having a life, is it,



.

actually interacting with people here is better than nothing. you can learn a few things about different personalities, get tips on being humorous, you can learn a few things about human behaviour here. nothing beats real life interaction with real people though.

 

[Powerbuilder333]

I don't know you, but I don't have anything against you.
Get serious about your lifting and that will improve your outlook on life - at least that always works for me.

 

[samoth]

hopefully while im gone, ill develop a personality so if i do come back you all will like me better.

Nope, the age limit to developing one's own personality is 18. Sorry.

Please killself immediately.

HTH

 

[GoldenDelicious]

you have enough personality, you just need some life experiences so that you stop overthinking life instead of just doing it

if i were you, id move out of home

 

[jackangel]

lmao at peeps continually interacting with him as if the same exact things aren't said every time. his programming is sufficiently complex that it seems like he can vary his responses, and that he can understand what you're saying, but nope.

 

[jh1]

GD is on the other side of the globe...

I am at home with my 2 y/o..

WTF is JA's excuse to be on here?

Where's ur date, stud?

 

[jackangel]

this guy's an ultimate schmuck because of his endless crap on here, not because he's not pulling tail. i don't care about that.

you should stop posting so much, you lower the value of your already-shitty posts even further.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

yeah, JA. what he said!

 

[jerkbox]

just go rawk out with your cawk out

 

[H_T_]

go kill a man.

 

[Scentsofhumor]

Go see a psychologist, you need one BADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!
Professional help, you cant get that on the internet!
Forget about the stigma, I see one every week, I am slowly infecting his brain making him spiral into my madness! (it passes the time)

 

[jackangel]

go kill a man.

the man in the mirror?

 

[Subzeero]

whatever you do, stay away from creepy middle aged men!

 

[samoth]

the man in the mirror?

TI,OC,TCR.

 

[Subzeero]

you guys can get in serious trouble if this man actually attempts anything stupid. Worst yet, he succeeds!

Never offer such proposals.

 

[H_T_]

you guys can get in serious trouble if this man actually attempts anything stupid. Worst yet, he succeeds!

Never offer such proposals.

lmao. yeah right. what country do you live in? i'd get a monogramed mug if i got him to eat a bullet.

 

[Subzeero]

lmao. yeah right. what country do you live in? i'd get a monogramed mug if i got him to eat a bullet.

don't tell me i didn't say so. We are talking about healother here.

btw introduce us to your avatar please.

 

[Scentsofhumor]

you guys can get in serious trouble if this man actually attempts anything stupid. Worst yet, he succeeds!

Never offer such proposals.

He can't succeed, I have proven that, no such thing as death, every time I have tried, I just wake up in the rubber room in a new reality although it was certain death.
I just keep, waking up in the rubber room, like Groundhog day, there is no way out, no way. Death is just a flawed concept

 

[Subzeero]

He can't succeed, I have proven that, no such thing as death, every time I have tried, I just wake up in the rubber room in a new reality although it was certain death.
I just keep, waking up in the rubber room, like Groundhog day, there is no way out, no way. Death is just a flawed concept

that reminded me of hyperion, and the priest and that church, and true death. Its a sci fi book. I recommend it.

 

[CO B-man]

I realize that a lot of people here I'm empty, have no personality, not enough friends, etc, and its true, i need to get myself a life.

EF isnt very conducive to me having a life, is it,



I know many of you wont miss me. hopefully while im gone, ill develop a personality so if i do come back you all will like me better.

I know what you are saying!!

 

[CO B-man]

I realize that a lot of people here I'm empty, have no personality, not enough friends, etc, and its true, i need to get myself a life.

EF isnt very conducive to me having a life, is it,



I know many of you wont miss me. hopefully while im gone, ill develop a personality so if i do come back you all will like me better.

I am currently rekindling old friendships that my ex wife destroyed and I must say I feel reborn. Try it my friend your friends your true freinds will ALWAYS be your friend through thick and thin. Trust me on that and test that theory!!

 

[Powerbuilder333]

you guys can get in serious trouble if this man actually attempts anything stupid. Worst yet, he succeeds!

Never offer such proposals.

Subzeero's right. This dude hung himself on a video chat room and the law is running down the IP's of the people egging him on for possible prosecution.
Besides which it's just not playing nice.

 

[samoth]

that reminded me of hyperion, and the priest and that church, and true death. Its a sci fi book. I recommend it.

Anything related to Hyperborean?

 

[Scentsofhumor]

that reminded me of hyperion, and the priest and that church, and true death. Its a sci fi book. I recommend it.

One time, when I was in the hospital, I was literally watching, (as my mind was disassociated from time but full aware) passing realities move by, where as 'I' would normally follow one reality naturally in one pathway of time and therefore reality.
I, however was anchored in time, so I was watching for hours as I passed through each alternative reality.
Meaning, humans would change right in front me, medical equipment would change, rooms would change, and when the shift to a new reality would take place.
I paid attention, I was watching, and I would see things just morph. I had a sober view of something that should not have been seen.
But I watched, it's amazing, just amazing to see and go through, not like an instant thought. It was over hours and days. People would change, building, equipment would change, each seemed so real, but replaced by a new equally realistic entity, and done on a cyclical time frame.
I knew when the change would happen.

Well, that just is a scratch of the surface, but there is much behind the veil

 

[H_T_]

reality is much harsher than fiction. and stevie is on the cusp. where he will stay. it bothers me, because so many of my favorite people were wonderful sufferers. Mozart, Van Gogh, Poe....steve, evan, fox, take this and do something with it. you've got an entire internet community here waiting for you to make a move.....open up a window and let yourself fly, snuff it, lil' Alex, if you must, but you so desperately want to hang on.......there's got to be some hidden love or passion that keeps you alive. and i know it's not pussy. pussy is a side dish in the buffet line of the universe. accomplishment is the still beating heart, yanked out of an open chest. that is what we all really want to taste. drink blood, howl at the moon and then mount your bitch and take the nape of her nape in your teeth while you do it. lol.

 

[Smurfy]

his personality is what it is by this time. that wont change. but he will age and get more mature if even a tiny bit - and become more confident in certain aspects of interacting in the world - and he will be better off in that regard, with time. he's very immature and naive and clueless right now but getting hints from folks on the internet about life wont change that. it takes real world hands-on experience - trial by fire if you will in order to make any progress.

 

[Subzeero]

Anything related to Hyperborean?

"Hyperborea is a legendary continent in the Arctic. Before it was overwhelmed by the advancing ice sheets of the Pleistocene age, Hyperborea was warm and fertile with lush jungles inhabited by the last remnants of the dinosaurs. A race of yeti-like bipeds known as the Voormi once populated Hyperborea, but were wiped out by the pre-human settlers that migrated here from the south. These pre-humans built the first capital of Hyperborea at Commoriom. Later they moved to Uzuldaroum when prophesies foretold of Commoriom's doom."

Hyperion, a science fiction novel by Dan Simmons, in his Hyperion Cantos series. Hyperion is a planet, where a monster "god" resides, which is a site of constant interstellar battles.

 

[healother]

Bro.. wtf?

You were hanging out with some peeps in a hot tub a few weeks ago.

You were out at some bar dancing with some chics you didn't know prior to that..

I know Samoth wants you to off yourself... and jackangel can't stand you.. but eh...

who cares...

(Neither of them have ever kissed a girl bro...)

neither of them have kissed a girl? wtf, are you serious? lol.

Yeah the hottub incident was pure luck, the dancing part was okay, but i only go out once a week maybe and only dance with maybe 2 chicks a night briefly.

im on a better roll than i was before though, at least i can say that.

im just not sure if EF is helping to contribute to that in any way. Plus this forum-posting interest is one that not many women my age share. I'm trying to pick social interests that are social by nature or ones that i have in common with others so that we can talk about them. And EF is a way to be social, but its nothing like talking to people in person. And there arent many people to talk to about EF.

actually interacting with people here is better than nothing. you can learn a few things about different personalities, get tips on being humorous, you can learn a few things about human behaviour here. nothing beats real life interaction with real people though.

sometimes i wonder if interacting w/ ppl on here distracts me from interacting with people in the real world.

I don't know you, but I don't have anything against you.
Get serious about your lifting and that will improve your outlook on life - at least that always works for me.

thanks. Im going to try to be more serious, but im going to have a limit and not just spend hours at the gym, that way i have time for people too.

you have enough personality, you just need some life experiences so that you stop overthinking life instead of just doing it

if i were you, id move out of home

i think you are right. If I move out, it will be into a 1 BR apartment or maybe a studio apartment to save costs. they are around $400-500 in the downtown area (not the best housing or neighborhood) do you think thatd still be better than living in my parents big nice house in suburbia? I mean I could invite girls over more easily if I lived on my own, but would they want to if it was downtown?

yeah, JA. what he said!

what? i thought u were on my side, lol

Go see a psychologist, you need one BADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!
Professional help, you cant get that on the internet!
Forget about the stigma, I see one every week, I am slowly infecting his brain making him spiral into my madness! (it passes the time)

i dont wanna pay the therapy fees and put in the time for it.

I am currently rekindling old friendships that my ex wife destroyed and I must say I feel reborn. Try it my friend your friends your true freinds will ALWAYS be your friend through thick and thin. Trust me on that and test that theory!!

thanks, that is good advice. I will have to try it. im fine with hanging with old friends as long as it takes me to new places.

his personality is what it is by this time. that wont change. but he will age and get more mature if even a tiny bit - and become more confident in certain aspects of interacting in the world - and he will be better off in that regard, with time. he's very immature and naive and clueless right now but getting hints from folks on the internet about life wont change that. it takes real world hands-on experience - trial by fire if you will in order to make any progress.

you dont think people can change over time? wow, now you are the depressing person.

I believe I can learn to have a better outlook on life, and be a more happy and enjoyable person to be around.

 

[youngguns]

this guy's an ultimate schmuck because of his endless crap on here, not because he's not pulling tail. i don't care about that.

you should stop posting so much, you lower the value of your already-shitty posts even further.

thats what you said about me

 

[DannoMight]

start taking extasy and doing coke. and the hotties will come and you may too. if you have it they will come.

 

[healother]

thats what you said about me

you are cool, im glad u are on this forum, all the haters can go blow themselves.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

steve: get a sharehouse somewhere good, dont live alone. live with at elast 2 more people, so taht you can get to know their friedns, tehir friends frieds, etc

living in teh burbs is fine and good but if youre a socially isolated person who doesnt get people back home easily, its not useful. far better is a small share apartment within walking distance to teh party strip, or college bars - then you do something called "predrinks at my house" or "afterparty at my house"

also the second comment was in response to jh1

 

[jh1]

steve: get a sharehouse somewhere good, dont live alone. live with at elast 2 more people, so taht you can get to know their friedns, tehir friends frieds, etc

living in teh burbs is fine and good but if youre a socially isolated person who doesnt get people back home easily, its not useful. far better is a small share apartment within walking distance to teh party strip, or college bars - then you do something called "predrinks at my house" or "afterparty at my house"

also the second comment was in response to jh1

did someone say afterparty?

 

[javaguru]

Healother needs to check out JH1's instructional video I posted in the "What is love thread."

 

[heatherrae]

I realize that a lot of people here I'm empty, have no personality, not enough friends, etc, and its true, i need to get myself a life.

EF isnt very conducive to me having a life, is it,



I know many of you wont miss me. hopefully while im gone, ill develop a personality so if i do come back you all will like me better.

good idea.

Get some interests, some desires, some passions and enjoy life! =-)

Fill up your vessel before you offer others a sip.

 

[heavy_duty]

Good thread, 2 things though.

(i) We will not miss you.
(ii) Don't come back.

I realize that a lot of people here I'm empty, have no personality, not enough friends, etc, and its true, i need to get myself a life.

EF isnt very conducive to me having a life, is it,



I know many of you wont miss me. hopefully while im gone, ill develop a personality so if i do come back you all will like me better.

 

[-SD-]

But youve already taken a break before. When you were foxgel, when you were evansteve, and now when you are healother. I dont see it changing much unless you actually do something in the interim like move out of your folks place, that is the first step. All other things are secondary.

 

[heavy_duty]

intervention time

 

[H_T_]

i'd like to take your neck and snap it.

 

[healother]

steve: get a sharehouse somewhere good, dont live alone. live with at elast 2 more people, so taht you can get to know their friedns, tehir friends frieds, etc

living in teh burbs is fine and good but if youre a socially isolated person who doesnt get people back home easily, its not useful. far better is a small share apartment within walking distance to teh party strip, or college bars - then you do something called "predrinks at my house" or "afterparty at my house"

also the second comment was in response to jh1

near the city is what i was thinking too. near all the action! I guess I'll just have to deal with the higher crime rate, lol.

what about roomates who make a mess of the place, play their music super loud, invite annoying ppl over, who pester me about stuff, keep me awake at night, leave junkfood out and tell me i should eat it, leave dishes in the sink, messes in the kitchen, a nasty bathroom with pubes all over the toilet.

i dunno, i dont think ive ever met a roomate that didnt come with their share of annoyances, and ive had probably around 10 roomates over my 4 years in college.

at the minimum i would need to have some specific people in mind that i enjoy, to be my roomates with me.

and in some ways i feel like itd be easier to have girls over if i didnt have roomates.

if im social enough, why should it matter whether i live with roomates or not? you can have predrinks and afterparties with friends too, just invite them over! living near some good buddies (like if they lived nextdoor) would be cooler. but when u start sharing the same living space 24/7, that can be problematic, unless you find someone who is very compatible with you.

But youve already taken a break before. When you were foxgel, when you were evansteve, and now when you are healother. I dont see it changing much unless you actually do something in the interim like move out of your folks place, that is the first step. All other things are secondary.

right now im slowly increasing my cash pot. if i moved out that money might dwindle away quicker on rent, and other things (my cell phone bill and my gym membership which are currently on family plan, and the food my parents currently buy me).
i want to eventually save up and buy a house. I mean buy it outright, I dont believe in being in debt.

so if I can move out, and still make my cashpile grow, i'll do that, but i might need a higher paying job first.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

near the city is what i was thinking too. near all the action! I guess I'll just have to deal with the higher crime rate, lol.

in the city, walking distance to party places. trust me. truuuuuuust meeeeeee

what about roomates who make a mess of the place, play their music super loud, invite annoying ppl over, who pester me about stuff, keep me awake at night, leave junkfood out and tell me i should eat it, leave dishes in the sink, messes in the kitchen, a nasty bathroom with pubes all over the toilet.

deal with it

i dunno, i dont think ive ever met a roomate that didnt come with their share of annoyances, and ive had probably around 10 roomates over my 4 years in college.

they all have annoyances, as do you

at the minimum i would need to have some specific people in mind that i enjoy, to be my roomates with me.

how about you shush and learn to get along with people outside your comdfort zone. then youll learn stuff. think about this: the girls you get with arent all going to be according to your particular specification sheet. you need to learn to socialise properly

and in some ways i feel like itd be easier to have girls over if i didnt have roomates.

no, actually its harder. taking a girl home to chat with all your interesting buddies = easy. taking a girl home to your empty apartment with a giant bed in the middle, sexual connotations = hard

if im social enough, why should it matter whether i live with roomates or not? you can have predrinks and afterparties with friends too, just invite them over!

so that you get to mix with entirely new social circles. funny thing that happens when you have roomies that you dont know that well is that you get to meet all the people they bring over. inviting your existing buddies over makes for a good time, but youre not going to socialise much and meet lots of women

living near some good buddies (like if they lived nextdoor) would be cooler. but when u start sharing the same living space 24/7, that can be problematic, unless you find someone who is very compatible with you.

no. you need to learn to socialise, so that YOU are compatible with others.

at the moment, truthfully, youre probably a neurotic, pain in the ass guy to live with. your problems will all dissappear once you socialise yourself - be around other people learn to be socially adaptive etc.

the root cause of all your problems is that youve been socially cloistered by your parents who pretty much brought you up locked in a cage, and so you were never exposed to people enough to understand wtf is going on, how social groups work, what motivates people etc. and to learn that, you have to mix with people different to you.

yia

 

[georgie24]

how about you go have a few drinks and get laid